
Thought for the Day - 4/26
04/30/2026
Thought for the Day
Now that you have a couple of
days under your belt of working
with the metaphor of repelling
magnets, we are going to talk
about them again in reverse.
I spoke with several people and
they told me that they recognized
what I was trying to explain when
it occurred within themselves
rather quickly.
It became a felt experience which
was recognizable for the most part.
We are talking about simple ways
to notice how quickly one shifts
from enlightened to humaning
unless they find ways to remain
consciously aware in the moments
of their days.
They also reported that it was a
reminder to slow their lives
down. For always this world
seeks to get you to join the herd
of ballistic human doing.
But today, I just want you to
notice when the now quite
familiar feeling of repelling
magnets rises within you.
See it, recognize it and feel it
You see, there are so many times
that I do not realize that I am
resisting rather than relaxing
until I acknowledge the discomfort
that I am feeling.
This is often the case when
resistance is more subtle, and
therefore passes by unrecognized
in the moment.
I then hit my pause button and
the first question that arises is
the question we have repeatedly
offered here over the years.
Is peace in my awareness?
Obviously, it is not, so then the
second question arises.
What am I resisting?
That's where our inner inquiry
begins.
As I said, so often I do not recognize
the subtlety of resistance, the
undercurrent of avoidance and
discontent (wishing things were
different and trying to change
them).
When we are humaning, the ego
can be very clever in its ability
to mask what we are up to so
that it can remain in charge.
And what is the overarching
purpose of such inquiry?
To show us that we are again
embroiled in the mechanics
of humaning, up to our eyeballs
in the finite, the personal, and
we have entirely lost sight of
our Infinite and Eternal Reality
or soul.
So the purpose of our inquiry
is to show us what we have
resisted, what we have not
accepted and embraced, not
to try to fix or change either
ourselves or our experience.
So normalize your experience.
Now relax into it with your
heart open and the proclivity
to judge and avoid gently laid
aside, thus returning you
to soul.
Work with this today and do share
what you discover.
As our thought yesterday
reminded us, being human
is not a solo act.
And there is so much comfort
in the recognition and realization
that we are not alone.
Consciously choosing to connect
with other friends who are also
choosing conscious lives, actively
extracting themselves from the
Matrix as are we, can be a huge
source of strength and support
to us if we let it be.
How amazing is it to recognize
someone from the same branch
of the Tree of Life as ourselves?
One who chose to incarnate at this
particular time in human history
along with us to help usher in
the next chapter in human evolution?
And we do this each and every day
by allowing ourselves to become
the science experiment, the petri
dish, so that our lives are living
demonstrations of what is possible
in the span of one precious human
life.
***
Prayer for the Day
Liveth Thou Me, dear
soul.
Liveth Thou Me.
May I never lose sight of
you in the quagmire of
this Matrix in which we
find ourselves.
For I would be a lighthouse;
ever reminding all within the
purview of its luminescence
of their own True North.
Amen
***
04/29/2026
Thought for the Day
How about a really great
go-to statement?
One you can pull out of
your pocket when things
are tough and you feel
uncertain, overwhelmed,
frustrated, perturbed and
in over your head?
I am never a soloist.
I am not a person, I am
a Presence.
Empowerment is not about
personal power, personal
understanding, its about
remembering to give it to God
and leave it there.
And if you do no happen to like
my use of the word "God,"
how about tweaking it a bit
and saying the following...
To be empowered is not to seek
personal power, personal solutions,
but to leave all power in its Universal
form where answers come from an
intelligence which is entirely beyond
my paygrade when they are needed
and where they are needed.
Nothing ever depends upon me.
Because the truth is that none
of the human stuff is about
you.
And none of the human stuff
depends upon you.
Nor does any of it mean anything
about you.
So memorize it and use it whenever
and wherever you feel outside of your
capacity to know what to do.
I am sure your mind as well as your
life will give you plenty of experiences
which are perfect for a reminder such
as this.
Let the results speak for themselves
and let me leave you today with
the following...
There is a beautiful sloka in the
Bodhicharyavatara which means
The Way of the Bodhisattva that
says the following:
If there is something you can do
about it, why worry?
If there is nothing you can do
about it, why worry?
I know I am powerless as a human
being and yet I rest in a sublime
state of peace and trust.
I worry about absolutely nothing
these days...
Do I have serious health challenges
right now?
Yes.
Am I swimming in medical debt?
Yes.
Have I recently lost a major source
of income upon which I depended?
Yes.
But am I worried?
No.
Do I feel afraid?
No.
Do I wrestle with sleeplessness?
Heaven's no!
I feel comforted and supported
by the Universe, I do not feel
overwhelmed, nor do I feel
abandoned by it.
I know I am loved and will be
cared for.
God is my Daily Bread, not this
world.
I draw from an Eternal Source
beyond this world's capacity
to remotely fathom.
I really think that is my greatest
super power.
Because being human is a unending
reminder to remember to take a step
back and allow the LIGHT to lead
the way.
***
Prayer for the Day
I can't.
God can.
So I think I'll turn loose of
the steering wheel, hop in
the backseat, and let the Universe
do all the driving.
Amen
***
04/28/2026
Thought for the Day
When I was a child, I loved magnets.
They were such a strange and oddly
compelling mystery to me.
I loved how they were attracted to
one another, how quickly they
would become attached when you
put them in proximity to one another.
But I think it was the magnets which
repelled one another than I liked
best and found most interesting to
play with.
I would toy with them until I found
that perfect sweet spot of tension
between the two where I could
feel the pull that existed between
them because it was coursing
through my body as well.
Close enough and yet not so distant
that they were able to push apart
completely, thus breaking the point
of any palpable tension.
They were interesting to observe.
You could not endure feeling that
energy indefinitely, because there
was a point where it began to feel
too uncomfortable to continue.
Strangely enough however, I loved
making myself feel that discomfort
for as long as I could stand it.
But inevitably, you were driven
to distance the two from each other
to a place of safety where the tension
could no longer be felt.
This is the nature of resistance.
Whenever you do not like something,
for whatever reason, and you feel
the knee-jerk urge to avoid, I would like
you to quietly observe your experience.
Treat your experience like a science
experiment.
Do not try to change it immediately
and do not judge yourself or make
yourself wrong in any way.
Just notice what you feel and observe.
For what I have found in observing
myself is that it is not the particular
story or meaning which I have given
to the experience that I am trying to
avoid which is the cause of my
suffering.
It is the palpable tension that I am
feeling which is indistinguishable
to that of repelling magnets.
I will continue to feel that so long
as I continue to avoid what I am
trying hard not to look at, or
enough time passes where I can
successfully suppress and repress
which usually takes a few days to
accomplish.
You know what I am talking about.
Out of sight and out of mind.
However, I have met people who
have been stuck in this position
for decades.
People in this position are very
attached to playing the role of
victim and blaming their misery
on someone or something else.
What I have noticed with myself,
however, as I continued to explore
my experience, is that when I
consciously choose to stop resisting
and just remain very still and open,
without telling any stories or
assigning any meanings to my
experience, just absolutely still
and open, that I no longer feel
that repelling quality of energy.
All I notice are nameless sensations
in various parts of the body.
Here, they can be felt, described,
observed and integrated.
A very simple process.
Observe this with yourself today.
But take it a step further.
After allowing the experience to
fully integrate, repeat the following
statement to yourself:
I am identified with the ego. Only
the ego is capable of experiencing
resistance. Only the ego can suffer.
Then turn your attention to the
universal experience of the Soul,
which is peaceful and loving
acceptance.
This entire event which you have
now experienced has been truly
miraculous.
On a planet with nearly 9 billion
people, how many do you suppose
are experiencing the incredible
luminosity of Clear Seeing as
are you?
Have a beautiful and profoundly
miraculous day today.
And may you remain consciously
aware of the force that is ever
with you, for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
It's good to be alive.
Thank you for the gift.
Bless these eyes.
Bless these eyes and this heart,
for I will to see clearly.
Amen
***
04/27/2026
Thought for the Day
As entirely liberating as a thought
may be, as our thought from
yesterday was, your experience
after having your eyes and heart
opening wider than they ever have
before,can seem confusing because
you may start experiencing things
that feel far more unsettling or
difficult than they do peaceful.
This is to be expected.
I cannot emphasize enough the
necessity of normalizing our
experience, whatever it happens
to be.
Normalizing is often an act of
profound kindness that you are
not used to affording yourself.
But here is the thing...
Each instant that you grasp a
little more clearly that there is
no such thing as a personal self,
and each instant that you identify
more clearly with the Universal,
Eternal and Changeless nature
of who and what you truly are,
the more the body has to shed
all the things which were
byproducts and acquisitions
of the personal identity you
have been operating as
through incessant repetition.
You see, when we say you are
on the soul's journey, that you
have always been on the soul's
journey, things like time, destiny
and karma apply only to the
individual or personal self.
But when you embark on the
journey As Soul, meaning your
identification is with our
collective identity, rather than
the personal identity, all things
which are the result of one's
identification as the personal
begin to purge themselves from
the body's cells, organs, tissues,
glands, DNA, atoms and molecules.
This is a good thing.
This is a very good thing.
This is even a boon for your entire
lineage, both backward and forward.
But it may well feel as challenging
and disturbing as it is wonderful.
Would you not be free of all of
this?
Trust now must become your new
best friend.
So do not be at all surprised
if you face things you thought
were long gone.
And do not count it strange if
you experience bouts of extreme
cold, heat or nausea, joint
pain, mild fevers or achiness.
Remember that the instruction
is to first normalize the experience.
Next, support the body in whatever
way your intuition suggests.
And never forget to ask yourself
sincerely, "How can I love and
support you best through this?"
This is the time of tenderness.
And your breath is the key to
everything.
Be attentive and gentle with yourself,
feeling deeply everything that is
presenting itself.
THIS IS ONLY COMING UP SO THAT
IT CAN LEAVE.
ALLOW IT TO LEAVE BY TRULY
BEING THERE FOR YOURSELF.
Presence is the fire which lovingly
burns to ashes all things which are
no longer necessary.
No stories. No meanings. No
interpretations nor any need to
understand anything.
These are mere delay mechanisms.
Just feeling, loving and supporting.
That is the instruction.
Nothing is ever as complicated
or as serious as you have made it
out to be.
How very fortunate you are
to be where you are, experiencing
what it is yours to experience.
A little gratitude will go farther
than you could possibly know.
A good mantra I have found
useful over the years is this:
This is a GIFT. Why not stick
around and truly be here to
see how it all unfolds?
***
Prayer for the Day
I am a limitless being of love
and light, ONE with all things
manifest and unmanifest.
Thank you for the countless
gifts and miracles which will
unfold in my life today, all
because I know that I am that,
I am.
Amen
***
04/26/2026
Thought for the Day
I would like to begin today's thought
with the final statement that I made
in yesterday's prayer:
"For the sake of all of us..."
It is one thing to believe that we are
all one, that what we do affects each
and every single thing that lives and
to have accepted this as gospel, and
it is quite another thing to have had
a direct experience of Oneness, to
feel our unity with each other and
all of life, knowing that we are one
being who is wearing countless forms
and faces.
And we all know how tragically
Christianity screwed things up by
making Jesus special, so special in
fact that he was the one and only
son of God, while the rest of us were
hopeless sinners who were entirely
beyond redemption without his
sacrifice.
This is the idea that God had to
allow his one and only son to be
sacrificed in a perfectly heinous
manner for the sake of all the rest
of us, so that all of creation would
not be forever lost to themselves,
to each other, and to God, and
by thus condemned to hell.
But even Jesus was known to have
uttered these words before his
ascension:
"Very truly I tell you, whoever believes
in me will do the works I have been
doing, and they will do even greater
things than these because I am going
to the Father."
John 14:12
What did he mean? What was he
really saying?
To one who has a direct experience
of oneness it is self evident.
First, he was trying to get through
to us that there is no such thing as
the personal self.
There is the Christ Consciousness,
the very spark of God which lives
in all things created equally, for it
is a part of an infinite ocean or
field we know as God.
Christ was not Jesus' name.
It was the part of God inside of
him which had saturated every
atom and molecule of his being
and with which he had become
entirely identified.
Secondly, he was trying to tell us
throughout his brief public
ministry that we are all the
Christ.
This is our changeless identity.
Next, he was trying to tell us that
all the ego or personal self really
is, is the portion of the collective
consciousness we each have been
channeling from those around
us and the etheric element of that
unified field of energy.
When you repeat something often
enough, you believe that it is the
truth.
There is a beautiful sentence in
the AA Preamble which says:
"Repetition strengthens and
confirms, and faith comes naturally."
We have each been functioning
from a mistaken sense of identity.
So we took all these repeated 1's
and 0's from this matrix of energy,
this amalgamation of data points,
and we formulated a sense of
identity from them, as if molding
them from clay.
This became our adopted sense
of self, the sense of I, me, mine.
But again, there is no such thing
as a personal self which is real.
So what is all the collective
consciousness? What does it
contain?
Remember the discussion we had
on our own trinity?
a) The personal self and every quality
possible to the experience of being
human.
b) The experience of love, light and
presence which we all are.
c) The Void or Emptiness; a primordial
nothingness which contains every
single possibility and potential in
a formless state.
So what Jesus was trying to get each
of us to see was that we do not need
to channel those things which keep
us believing in the pseudo self that
we made.
If that Collective Consciousness, which
is the truth of all of us, contains every
possibility and potential, if it is quite
literally Infinite, meaning that there is
no beginning nor end to what is
equally available to all of us, then
that, dear friends, is what the living
presence of Christ or God is.
So surely what is possible for each of us
is beyond anything which the mind can
conceive.
Every great achievement, every record
set, every work of art, every beautiful
sunset, every baby's smile, where do
you think all of this stuff comes from?
Our Consciousness, the Infinite
Unified Field we call God.
So today I want you to give yourself
permission to quietly reflect on all
of this.
Every breath that you take, every beat
of your heart, every thought that
you think, every feeling that you feel
is coming from that vast and infinite
field of information.
Aren't you magnificent?
So welcome the miraculous.
And remember..
"All things are possible to the one
who believes."
Mark 9:23
***
Prayer for the Day
I am all this...
Can you believe it?
Me a part of it and it a part
of me...
Everything is a miracle!
Every single thing is a miracle!
Every moment is a miracle.
I am a miracle!
The opportunity to be here,
to be alive, to experience all of
this, what an incredible gift!
Thank you for all of it!
I'm going back for more!
Why settle for crumbs?
I'll take the whole enchilada!
Amen
***
04/25/2026
Thought for the Day
When you can meet the more
difficult aspects of your
humanity, I mean really turn
and face them, accepting these
parts of yourself without
trying to change them or make
them wrong, welcoming them
fully into your heart with
gentleness, compassion and
kindness exactly as they are,
this hallmarks the beginning of
union with the Divine.
What more could be shared
today than this?
You have your marching orders.
There are legions of things
that will happen today.
And you will either turn and
face each one of them or you
will try to find some way to run
away from them in order to
avoid them.
And the myriad of reactions
to these experiences that you
will have will quite literally
be all over the map.
You will see parts of yourself
which are easy to love and
embrace.
There will be other parts for
which you feel rather cool or
neutral.
But there will be other things....
Things that you would rather
deny, ignore, distract, numb or
self medicate into oblivion in
whatever way which works best
for you when you are trying to
avoid facing and acknowledging
the uncomfortable and perhaps
even more painful aspects of your
humanity to look at and own.
Do you have the courage to
be still, to turn and face them?
Because the courage to stay is
a big one for all of us.
And from here, can you accept
and embrace the darker aspects
of your humanity and normalize
them?
They are nothing to feel shame
about.
But they are aspects of the collective
which you have repeated again
and again until you have chosen
to believe they are who you are.
They are not, but you have made
them yours through repetition
and identification.
You are a human being humaning.
You are having a human experience.
Truth be told, if anyone else on
this planet had to go through what
you have gone through in this life?
Well they would feel, say and
act this way too when they had
had enough.
You see, the ability to do this
genuinely on behalf of all of us
is the only so called price to
knowing the unknowable.
And each time that you do,
beloved, we each can breathe
a little more free as we experience
a huge sigh of relief and embrace
our newfound emancipation and
peace.
***
Prayer for the Day
I am ready to embrace all that
I have denied because it was
my truth.
For the sake of all of us........
Amen
***
04/24/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple thought is again given
you to work with today.
The instruction remains the
same.
Allow the thought to walk in the
space before you today, ever
informing your feelings, your
thoughts and your actions, for it
is a very good reminder to stop
taking yourself and life so seriously.
Allow the words to fill you with
peace each time you repeat them
to yourself, ever reminding you
to relax and remember to actually
give yourself permission to enjoy
your breath.
Deep breaths.....
Remember how that feels?
Try taking a deep breath now with
your head tilted slightly back while
your face is tilted a bit upward.
Now close your eyes and put
a smile on that face of yours
with your arms stretched wide.
Isn't that delicious?
Here is you statement.
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
Isn't that wonderful to hear and
such good news?
This being human thing has
never been a 'me' type of
experience, it is a 'we'
experience.
And that air you are breathing?
It is the Universal Life Force
that you are breathing there, pal.
It isn't about your breath, it is our
breath that you are breathing.
With each and every breath, you
are connecting with the very spirit
which abides in all of us equally.
Remember....
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
You are not nearly as important
as you believe that you are.
You have been operating under
a false sense of self importance.
You have been pole-vaulting over
mouse turds your whole life.
It is a burden, stressful and completely
overwhelming to believe you are so
bloody important, because it has always
been and always will be about “our”
presence, "our" influence....
We are each a satellite dish that
receives and expresses the energy
that is all of us united as we were
created.
We aren't the doer of shit.
Lifting the overwhelm off of you,
the energy that you made all
about you.
Your efforts...
Your contributions...
Your being irreplaceable...
You have been victimized by life....
Giving all your power away...
When it is all about you and your
efforts, your contribution, it is
severely limiting and it is a burden.
The cards have not been stacked
against you.
Allowing the illusion and trap
of personal doership to be
lifted off of you.
Pivoting out the individual into the
Infinite, out of the personal into
the Universal.
Noticing the absolute sense of
liberation and expansion of the
energy you are experiencing.
And also noticing the FREEDOM.
It is our Presence you are feeling.
It is our Presence which you are
experiencing.
And your world will not collapse
without your efforts, in spite of how
deeply you believe you are the one
who keeps it all propped up and
flowing on a daily basis.
From a bird's eye view, you look like
Don Quixote tilting at windmills
all day.
Isn't that exhausting and utterly
burdensome?
So let yourself off the hook today.
And give yourself the ingredients
required for fun and amazement.
It could be one helluva Friday if
you allowed yourself to take a step
back and enjoy the gift you have
been given.
Lay the adult aside and see how
wonderful it feels to be childlike
and unencumbered by worries,
concerns, pressures to perform
and unrealistic goals.
Have you ever witnessed anything
in nature ever worry about anything?
Allow your world to flow without
your aid.
It has been all along in spite of your
gymnastics and theatrics.
Oh.. You thought that was your
efforts that were making all this
happen?
Will the earth stop spinning on
its axis today without your help?
Every day is a good day to be
still and know with a child's heart
ever reminding you that you were
born to bear witness, not to lose
yourself in the false notion of
personal doership and the activity
of adulting.
For you are only ever as free as you
allow yourself to be.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today, I will give myself
permission to live free of
everything.
I'm gonna play full out
and swing for the fences
with a heart as wide as
the world!
Amen
***
04/23/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday was a day that the former
'me' would have described as
"straight out of hell."
First let me clarify something that
is very important.
The singular message which I
have consistently given voice to
for as long as I can remember is
that you do not need to change.
You are not broken.
And there is absolutely nothing
for you to work on.
Yet I have just spoken of myself
as though I was two different
people: current me and former
me.
And this is because one of the
more hilarious paradoxes of
the spiritual path to me is that
the more you stop working on
yourself, the more you change
and the more things change
in your life.
So while I say there is nothing
wrong, that there is nothing for
you to do and nothing to work
on, the more I have been able
to love and accept myself and
my life as it is in recognition
that I am already and always
the perfect 'me,' the more my
life has changed, the more
I have changed...
And for the better, IMHO.
All my rough edges were made
smooth. And I am kind and
gentle, spacious and infinitely
patient, loving and peaceful.
Hey...and I have a whole lot of
the wisdom thing going on!
Not just some of the time, but
all of the time!
And I dare to say these things
about myself because even
when I am having a rough day
like yesterday, I can always
take another step back and
be the most loving and tender
friend to the part of me that
feels such overwhelm, confusion,
ever questioning the universe,
about "Where in the h-e-double
toothpicks is my miracle?"
when no apparent miracle
is showing up to save the day.
I even noticed while in the check
out lane at Trader Joe's, when
the kind young man who
was loading up my groceries and
hit his pause button long enough
to look me dead in the eye
and ask,"How's your day going
today?" that I replied with a steady
return gaze, "You know...it's been
a day that 6 months ago I might
have had a royal meltdown over.
But you know what?
Today I am honestly just trying
to breathe, relax, trust that all is well,
and remember to smile as I do.
Because the real kicker is that
I could no longer be here to be
experiencing it. And that makes
it all a GIFT."
He said, "That's really great. I
hope it gets better for you now
that it seems you are ready to
head for home and call it a day."
A moment of connection, heart
to heart. And compassion and
kindness from a stranger who
would be brother and friend.
Does it get any better than that?
I'm telling you....
So that's the daily challenge
for all of us today.
No one can normalize your
experience but you.
Life is going to do what life is
going to do.
And humans are going to do
the one thing that you can
always count on them doing,
humaning.
And you will be reminded again
and again that you do not have
any control over any of it.
You do not even have control
over whether or not you are
even going to be given your
next breath.
That is mighty humbling, mighty
humbling...
Sometimes it will be exhilarating.
Sometimes you will want to pat
yourself on the shoulder because
you are doing so well.
(Which is seriously a joke if ever
I heard one because none of us
has any control over anything
other than whether or not we
will love and support ourselves
as we live the life which is ours
to live...)
Sometimes our day will go all
pear shaped and we will want
to go home, pull the covers
over our head and alternate
between spitting nails and
sucking our thumb.
But it will be our day.
It will be our life.
And we will live it as only we
can live it.
Now can you just do you, stay
in your lane and notice when
you are getting too close to either
the yellow line or the shoulder
and feel a bit of gratitude that
you are still here, still giving it
your all, still seeing how precious
you are and life is?
Because the deepest truth I have
discovered in the living of my life
is that when you can normalize
something, it is no longer such a
big deal.
Did you hear that?
Because it is very, very important.
This is normal.
My reaction is normal.
And life is just doing life.
The sky isn't falling and
I am doing me.
Normal. Every damn bit of it.
Hey self...could you use a hug?
Have a beautiful day my loves,
and know that I am in this
thing with you, right up to my
eyeballs, embracing the life
which is mine to live and sending
you all the love, encouragement
and support this heart has to
offer as you live the life which
is yours to live and experience
today too.
The key word for the day today
is normalize.
Remember that every moment
is a good moment to be thankful
and normalize the life which
is yours to live.
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever the day is that is
going to be mine to experience
and live today, let me remember
to normalize my experience,
smile and breathe, and never
forget to dance as I love my
way through it!
Amen
***
04/22/2026
Thought for the Day
I moved into the home in which
I presently live the day the Trade
Towers went down.
Good thing I don't believe in
bad omens or that could have
been a real bummer.
Few can imagine living in the same
place for as long as I have, but
there you have it.
I call that GRACE.
I mention this because I have
used my address as an example
to explain what we are all trying
to accomplish here because it
does so quite clearly.
It is an example which has served
me well since the day I moved in.
Let's say that someone knocks
on my door because they are
lost and are asking me for
directions to get back home.
I ask them where they are trying
to get to and they inform me
that their destination is Plano, TX.
Plano is a mere hop, skip and a
jump from my home in North Dallas.
My residence is less than a quarter
of a mile from a freeway which is
named North Central Expressway.
Here in Texas, this freeway is
commonly referred to as
'N. C. Expwy'.
And Plano is 5 miles north of me
off of that Expwy. which runs both
north and south.
What if I were to give that individual
directions to the freeway and then
I instructed them to get on the
southbound Expwy because all that
they have to do is go 12,954,001
miles and they will find themselves
safely in Plano.
This is the path of working on your-
self.
And it is what religion, the New
Age movement, all self help
groups, books, seminars, work-
shops, etc. try to sell you.
It is also what traditional therapy
has to offer.
Time, effort, energy and resources
all going nowhere which only com-
pound your sense of failure.
But what if I gave that same person
directions to the freeway and told
them to stay in the far left lane
because what they want to do is
get on the northbound freeway
and they will see exit signs in
approximately 5 miles which say
that you are now in Plano?
Which route would you rather take?
Both will eventually get you there,
for that is their intention.
However, one way will more than
likely take you decades if not lifetimes
to arrive at your destination.
And the journey will be fraught with
disappointment, discouragement,
uncertainty, calamity and chaos.
While the other will be a straight shot.
Now it really is up to you.
But long and tedious is just not my
bailiwick.
Can you accept the blessed truth that
you do not have to be different in
any way?
That you are only as encumbered or
unencumbered as you are preoccupied
with trying to fix yourself?
And you cannot seek salvation when
you have never needed salvaging
because you cannot find what was
never lost in the first place.
You can only give yourself permission
to be who and how you always have
been and ever yet shall be.
Because it is one thing to say these
words because you believe them to
be true. Here they can remain safely
in the mind as mere concept.
And it is quite another thing to open
your beautiful and fragile heart in
complete and utter transparency,
allowing the LOVE which you forever
are to engulf and consume you
irrevocably.
This is about alchemy, and it is about
living a great mystery.
Liberation is not an acquired state,
it is about you allowing yourself to
receive the LOVE which you
changelessly are.
And that, dear one, is a matter of you
opening your heart to the truth which
abides in all its immaculate clarity,
wonder and awe within you.
It was and is as available to a serial
killer as it is to a saint.
Thus your humanity does not
and cannot get in the way of it.
Will you allow yourself to be free?
Because that is what it all boils
down to is your permission, or do
you need more time to work on
yourself, to seek but never find?
You do not need a guru, a teacher,
a special book, workshop or
seminar.
You do not need to waste money
and travel somewhere other than
where you presently are in this
very instant.
Freedom really is free, in spite of
the bill of goods you have been
sold which has you brainwashed
into believing you are broken so
you cannot be free in your present
state and need time to work on
yourself.
You do not need to believe any of
the negative bullshit that has been
spoken over you which you have
mistakenly taken to heart.
The state of transcendence is freely
offered you in every single breath
you take.
Remember when the starship
Enterprise would find itself in
a tractor beam?
Well, that tractor beam is your
breath, ever pulling you into
the secret depths of your inner-
most kingdom.
So consciously follow the breath
today, and give yourself permission
to receive what no one else can
give you, because it is already yours
and it always has been.
Isn't it high time you allowed what
you are to tell you of itself?
***
Prayer for the Day
I give myself permission to experience
the freedom which is forever mine.
Oh God, reveal Thyself to me!
And in each and every moment,
I silently give this same permission
to all my world.
May all beings give themselves
permission to embrace FREEDOM
NOW with no further delays or
hesitation.
Amen
***
04/21/2026
Thought for the Day
There is a profound and highly
palpable harmonic resonance
which is felt when you live
your life in alignment with
the inner Trinity within you.
We haven't spoken of this
Trinity in a while, so we will
offer a quick review.
(1) A profound state of Emptiness
which is also referred to as the
Void.
There is nothing here.
There is no you, no reporter.
Free of any content, yet pregnant
with Infinite Potential and
Possibility.
It is mentioned in the Bible in
Genesis 1:2 where it says,
"And the earth was without form,
and void, and darkness was upon
the face of the deep."
(2) The first creation was that of
light, spoken of in Genesis 1:3.
"And God said, 'Let there be light,
and there was light."
The manifest form of this Infinite
Potential and Possibility is light.
And the feeling which is associated
with that light is love.
You are that presence, that love,
that light.
(3) While the third portion of your
Trinity is the human manifestation.
There is no difference between these
three. They are one.
Life also has two axes.
A vertical axis and a horizontal one,
forming the shape of a cross within
the human being.
The point where these axes cross
one another is found within each
of the 7 chakras.
The difference between the two
axes is one who lives from the
outside in and one who lives their
life from the inside out.
One who lives from the outside in
lives their whole life trying to tinker
with their humanity while trying
to control and manipulate their
life experience, feeling that their
inner experience is dictated by
their out one.
While one who lives from the inside
out is aligned with the Trinity
within. This one is not controlled
by outside experiences. Nor are they
bothered by their human one.
Their life is an authentic expression
of the Trinity within them, ever
remaining in alignment with all three
aspects of identity.
You are experiencing the body, yet
you are also experiencing being
transcendent.
This is to be in the world but not
of it.
The means given you to remain
anchored to the Trinity within you
is that of the breath.
Breath awareness is a living practice.
The will to live your life free of
suffering, free of survival, free of
uncertainty, chaos and doom
begins with commitment and
consistency on your part.
How attuned to my breath can
I be today?
That is the question that walks in
the space before you, ever
reminding you of your first priority.
When I forget, can I return without
beating up on myself, and just keep
threading my internal needle by
returning to the breath again and
again and by thus, realigning to
the source of truth within me?
This is your challenge for today.
"I am no longer allergic to being
human."
"No part of my humanity is ever
in conflict with the Trinity within
me."
"Breath awareness ever reminds
me of the truth. The breath is
my anchor to all three."
"There is no conflict between all
three states and I can live my life
in alignment with all three all of
the time."
"My only struggle has ever been
with my humanity. Now I can
normalize the human experience
rather than pathologize it while
constantly trying to work on it."
"My human experience is part
of the Infinite being that I am."
You are the one who stigmatized
your particular experience of
being human and you are the
only one who needs to normalize
it.
This happens when you no longer
make yourself wrong and allow
a thing so simple as the breath
to keep you tethered to all three.
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me keep life profoundly
simple today by anchoring
mind, emotions, body and
experience upon the breath.
And help me remain light
hearted about it, returning
again and again when I forget
and lose myself once again
on the horizontal.
I am in the world, but
not of it and my only wish
is for my human experience
to be a reflection of the
Trinity within me.
Amen
***
04/20/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple assignment is offered
today in lieu of a particular
thought.
The practice is that of wearing
yourself and your life today
like a loose garment.
Hold the highest and best for
yourself.
Hold the highest and best for
everyone and everything you
will encounter in your day
today.
Hold the highest and best for
our world.
But do not expect that anyone
is ever going to get it, that
anyone is ever going to get you.
Perhaps the most difficult thing
for any of us to face is that
there is no endgame to all this,
certainly not the one that you
have been trying to make happen.
We are all experiencing what
we have not yet had the courage
to face, living our lives as we
feel guided to do so.
You did not come here to make
a difference in anyone else's life.
You came here to experience
being you, and that you do, each
and every day.
Remain clear, trusting and humble.
Simply live your truth and do it
for yourself, in constant remem-
brance that you are not here to
have some kind of impact on
anyone.
You are here to be you, as only
you can.
Cease wishing for another world
other than the one you are
experiencing right now.
You have nothing to offer anyone
other than your example.
LOVE is about knowing everyone's
potential, knowing the world's
potential, without expectations
or attachments to a particular
outcome.
LOVE is always offered with an
open hand and a boundless
heart.
How could LOVE be called love
if it did not give total radical
freedom to everyone to be
exactly as they are, without
expectations, judgment or
demand?
Can you dare to wear your life
this loosely?
And when you notice that you
are taking yourself or your
world a little too seriously,
wearing it tightly once again,
remember your exercise for
today.
Take a psychological step back,
return to the breath, relax and
soften as you inwardly hold
space for our world, offering a
mother's tender and endlessly
compassionate and patient heart
to all that is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever is God's will is
destined to happen.
Whatever is not God's will
is destined never to happen.
And between these two
opposites, we are the architects
of our own destiny.
Amen
Prayer from the Upanishads
***
Dear God...
I cannot do anything other than
be me and strive to love myself
and my world with all my heart,
ever holding all of us in golden
light.
A light that holds the highest and
best for all of us, while knowing
the world is going to do what it is
going to do and I cannot change
that.
Grace fall upon me, that I might
live my life so aligned with truth
that there is no difference between
us.
For I recognize that to know this
and to live this is to know peace.
Amen
***
04/19/2026
Thought for the Day
Another short but sweet
practice is offered you
today.
Every moment can be
an invitation for miracles
if you (a) want it to be and
(b) allow it to be.
Most people do not pay
attention to their lives.
They live with their IOS set
on remote control, with the
ego large and in charge,
but at the same time, this is
a very robotic and reflexive
way to live.
I feel that the one thing that
all human beings are most
afraid of is love.
They do not want to believe
that they are incapable, as
the personal self, of meeting
love.
What ego is capable of genuinely
living their lives in a state of absolute
vulnerability and transparency?
Virtually all people leave
relationships, encounters and
experiences long before
they are actually over with.
That is a powerful statement
I have just made.
Don't just let it pass you by
without carefully and kindly
examining how you conduct
yourself in relationship.
See if you do not notice your
attention drift off, the walls
go up to varying degrees
(depending on the experience
or who you happen to be with
at the time) and the mind start
planning its exit strategy.
The sad reality is that no
ego is capable of meeting
love.
That would require being able
to consciously recognize that
every moment is a holy moment,
every encounter or experience
is also holy, every instant an
exploration of life lived from
the vestiges of the final frontier;
that of the totally raw, naked and
vulnerable human heart.
What makes every instant holy is
the fact that your choosing to
remain both conscious and irrevocably
vulnerable opens the floodgates
of heaven.
What else could an invitation
to the miraculous be?
It is one thing to know this.
It is another thing to believe
that it is true.
And it is an altogether new
kind of experience to actually
try to live one's life this way.
Can you not see that if the ego
were capable of doing this, it
would no longer be the ego?
So that is the assignment for
today.
To have some respect and awe
for the potential which is available
to each and every one of us in every
moment of our lives.
What could happen in your world
today if you were to remain conscious,
tender, naked and vulnerable?
There is no limit to the possibility
of every moment for one that
consciously chooses to live life
so bravely.
How miraculous can your world
be today?
Challenge yourself.
What have you got to lose other
than your sense of separation,
isolation and aloneness, as well
as the misery and suffering that
mistaking the pseudo self for
who you are actually entails?
***
Prayer for the Day
Naked.
Oh so vulnerable.
Curious.
May my very being be an
open invitation to
the soul.
Live Thou me.
Amen
***
04/18/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's look again today at expectations
and attachments.
This is to be a day of simple noticing,
followed by a conscious choosing to
fall back, relax and accept the most
sobering of truths that you have no
control over the people in your life
and withdraw all the energy you have
put into trying to help or fix them.
This is especially difficult to do with
life partners, children and relatives.
You are not failing.
You simply have expectations, and
things are not going the way you
wish or according to your timeline.
When you have expectations of any
kind, you will suffer, but only 100%
of the time.
Remember, they are on the soul's
journey and cannot do it wrong or
mess things up. Give them the gift
of their own dysfunction and the
freedom to do things as they are
destined to do.
If freedom is what you cherish, do
they not deserve the same measure
of freedom from you?
Even if that means they do not use
it the way that you would use it?
Remember...their soul's journey, not your
journey...
This is going to require you to deepen
your understanding and practice of
trust.
You cannot be attached to any outcome.
It will require a level of truthfulness with
yourself that you are currently unfamiliar
with.
It is the razor's edge you walk: on one
side of the blade lies attachment and
expectations, while on the other side
is acceptance and trust.
What if....
What if they agreed to play this role in
your life while they were yet in the bardo
between life and death, that this was
and is the plan?
All so that you could deepen your
capacity to accept and trust?
For peace is what arises to fill every cell,
every atom, molecule and photon of
your being when you let yourself and
your world be as it is and trust.
***
Prayer for the Day
I bow before the isness of life
today and every day.
Radical acceptance and trust
are my only practices from here
on out.
Amen
***
04/17/2026
Thought for the Day
Two mantras are given you
to work with today.
First, commit them to
memory.
Secondly, allow them each to
walk in the space before you,
ever informing and reminding
you that you are okay, that every-
thing is okay and you have every
reason to stop engaging with the
peanut gallery between yours
ears, drop it like a hot potato,
return to the breath and trust.
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
And do share how your
day goes if you would like to
chat.
***
Prayer for the Day
The 4 things which my
personal self is best at
are opinions, thinking it
knows best, free advice
and complicating the shit
out of everything.
I cannot think of a better
way to keep me confused,
off balance and chasing
my tail.
Sweet and simple are the
marching orders for the day
as I remind myself often of
the following:
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
It is a beautiful and perfect
world when I remember that.
Thank you for the gift of life.
Thank you for the gift of
my life.
I wasn't promised a today,
yet here it is.
Let me live it consciously
with care.
Amen
***
04/16/2026
Thought for the Day
Repeat after me:
What happens to my identity
does not happen to the soul.
My identity is only soul.
A human costume is not an
entity, it is a suit. It is the means
by which universal consciousness
can experience individually.
This is an experience.
This is only an experience.
I am experiencing it the way
that I am supposed to be
experiencing it.
Let me therefore breathe,
relax and trust.
A simple enough practice,
but one that will accomplish
two things:
(1) You will see how much the
mind balks, resists and offers
commentary which is not helpful
on everything.
(2) It will introduce the idea of
conscious awareness into your day.
We have no control over our
humanity, but by introducing
awareness into the mix of
our day, we are given the
opportunity to choose peace
rather than disruption, calm
and tranquility rather than
friction and unsatisfactoriness.
Do you control the mind, or does
the mind control you?
If you believe for a single second
that the mind controls you, then
you are assuming the role of victim
and are gaslighting yourself.
And that is a choice, my friend.
Perhaps one you do not really
want to be making?
***
Prayer for the Day
The biggest obstacle I have
every faced in this life is myself.
I'm done with the whole
saboteur thing.
From here on out I am gonna
ride with the tide and go with
the flow.
Amen
***
04/15/2026
Thought for the Day
Good people shine their brightest
in dark times.
That's a bold statement.
But I think our present times qualify
for that descriptor, don't you?
And guess what?
We are all good people because
we share the same soul.
It is the soul which makes us
beautiful to behold, not our
humanity.
Never hold anyone's humanity
against them.
We are all doing the only thing
we can, that which is our
destiny to do and experience.
If you are experiencing it and
someone else is doing it, does
it not stand to reason that this
is part of the destiny the soul
has chosen for you to experience
as well?
It is the meaning of the statement
which says, "Oneness is."
The soul is perfect, changeless,
and has never experienced
a single instant of suffering.
It has no troubled past to deal
with, no baggage or burden
to carry.
It never judges or is unkind.
The soul loves us without conditions,
demands, disappointments
or expectations.
The soul is one and it is 100%
indivisible.
This means that we do not each
have a part of the same soul.
100% of all the soul is, is contained
within each of us!
We are fractals of the same formless
being expressing itself uniquely
through each lens of humanity.
Does it not also stand to reason
that everyone is then, none other than
an expression of yourself?
Our humanity has nothing to do
with our Divinity.
Nothing the human being thinks,
feels, says or does can harm the
soul, nor can anyone's humanity
change, alter, influence or direct
the destiny which the soul has
planned for each of us, nor fail
to meet the soul's expectations.
The soul has no expectations!
If you are experiencing it, it is
your destiny to do so.
This is as true for you as it is for
everyone and everything else.
Everyone is perfectly on time, both
who and how they are supposed
to be.
It can be no other way.
How about, just for today, looking
past everyone's humanity,
including your own, choosing
rather to see the part of them
that is real, eternal, infinite and
changeless?
There is a fundamental law to
all seeing which says:
You see what you want to see
and you experience what you want
to experience.
Why expect the worse from
others when it is given you to
bring the truth to light, simply
by wanting to see what is true
and only what is true?
Feed the truth your attention
and the truth is what the world
will bear witness to along with
you.
One person, seeing clearly,
can save the world from
themselves.
In fact, this is how it is done.
One beating heart at a time
which earnestly cries out,
"Above all else I want to see."
***
Prayer for the Day
Bless all my seeing today
as I commit the day
to Clear Seeing.
I want others to see the
soul in me.
For why would I not give to
my world what I most
long to experience within
myself?
Amen
***
04/14/2026
Thought for the Day
Freedom is nothing more
and nothing less than being
able to live your life in
touch with the Soul, re-
cognizing that it is Soul
which is your true Identity.
For thou art that, yesterday,
today and forever.
When this is that which
you are most aware of in
all the moments of your
life, what is left to realize
or embody?
In January of 2000, in the
early morning hours before
daylight, the day before I
was preparing to leave for
a trip to Egypt, I awakened
to the sound of a dove cooing.
And I felt this giant pair of
wings embracing me from
head to toe.
And there was a vibration
or frequency that was too
palpable to ignore.
Exquisite...
Comforting...
Light filled...
These are words which do not
begin to do it justice.
I knew I was deeply loved,
treasured even, swathed
and held in the most tender
and loving embrace.
All I have to do is close my
eyes for a nanosecond,
remembering that beautiful
day, and I am so aware of
this presence, that I cannot
tell where it ends and I
begin.
Or are we more like water
mixed with water, inseparably
mixed?
Does it even matter?
All I know is I am not the same
and nothing has ever been
the same since.
It is a formless something
which deepens and widens
moment by moment until
there are no more edges
to my loving.
And you know what?
If I am silent and I listen
to you deeply enough, it is
what I hear in you as well.
It is the thread that makes
us, this planet and all
that is a seamless and
single fabric of texture,
vibrancy and diversity
which is so exquisitely
beautiful that it makes me
weep tears of gratitude
and endless joy.
But do not mistake form
for content.
Truth is formless.
It is a profound Emptiness
of infinite possibility and
potential.
It can take on any form.
I am certain it took the form
it did for me because of where
I was preparing to travel to
and because I was studying
ACIM at the time.
Look!!!
It has even taken on the form
of you!
But it is not the form.
It is what animates the form!
And here, it is posing as you,
hiding in plain sight!
Today is a day to rejoice,
for you are never not this.
And today, you will allow yourself
to be all that you are; that light
which illuminates the entire
universe.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
for the GIFT.
For I realize one does not
need to be special or
somehow noteworthy
to receive such a blessing,
they need only open
their hearts to the Infinite
and give it welcome,
disappearing forever
into the very heart of God.
Amen
***
04/13/2026
Thought for the Day
I think that the most difficult thing
for any of us to accept is the truly
humbling knowledge that no
matter what we do, no matter
how hard we try, no matter how
fervent and heartfelt our prayers, no
matter how much pressure others
put on us to do so, OUR HUMANITY
IS NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.
We are who we are who we are.
And guess what?
If this is true about you, it is true
about every other human being
on this planet, as well as our
world and the world at large.
Until we can accept this changeless
fact, we will be miserable.
Misery will be our constant bed
fellow and the frequency we will
broadcast to the world.
Is it any wonder why the world is
as it is given this?
The world will always be a reflection
of our inner state of being.
It can be no other way.
And until we can accept this, and
I mean really and truly accept this,
we will keep trying to rearrange
the deckchairs on the Titanic,
keep trying to redecorate our hotel
rooms, in spite of the fact that
we are only overnight guests.
There is no amount of trying to
change your humanity that will
suddenly make it the soul.
And there is no amount of trying
to change your humanity that will
suddenly make you worthy of
experiencing yourself as soul.
Therefore, leave the humanity
alone.
A vehicle is not an identity.
People actually believe that if they
can only experience the truth of
who they are, their humanity and
their lives will somehow miraculously
change.
They will no longer experience
trials and tribulations, calamity
and chaos, upheaval and uncertainty,
crisis and predicaments.
This is a lie.
You are not here to change your
humanity or your life experience.
You are here to learn to love your
humanity, as it is, and to have
experiences, as only your humanity
experiences them, to love and
support yourself while remaining
compassionately detached to
the very world you are here to
witness.
I've got news for you honey,
awakening changes absolutely
nothing about you or your lived
experience.
But maybe...
Just maybe...
Accepting and embracing all
of this, truly accepting and
embracing it, as it is, is what
LOVE is really all about.
Total, radical, unqualified
acceptance, without demand
or expectations of any kind.
Ever.
And maybe that is what God is
after all.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I bow before the
isness of what is.
Every moment, a quiet
letting go and letting
God.
I am as I am.
My life is as it is.
Others are as they
are and the world is
as it is.
May I accept all of that.
Amen
***
04/12/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday, at a good friend's
recommendation, I went to see
the movie, "Project Hail Mary."
You have to understand just what
a big deal that is.
I have gone to less than ten movies
in my entire lifetime and I will be
73 years old this year!
I had read the book over a year
ago, so I already knew what the
movie would be about.
It was so beautiful and the heart
has been in a constant state of
reverie and inner reflection since
going, which is almost 24 hours
now.
Without revealing too much
about it, let me share that
the overarching theme of the
movie is that of a reluctant ego
that does not want to do
something that will no doubt
be scary, completely out of
his wheelhouse, and will require
the utmost bravery and heroism
on his part.
Not only is he the right man
for the job, he is the only man
with his particular skillset to
do it.
So the powers that be tackle
him and put him in a coma
against his will, and his journey
begins.
He is the ultimate reluctant
traveler.
Like all journey's go, this one
was chock full of surprises,
challenges and opportunities.
By the time the movie ends, not
only does he prove himself to be
a hero, he is not even certain
that he wants to return to earth.
It is a beautiful journey of the heart.
So filled with love and unity
it will break even the most
stubborn and stoney heart.
It is pouring down rain here in
Dallas, TX, but the sunshine
that this particular heart is
producing and giving off is
enough to light the entire
planet!
What a great day.
Today will be a day of rest
for me.
One of the most important
things I received from the movie
was how much life force we expend
and direct toward thinking we know
best for ourselves and therefore,
how much energy we waste trying
to plan, control and direct our
human journey, rather than be
open to the idea that there is a life
which has been planned for you
that is far greater than your wildest
imagination and we have every
reason to surrender and trust in
that unfolding.
So today, how about hopping
into that back seat and letting
the Universe be in charge?
How about living the Mystery,
entering the flow and just
choosing to trust?
Sound like a plan?
Well it does to me.
So I leave you this rainy morning
with the famous Irish blessing...
"May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
the rains fall soft upon your fields and,
until we meet again, may God hold you
in the hollow of His hand".
Boundless Love,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for my life.
I never know what's next,
but I always know how
the story ends because
I am, afterall, on the hero's
journey.
Amen
***
04/11/2026
Thought for the Day
I woke up this morning feeling
so much gratitude and joy
because it dawned on me that
it is the weekend and I have
absolutely nothing 'major'
on the horizon, which is a
rarity.
I plan to take a longer walk
with Violet. I place her in
the kitty backpack and off
we go. She seems to love it
but because she is an indoor
only kitty, we practice being
in nature from behind a plastic
shell with plenty of air holes
to breathe and take it all in.
I also plan to play more with her,
perhaps take a nap and maybe
a movie.
Any recommendations?
Thus a simple little practice is
offered for today.
And let me be clear.
When I use the word practice,
I am always using the word in
the context of some form of
inner inquiry or observation.
Statement:
The part of you that is authentic
cannot be found by trying to
change your human experience.
From where are you looking?
Begin by observing yourself with
kindness and curiosity today.
Notice when you are trying to
change, redirect or 'help' your
human experience in some way.
Then repeat your statement/
question for today.
Take an inner step back.
Return to the breath.
Relax.
Soften.
Feel yourself opening like a
flower as you feel the breath
moving in and out of the heart.
You do not need to change
or do anything.
Just remember...
You are in this world but you
are definitely not of it, which
means no fiddle-fucking with
either your humanity or your
human experience.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the simple and
sweet little life which is mine.
Help me wear my life like a
loose garment today as I
observe it whilst it is happening.
I love this fully immersive
human experience.
It's always a Mystery.
Always a GIFT.
I am fortunate to be here.
I am fortunate to be experiencing
this.
I could be long gone and six feet
under.
May I never lose sight of that.
Amen
***
04/10/2026
Thought for the Day
No matter what…
NEVER LET THIS WORLD
DOMESTICATE YOU.
Throughout the years, I have
experienced hundreds of people
say to me something like the
following.
”I had it and then I lost it. I
get these glimpses a lot but I
keep going back to letting the
ego be the one in control.”
Listen.
That is crazy talk.
Bologna.
Horse hooey.
Conformity bullshit you inherited
from the Matrix.
What happens...and you have
to catch yourself in the act a
few times to see it in action,
is you take the Universal Energy
to which you have joined and
try to make it personal.
You grasp.
You cling.
You want to make it yours forever.
Your achievement.
The sign you've arrived.
You ticked the right box. Now
you can lean back, bask in the
light so everyone can see, and
enjoy what is left of your life.
What is inherently our energy
becomes your energy and that
is the precise moment in which
you lose the thread.
Honey, there is no such thing as
personal anything in this cosmos.
What happened is that you had
an instant in which you finally
got out of your own way and
experienced what is ours.
What is never not here when
you stop identifying with me,
myself and I.
But you tried to make it all about
you.
You tried to own it, to claim it,
and to hold onto it, and that is
when you stopped experiencing
directly what is always there and
never not ours.
Our shared identity...
I have the sweetest friend in
the entire universe and she has
changed so much in the past
few years. It truly is remarkable
to see.
More calm.
More peace.
Very little self pity and victim
consciousness which are huge
shifts in awareness.
She always says, "by your grace..."
Bull shit.
By her grace she decided to learn
what it means to love herself
and get out of her own damn way.
This is all.
And she is sticking that landing
because she is not taking credit
for it or claiming ownership.
But she is making it special be-
cause she is making it about me.
Very humble about it all, but
entirely inaccurate and
unneccessary.
This is about no one.
It is the only thing which is truly
existent.
It is the changeless substrate of
every living thing.
It is always there.
It is always ours.
And there are no prerequisites
other than the desire to
experience it.
In fact, that friend I just spoke
of?
She doesn't even need to stop
making it all about me and my
influence over her life.
She just has to keep wanting
this and only this, giving
it her allegiance and devotion,
knowing it does not really
have anything to do with me
or her.
Willingness and acceptance
are the keys to everything.
It will always be there.
Rain or shine.
Listen.
My internal dial is tuned into the
true blue signal of station
G-O-D.
I am broadcasting Infinity
live.
We all are.
The question is, are you doing
so consciously or unconsciously
because that is the difference
between peace and suffering.
And because I know it is not
mine, I never experience it not
there. Thus, I am it's conscious
conduit.
So play a little game with
yourself today.
Notice when you are personalizing
anything, then try the following:
(1) Feel yourself relax as you
take a step back in recognition
that you are doing it again.
You are making the Universal
a personal thing.
(2) Return to your breath, calming
the brain and nervous system.
(3) Remind yourself, "This is not
personal. What is happening is
supposed to be happening
because this is what is happening.
Let me surrender to what is and
enter the flow of it and trust. God
doesn't need a backseat driver."
And when you do have those moments
where you feel the flow, and your
heart is so light and you are in the
zone, remember, this is not personal.
This is the Universal Energy.
It is our energy. It is not mine.
It belongs to each and every
one of us.
There are no requirements, no
conditions, no religion, no teacher,
no book, no practices, nor anything
else to follow.
The desire to be consciously aware
of the ONE thing which always is,
is what allows all of us to see and
live humbly as its representative
on this earth, allowing it to flow
uniquely through our humanity
to all that is.
The truth may flow through you
but it will never be personal,
never be yours.
It will never ever be about you.
Isn't that grand?
***
Prayer for the Day
Spigot on.
I enter the flow.
And it's miracle time.
Oh goody, goody gum
drops.
I can't wait to see what
happens next because I
love surprises.
I got nothing better to do
than to step back and let
the light lead the way.
Amen
***
04/09/2026
Thought for the Day
People do not know this about
me, but I have always harbored
a secret love for old fashioned
true blue rock and roll music.
None of the newer stuff.
And especially not rap.
Gone are the days in which
lyrics actually meant something
beyond sex, grievances and
taking advantage of others,
or just plain doing away with
anyone who disturbs you or
your life in any way.
In 1982, my favorite album
was by Prince.
It was the “1999” album.
The song which I was over
the moon with was entitled,
“Let’s Pretend We’re Married."
The song ended with the following
words.
You think I’m crazy?
You’re probably right.
But I’m gonna have fun
every mother f _ _ ckin’
night.
You like to fight?
You’re a double drag fool.
I’m goin' to another life.
How about you?
And although these words
seem eerily appropriate because
of how he left this earth so soon,
and the manner in which he did
so has always seemed suspicious
to me, I changed the words to
those closing lyrics to ”I’m gonna
live a happier life, how about you?”
Listen, beloved.
It is fundamentally okay for you
to not live your life like everyone
else is. In fact, I have been doing
just that every single day I have
been here on planet earth.
Live your truth.
Have your experience.
No one seeks enlightenment so that
they can doom scroll like everyone
else on this planet as they play the
unsettling and nerve-racking game
of “Chicken Little And The Sky Is
Falling” with themselves, each other
and this planet.
Who the hell cares what other people
think when they see you dancing
your way through your life?
Whose life do you really want?
Yours or theirs?
How about no more pretending
to be a grown up today?
Huh?
What have you got to lose other
than all of your doom, gloom
and excessive misery?
After all, I have never ever seen
a single grown up who actually
looks like they are having a good
time here anyway.
They look serious as a heart attack
and run around like chickens with
their head's chopped off; all restless,
irritable and discontent.
Do they look like they are having
fun?
I don't think so...
So screw that.
I’m gonna march to the beat of
my own drum and I’m gonna
go where there is no path
and leave a trail of fairy dust
in my wake for others to find.
All rainbow glittery and glowy
as all get out.
I'm gonna LIVE, baby, making up
for all the time I lost when I forgot
that Fun was actually my middle
name!
What are you going to do with
your one precious human life?
***
Prayer for the Day
I’m gonna C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-E !!!
Amen
***
04/08/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday in the blog entry that
I posted, I asked the following
question:
Why do we so easily see the needs
in others but are entirely oblivious
to our own?
I feel this is one of the most vital
questions we could ask of ourselves.
I remember when Baba was still
alive and I was trying to help him
remember a particular disciple
who had given him a ring to bless.
I said to him, “You know, Jitesh.
Jitesh, Baba. His mind is very
disturbed.”
(It just so happened that Jitesh had
recently been diagnosed with a form
of mental illness which is extremely
difficult to treat.)
Without missing a beat, Baba
then said to me, “Oh yes,
Pelkyong-ma. Your mind is very
very disturbed.”
I was quietly insulted.
It seemed that I had a much higher
opinion of my mind and myself
at the time.
Over the decades, this has remained
a very funny inside joke to me, even
though it was anything but funny
to me at the time.
Baba has been dead for almost 30
years now but some of the lessons
that he taught me, without even
trying to do so, were so memorable
that they never cease to humble
me and remind me of what is true
upon each and every recollection.
Some people actually think they
know what it means to know that
you know nothing.
In fact, I know quite a few who
believe that this is true with
all of their hearts.
But it's not true.
It's not true at all.
For they have barely scratched
the surface of what one is actually
saying when they heartfully say
that they know nothing.
You see, it is one thing to know
that you know nothing, and quite
another thing to realize how deeply
in need you actually are.
This is one who really and truly knows
that they know nothing. They are naked
and humble and open and yielding
to the Divine.
They are a living breathing invitation.
They have been made ready for truth
to enter in and reveal Itself.
Priding yourself in the belief that you
have no needs, yet merrily going about
the business of living your life, waiting
for something to happen, daily adulting,
which is the one thing you do best,
is a blatant demonstration of an I know
state of mind.
One of the things which I heard Baba
say every single day in the years
that I was with him, was that he was
a tiny, helpless, little baby and he
didn’t know anything.
Oh, how his heart yearned for God!
Many times I caught him kneeling
beside his bed, praying when he
thought no one saw him, ever
crying out to the Lord, "Oh, God...
Oh, God... Reveal Thyself to me!"
He would often tell me that the
more he realized and understood,
the more he recognized that he
knew nothing.
For Infinity is so big...
He knew that without God, he
was nothing, absolutely nothing!
And this was coming from a man
who had attained the state of
Nirvikulpa Samadhi!
Listen to your heart today.
You do have needs.
And they are legion.
Be loving, kind and gentle
with yourself.
Take the time to care for
your innermost being in a way
it will never forget.
For how you treat yourself, is
how you treat your world.
And how you treat yourself is how
you handle the rest of your life.
***
Prayer for the Day
I see so clearly that there is
no deceit which is greater
than self deceit.
I saw a beautiful photo today
of Mother Mary kissing the
cheek of baby Jesus as she
cradled him in her arms.
I cried. It touched me that
much, to see how deeply
she loved her child.
Help me care for myself today
just like that.
Amen
***
04/07/2026
Thought for the Day
The way that everyone
processes life is the way that
it was modeled to them.
That is a matter of history,
programming, conditioning,
beliefs, preferences, biases
and judgments, cultural,
religious, local, national and
world brainwashing.
Rare is the human being that
can experience themselves
as anything other than this.
For as long as there has been
such a thing as human history,
it has been believed that the
only way to find God or truth
is through a reductionist model,
which is all about getting rid of
one's humanity or changing it.
This is not the way.
This is not your way.
What is necessary is to recognize
that when your humanity is in play,
your experience will always be finite
and unpleasantly unstable.
In other words, not this.
This is neither Zen seeing or
experiencing.
It is the manifestation of your
particular flavor of survival.
This content is not who you
are.
It is what was modeled to you.
You are the very emptiness
which existed and exists
before all of that.
It is still there, covered up by
layer upon layer of jumbled
up primitive stalagtites and
stalagmites which are concealing
the inherent radiance of indivisible
pure potential.
In every moment, it is given
you to either engage with
your humanity or engage with
the blank slate which you
inherently are.
However, you will never ever
source the truth by searching
for it through your human
experience.
Give yourself the GIFT of
allowing yourself to get to
know the you which existed
prior to the world sinking its
talons into you.
The only way to begin this is by
consciously choosing to not
get lost in the human experience;
to no longer give it your time,
attention, energy or resources.
Again, you are not try to change
it or get rid of it, you are
choosing not to engage with it.
Notice today when you are
about to lose yourself in the
experience of humaning, and
hit your pause button.
Do not try to change the human
experience to one you feel
is better, one the mind believes
is reflective of clear seeing.
For this is not clear seeing.
This is the choice to human
as the spiritual ego.
Simply drop it.
Drop it altogether like a hot
potato.
Return to your breath and
be empty of everything.
Bring your attention to your
heart center and notice
what you experience.
Do you not feel lighter,
brighter and more expansive?
And do you not notice
something which is entirely
beyond the human experience
which begins to reveal Itself?
You did not incarnate in these
times in order to go to war with
your human experience.
Nor did you come here to
get lost in role play.
You came to share the part of
you which you did not inherit
from this world.
Do not lose sight of that.
For only the soul is authentic.
Two options stand before you
in every moment of life.
To be the part of you that you
inherited from the world, your
humanity.
Or to be the part of you that
you brought to this world with
you, the soul.
Which would be more helpful
to you right now?
Which would be more helpful
for the world to witness being
modeled to them?
***
Prayer for the Day
Support my efforts to remain
empty today and no longer
pick my humanity up and
run with it.
Amen
***
04/06/2026
Thought for the Day
I hear so many folks complaining
on a daily basis about all the gut-
wrenching things which are
happening in our world.
Just when it is felt that things
cannot get any worse, life
turns around and shows you
that indeed they can.
There is so much upheaval,
chaos and uncertainty
in these times.
How can it not feel overwhelming
and challenging if the only laws
you live by are the laws which
govern this world?
Just a little reminder today...
If you are experiencing the world
as the ego, you are experiencing
the world inauthentically, and it is
to the very laws that keep this
house of cards afloat to which you
adhere and have given your faith.
But if you are witnessing the world
as the love, light and presence which
you forever are, you are experiencing
the world authentically; for it is the
laws of God to which you have
consecrated your heart in the blessed
assurance that it is here and only
here that you receive your daily bread.
Safety is born of truth, not of lies.
Never forget that you incarnated at
this particular time in human history
so that you might be a keeper of the
flame.
Never that presence more deeply
shared or felt than when you
experience your life as only you can---
authentically.
A few months ago I wrote a thought
which asked you to see, feel or experience,
through the faculty of imagination,
yourself unzipping a zipper which begins
at the crown of your head and extends
all the way to your feet.
When you notice that you are again lost
in the experience of your humanity,
feel yourself unzipping the humanity
suit and stepping out of it.
Notice how light you feel without
the heaviness and density of the
burden of wearing it, rather than
the activity of simply observing it.
You came here to usher in a new way
of being human.
That way of experiencing yourself is
the way of genuine authenticity;
experiencing yourself as soul whilst
seeing the humanity you are wearing
in this lifetime as a humble vehicle
through which you can consciously
touch the lives of others.
Not because there is anything wrong
with experiencing life as a human,
but why settle for the finite, which is
fraught with challenges and limitations;
ups and downs and constant curve balls
when you least expect them, when you
were born to experience your life as a
keeper of the flame and consciously
live your life as the light of the world?
***
Prayer for the Day
May I never forget my
purpose in this life; to
live as a witness of the
truth which never
changes.
Not through words,
but as a living and
undeniable presence
or demonstration of
the truth which is
always true.
Amen
***
04/05/2026
Thought for the Day
May this Easter be entirely
unlike any other Easter
that you have ever experienced.
May this be the day in which
you wax bold and embrace
the risen Christ within you.
Recognizing that not a single
blade of grass, nor flower,
no face you look upon, nor a
single thing in all creation
which does not share this
same Identity.
Long have you searched for
truth, for peace, for a love
without demand.
And today you find it.
The search is over.
Recognizing that it was and
always has been your own self
for which you searched,
yearned, ached and prayed.
Today you come home to
your very self.
The Door is open.
Long have you hoped to
find a way in, longing to be
welcomed home by your
most holy Self.
Long has your most holy Self
waited for your return, to
welcome you home.
Here you recognize that the
only price of admission has
always been the willingness
to acknowledge that you are
the risen Christ, the beloved
child of the Most High.
Welcome home, dear one,
welcome home.
Allow the light of the risen
Christ to thoroughly saturate
all of your atoms, molecules
and particles.
For you are that LIGHT which
illuminates the entire Universe.
Here you are!
Here you have always been!
A part of this as much as this
has always been and ever yet
shall be a part of you.
For you are the complete and
completed fully risen Christ..
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you that my time of
dreaming I am lost and
separated are now over.
For I am That for which I have
search.....yesterday, today
and forever.
Amen
***
04/04/2026
Thought for the Day
Several people sent emails or
texted this week, complaining
of feeling extremely hot and/or
sweaty, for no particular reason
which was obvious to them
upon investigation, while also
experiencing a burning sensation
in the center of their chest.
Some thought they should
go to the doctor for medication
to treat heartburn, while
others thought for sure that
they were experiencing early
signs of an impending heart
attack.
Calm down.
Relax...
And rejoice!
Not everything you experience
is a commentary on the state
of the body's health!
The inner flame is awakening
within you!
Lord Krishna said the following
to Arjuna in the Mahabharata
as they were preparing to cross
the battlefield:
"We are about to enter an era of
darkness together, and all we
have with us is the small light
which you are carrying.
If your heart breaks, or becomes
bitter or numb, that light will be-
come lost to you.
What will you do?"
I have two questions for you:
(1) Is not the night of which
Krisha speaks a fair description
of the decade in which we now
find ourselves living?
(2) Is it not a beautiful thing to
know that you have been chosen
to be a keeper of the flame in this
particular decade for the sake of
all humanity?
What a GIFT!!!
What a GIFT....
Your assignment is quite easy
today.
Simply notice what increases
your awareness of this flame
and what decreases your
awareness of it.
In addition, what do you notice
when you make watching the flame
a high priority in the midst of living
your life?
This is all.
May the force be with you,
for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Burn me to ashes, Lord,
that my awareness might be
raised to Infinity and there
abide in Thee unceasingly.
For I would know that I am
GIFT.
Amen
***
04/03/2026
Thought for the Day
So the day-to-day practice of
how I consciously choose to
live my life is what I refer to
as threading the needle.
Back and forth, with the ease
and grace of a artistic or
synchronized swimmer in a
water ballet, I flow in this
state of inner alignment
with the soul and that of being
the loving and always available
presence who attends to the
human being and her experience
as it arises in the midst of whatever
is happening there.
This is my living amends to
myself for having ignored
my own experience for so long,
mistaking love for something
you find from others rather
than from yourself.
I am not, for a single instant,
saying I ever did anything
wrong.
I did what I thought I had to
do in order to survive, mistaking
who and what I was for the mis-
created self.
That, too, was the soul's journey.
But I love being given both
the time and the opportunity
to make it up to myself.
Decades of lonliness and aloneness,
suffering and chaos, gaslighting
and self-abnegation are at last
seeing the light of day and feeling
the warmth of the sunlight of
the spirit.
It is no simple thing to consciously
choose to stay with yourself
when things are difficult, providing
yourself safety and attention which
is steadfast yet gentle.
I trust myself.
For I have proven myself to be
committed, consistent, loyal and
100% unconditional in my
devotion to myself.
My life is thus profoundly slow
and reflective. awareness is aware
of itself.
You cannot do this work if you
are constantly on the move,
living your life at Mach 12 with
your hair on fire.
Every day I watch people talking on
the cell phone while driving,
in the check out line, in the parking
lot, ever racing from here to there.
Frantic, overwhelmed, looking like
tweakers in Wally World at 2:00 AM,
is it any wonder you do not know the
sweetness of soul?
The activity of the body is reflective
of the frenetic nature of the mind.
Rarely do they experience quiet
moments where the nervous system
is given the opportunity to unwind.
Simplicity, sweetness, gentleness,
and profound care are the new
name of the game.
You cannot catch that thread on
the run.
Nothing more is required.
But nothing less will do.
***
Prayer for the Day
Reveal to me in the day-to-day
of life what it means to be
my own true blue bestie.
Amen
***
04/02/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday I left you to look at
the following questions:
Do I have an ‘I know’ state
of mind?
Do I try to bring truth to a mind
which thinks it already knows?
Am I trying to bring the truth to
the illusion of myself, or am I
bringing the illusion of myself
to the truth?
This line of questioning is not about
whether or not you deceive and
limit yourself in this way, because
the truth is that we all do it or
have done it.
The question that we all need to be
willing to ask ourselves is, “How
do I do this?”
Keep in mind we are not asked
to fix or change anything at
all.
I received the most diverse responses
and reactions to yesterday's thought
which ranged from gratitude to
anger, and some folks actually went
down the rabbit hole to be swallowed
up by guilt and despair.
So let me repeat something which
I have often said.
I am not capable of making you
feel anything.
Your feelings are your feelings.
They are your responsibility, not
mine.
Each message is thus a gift.
We are simply asked to see
ourselves with a bit more clarity
and honesty with each new day.
For we cannot experience a
peace which is stable if we are
constantly pulling the wool over
our own eyes.
Remember the old saying?
Denial ain't a river in Egypt.
If our eyes and our heart's are
not open, rather than experiencing
peace in the midst of all situations
and times, we inevitably find our-
selves still riding the proverbial
emotional roller coaster.
Peace is not something you try to
be when things are tough, peace
is your natural state.
Thus suffering in the presence of
other feelings reflect identification
with what you are not.
So what is the razor's edge we
are looking for in our day-to-day
lives?
The conscious willingness to see
ourselves with increasingly more
clarity and charity.
Instead of making ourselves
wrong, or trying to make
someone else wrong, we are
deeply present to all of our
experiences, realizing that
nothing can replace awareness +
gentleness + compassion +
respect + kindness.
You are here to be the human
being that you are and to
experience your life as only
you can and do.
But whether that life is a peaceful
one, a loving one and a kind one,
or one which is fraught with
restlessness, uncertainty and chaos
depends on the constant willingness
to remain aligned, empty, humble
and open.
When we can be with ourselves
and our experience lovingly with
increasing commitment and
consistency, the rewards will
speak volumes all by themselves.
***
Prayer for the Day
No matter what life holds,
I know my experience will
always be great because
I am the one who can choose
to be constantly and
consistently consciously aware
in the midst of every what is.
No one gets to determine
that but me.
Amen
***
04/01/2026
Thought for the Day
Recently I have written on the
subject of what the Bhagavad
Gita says are the two greatest
impediments to the path of a
true seeker:
(1) Attachment to the effort.
(2) Attachment to the fruits
of the effort.
But I feel that there is an
impediment which is far more
pivotal.
The 'I know' state of mind.
I'm with the Tibetan lamas
on this one. Sorry Krishna.
You cannot share anything with
anyone who thinks they already
know or understand.
And because they think they know,
they already feel they stand head's
above the crowd of other seekers.
I have several people in my life
right now who are just like that.
Sometimes it is tiresome to be
around them.
I find the saddest thing of all
is that they do not see it.
Thankfully, I know it is not my
job to help them see it.
Look, listen and smile....
That's about as far as I take it
these days.
They, too, are on the soul's
perfect journey, it's just not
the one they think they are
on, unfortunately.
Because they think they already
know, that they have had enough
direct contact under their belt
that proves that they now see
clearly, they cannot see how
what they think they know is
actually getting in their way.
And they most certainly do not
see the arrogance of that.
They cannot see that day after day,
they try to bring whatever nugget
of truth that comes their way to
the spiritual ego, thus they are
adding to the ego's spiritual identity.
This is why I love meeting people
who were not raised with any
particular spiritual religion or
tradition, people who never had
a guru, no experience as a disciple
and are happily without dogma,
rituals and spiritual bias.
Those belief systems are not there
to get in the way of their freedom.
Sure, they have the same old
angst and suffering from their
conditioning and programming
just like everyone else, but they
lack the belief systems that make
them continuously try to bring
truth to their illusions because
they cannot part with tired and
worn out beliefs and practices
which are no longer helpful, they
have outlived their usefulness,
their heyday, their time in the sun.
They cannot see that every single
so-called realization is filtered
through the spiritual ego and is
therefore, biased, and not that.
They are entirely oblivious to
the fact that they are trying to
bring the truth to the illusion
of themselves and what the
persona thinks it knows and
has accepted as truth.
The spiritual identity, which replaced
the former identity, now thinks and
deeply believes that it already knows.
However, they have simply written
another chapter in the book entitled,
"More About Myself."
My dear, it is what you think you
know that limits you!
We have to approach this journey
without distance to a goal which
we never left each day with a Zen
mind, a beginners mind, and an
open and empty heart which knows
that it knows nothing, knows that
it understands nothing.
Here is one who is both teachable
and reachable.
Anything short of this is pissing in
the wind.
How ready are you to see that
all your spiritual seeking thus far
has ever really gotten you is to
deliver you to this very moment.
That was its intended purpose.
Now it is time to drop every bit
of it, to drop everything and
be entirely empty and humble.
A blank slate.
Here is a canvas upon which
something truly liberating may
be written.
And with a entirely teachable,
vacant and hollowed out heart
say, "I am ready Lord. Show me
the way."
Your Forever Friend,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Asato ma sadgamaya
tamaso ma jyotirgamaya
mrityuma amritam gamaya
om shanti, shanti, shantihi.
Lead me from the unreal
to the real.
Lead me from darkness to
light.
Lead me from death to
Immortality.
Om... May peace be, may
peace be, may peace be.
Amen
***