
Thought for the Day
06/03/2026
Thought for the Day
Today I awakened with one
thought streaming through the
mind repeatedly, like a ticker
tape, and it was this...
No one, under any circumstances,
is ever special.
Nothing increases your value or
worth and nothing can ever
decrease it.
Remind yourself of this often
today, for the idea of specialness
creeps into your life in countless
ways each day.
All the while, you let it go by
unnoticed and unquestioned.
This is how you create the illusion
of separation, by labeling people
according to a hierarchy of worth,
the scale of which was created by
none other that you, I might add.
Who died and made you potentate
of the world?
I can hear some of you already.
"I used to do that, but I don't
anymore. I don't believe that it
is true."
You are deceiving yourself.
But today, you will not.
Today you will notice how you
reinforce separation through
the belief in specialness.
And you do it both ways.
Especially good as well as especially
bad.
Truth is, we are all equal, worthy
of love and respect, dignity
and autonomy.
Give everyone this.
Give yourself this.
See if you cannot feel the statement's
truthfulness as you look each person
squarely in the eye today with each
and every encounter.
Never allow yourself to forget this
as you brush up against life today.
Either no one is special or we
all are.
And it is this essential equality,
or sameness, which makes us ONE.
We are all in the selfsame boat
and we are all trying to do our best,
even though it is unnecessary to do
so, as we walk each other home.
This is the world you will witness
and experience today if this
is the world that you wish to see.
***
Prayer for the Day
There Is Only God.
This is God. That is God.
Everyone and everything
is God, and therefore part
of me.
Amen
***
06/02/2026
Thought for the Day
It is your ability to step out of
the loop of time, and everything
that has occurred in time, for
a single instant, which makes
all things possible.
Here is the door to freedom
plain and clear.
A couple of decades ago, I had
the opportunity to meet a very
famous woman.
She was the author of several
books which had been described
as "seminal."
Owner of a famous healing center
that attracted very sick individuals
from all over the world who were
willing to part with their entire
life savings, based on the furtive
hope that they would be healed.
And enough people actually were
healed each year to establish the
center as a place which we all need
to visit one day.
She also had an ashram where people
came to learn the path in detail which
she taught. Here they could follow it,
silently, doing everything she prescribed,
as well as receive the added boon
of learning to read and write Sanskrit.
Yet she had made a rather secretive
appointment to come and spend
an entire day with me.
And she had flown thousands of
miles (in her private plane) in order
to do so.
And why?
People came to her in search of
peace, looking for truth.
Yet she shared she knew no peace
herself.
Oh, she could prop it up and make
it look enticing on the outside to
those who were suffering and looking
for answers.
Why, several of her books had been
on the New York Times top 10
reading list for over a year!
She was also the founder of one
of the largest and most well known
'green organizations' on the planet,
believing deeply in the path of
good works.
Yet on the inside, she spoke of
feeling like a train wreck.
And she had no one in her life with
which she could share all of this,
having invested decades of her life
creating an empire that attracted
thousands and made millions each
year.
I explained that she was welcome
to come and spend the day with me.
We could chat as I went about my
day and I would be happy to share
with her, but I had no path to teach
her, no specific set of practices that
she could follow. And, heaven forbid,
absolutely no rules!
As she followed me around like
a little puppy dog asking me
questions, I turned to her and
looked her squarely in the eye
as I shared the oh-so-inconvenient
truth that all that she had created
was a total farce.
In no uncertain terms I shared that
shilling people out of their life savings
by charging exorbitant fees which only
served to make them doubt themselves
and judge themselves as failures was
something I just could not do when
I knew that none of that would ever
bring anyone any closer to the truth
nor give them peace.
For the truth is that you need do
nothing and loving yourself the way
that you are is the key to the kingdom.
There was no way to create an empire
by stringing people along, offering
them false promises if they followed
her way and her teachings to the letter
of the law, that would actually let her
sleep peacefully at night and feel joy
while doing so.
You cannot live the truth yourself,
yet share a lie that sends people down
another dead end, thinking they can
change themselves, by learning and
earning their way to liberation.
In the afternoon, she had a break-
through.
She got it. And the beatific smile
upon her face shared silently
what could never be spoken in
words.
In that instant she had gained
the universe.
And it had cost her nothing.
But sadly, she knew that to actually
live it would cost her everything
she had built her life upon.
There was no way she could
continue promoting all she
taught and shared.
Her world would need to change.
And you know what happened
next?
It left me dumbstruck and still
does to this day whenever I recall
what happened next.
She looked me dead in the eye
and told me she had to go
back home right now, this very
instant, back to her old life,
because there was no way
she would ever give up what
she had invested a lifetime in
building, there was no way she
would shut it all down and
turn people away.
She had to get back to her life
of stress, fixing, changing and
improving the ego, and teaching
others to do likewise, back to her
life of unhappiness and overwhelm.
About a month later, she actually had
a five foot Buddha statue shipped
to me from India with a thank you
note.
I have an Indian friend who has
said to me several times throughout
the course of our relationship with
one another, "Amma, don't you feel
terrible that you wasted so much
time doing all those things that took
decades of your life away from you,
only to find in the end that none of it
was required, none of it contained
the answers that you heart had yearned
for and therefore would not work?"
And I always tell her the very same
thing.
"All those things are what made me
who I am today and they are what
has made me relatable to others
who are searching for answers to
their misery. I have no regrets. I am
grateful for every step I ever took.
They led me here. They led me to
you did they not?"
But it is true.
I did walk away from it all. Every
damn bit of it.
And happily I would do it again
and again to know what I know
today.
I look at the face which stares
back at me in the mirror each day
and I happen to like her. I respect
her. She has so much integrity and
she has complete autonomy and
agency over her life.
She doesn't give a shit what
other people think.
She follows the call of peace
in her own heart with every breath.
Her life, not her words, are her
message. Her life shouts peace
in silence unto a world which
knows it not.
This always makes me think
of a line in A Course In Miracles
which says, "never was so much
given for so little."
And I will leave you all with this...
if you want freedom and
the peace which passes all
understanding, happily I will
show you how to find it from
within.
I cannot give it to you.
I cannot give you anything.
But I can show you that you are
your own answer, and the path
to freedom is found nowhere
other than within the tabernacle
of your own heart.
It is your own love for which you
have been searching all along.
You are the mosque, the temple,
the sanctuary, the church.
Let us stand together, shoulder
to shoulder, for together, we have
the glorious opportunity to usher
in A New Earth.
***
Prayer for the Day
Yes. I will be that one.
Amen
***
06/01/2026
Thought for the Day
How about a very simple thought
for today and an easy means
by which it may be seen and
practiced throughout your day?
Everything related to time is
impermanent.
Both time and eternity cannot
coexist.
The most salient feature of the Eternal
is that there is no where that it is not.
There is no room in Eternity for time.
Therefore, one is real and one has
been made as an attempt to fool you,
make you compliant and by thus,
imprison you.
Because of this, the only illusion one
needs to dispel is the belief in
time itself.
It takes the belief in time to believe
in the reality of the personal self.
For the personal self owes it entire
seeming existence to time.
No time, no personal self.
If there is no personal self, who is
there who can personalize anything?
Time is a massive delusion which has
been perpetrated against all humanity
and it has imprisoned your entire
planet in its web.
What happens to all things born of
time if you dispel the illusion of
time itself?
Does not everything which has occurred
in time disappear along with it?
So here is the exercise for today.
With every feeling, every thought,
every deed, every encounter, every
circumstance or life situation, hit
your pause button and ask yourself
the following question:
Is this of time or is it of Eternity?
If it occurs in time, you need not
concern yourself or dance with it.
You know it is impermanent and
therefore it depends upon the
Matrix for its seeming existence
or reality.
That is how the following acronym
for fear came about: false events
appearing real.
If the answer to your question is
that this is temporal, simply bring
your awareness back to your breath
and your heart, and do not hesitate
a single instant to drop it like a hot
potato.
Some thoughts of which you might
remind yourself are as follows:
I will not swallow the blue pill today.
This is born of time. I need not make
mountains out of mole hills over this.
I determine how I wish to feel. I will
not allow this to disturb my peace.
If it is ruinous to peace, I know it
is time related.
I will not bite the hook. I choose to
remain sovereign and free.
Never ever let yourself forget that in
the moment where you can no longer
be disturbed by yourself or anyone
else, you are permanently established
in Eternity.
For beloved, you are Eternity itself.
***
Prayer for the Day
I cannot be enslaved by anything
unless I have identified with the
personal self and thereby given
the power of Eternity Itself away.
There is no spoon.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=
XO0pcWxcROI
Amen
***
05/31/2026
Thought for the Day
It is such a remarkable thing
in this world to feel so
deeply peaceful and happy.
I cannot help but feel a certain
sadness as I walk through life,
experiencing what is mine to
experience, yet witnessing so
many people living their lives
in palpable despair because
they are so distanced from
themselves.
They do not feel their connection
with their own humanity and
through that connection, their
connection with all that is.
They look so sad, empty, forlorn...
Yet I am comforted by the knowledge
that they too are on the soul's
journey. They cannot consciously
feel their agony, being so distanced
from their own innermost being.
The only way to restore that
connection to one's humanity
is through knowing oneself as
soul.
Connection to soul means
connection to the realm of
the infinite.
Infinite Everything...
Infinite possibility...
Infinite potential...
The boundless domain of the
miraculous...
And connecting to one's identity
as soul rests on two factors:
(1) Connection to the breath.
(2) Connection to one's own
heart.
Today, let us make the focus
of our awareness be that
of three things.
The heart, the breath and the
conscious receiving of love
being returned to us from all
creation.
What you are actually receiving
is your own love being returned
to you.
Today you will have glimpses
of how giving and receiving
are one.
How is this possible?
Because you are creating a
continuous feedback loop
which has no beginning or
end.
Yesterday, you experienced
the first half of this loop
in sharing your love with your
world.
Today you complete it.
See if you cannot feel yourself
blooming like a beautiful rose
in this exchange.
How fortunate you are!
To be alive at this particular
time in human history, to be
aware of all that you are now
aware of, to be experiencing
yourself as you come alive.
For so long you also walked
this earth as one of the living
dead.
But no more.
Do you realize how blessed
you are?
The Matrix tells us, "I am the
only person I can count on."
The Matrix tells us, "I must
always be on guard. I must
protect myself. I may need
to defend myself, to fight or
flee in any instant. I must
always be prepared."
But it is never too late for
anyone.
You see it in the eyes of
infants and small children.
Why, I have even witnessed it
in the eyes of one on her
deathbed!
At any instant, LOVE can get
you and there is no escaping
her.
And the secret is that the love
which gets you is your own.
Happy receiving.
Oh...
You actually thought it was
someone else's love and
approval you were searching
for all along?
Listen beloved.
You have been waiting for
yourself.
It is the receiving of your own
love being returned to you
from all that is that not only
restores, but redeems.
***
Prayer for the Day
The love I send out and share
with the world is the very
love that life sends back to me.
In the presence of this LOVE
I am healed. I am whole. I am
transformed. I am restored.
I am renewed.
I am alive again.
Thank you for this life.
Amen
***
05/30/2026
Thought for the Day
You were created to be a love
delivery mechanism.
Not to some people, but to all
people.
And not just some of the time,
but all of the time.
So your assignment today is
to consciously extend your love
to every person, place or thing
which you encounter.
Everyone and everything deserves
your love, for each is another
version of yourself in disguise.
Differing in form only, but exactly
the same on the level of content.
Thus, your willingness as well as
your reluctance, your judgments
and your desire to pick and choose
based on your definition of worth
are a reflection of the deepest
feelings you have for yourself.
Can you not see that if everyone is
just another version of you, then
how you treat them is revealing
a whole lot more than you think?
For you are being shown how you
feel about yourself, not just in the
easy moments but the difficult ones
as well.
It is revealing how you treat yourself
when you feel most in need of being
heard and understood, when you
need unconditional kindness,
acceptance and love demonstrated
for you because you feel entirely
unworthy of it?
Are you only willing to share your
love with others and your world
when they meet your expectations?
Is your love selective?
Today's exercise is a necessary
and elementary practice to the
palpable experience of ONENESS.
Remember to ask for help.
You are never alone.
And you will get what you ask for.
You have not because you ask not.
What do you think you get when
you ask for nothing?
Ever think about that?
If LOVE is real, it is always
unconditional and it is always
pouring itself out unto all,
from the tiniest to the mightiest,
regardless the nature of their
contribution to the whole.
And speaking of contributions,
are you aware of what yours
has been?
If LOVE be love, it's expression
is both maximal and unconditional
across all times, in all spaces,
and unto all things.
LOVE cannot help but share itself
with all that is.
It cannot help but feel worth and
value from every living thing.
Today will be a very illuminating
day for you.
Let it be.
You will learn much about yourself.
You will learn much about love.
For in the end, both you and LOVE
are one and the same.
***
Prayer for the Day
Please teach me of the grandness
and magnitude of unconditional
LOVE.
For my most fervent prayer is
that the LOVE I share with my
world be as limitless as space.
Amen
***
05/29/2026
Thought for the Day
There is one very simple guideline
that never fails to work when
it comes to navigating life.
Not just the quiet and effortless
moments, but the sticky ones too.
It is this...
I know what to do because I know
how I want to feel.
Isn't that clean and simple?
I KNOW how I want to feel because
how I feel is my most precious
and valuable possession and the
only thing I truly own.
I WANT TO FEEL PEACEFUL.
If you know that you are always
on the soul's journey and you
cannot mess it up, and you
are always operating under the
sweet and simple guideline of
how you want to feel, then where
is there a problem?
How can there be a dilemma?
Where is uncertainty and doubt?
Is not the way for you abundantly
clear?
I cannot begin to tell you how
many things I have walked
away from because I choose
to feel peaceful.
And I do not know about you,
but I would rather be happy
and feel at home in my own
skin than I feel the need to be
right.
Screw it.
Is anything worth the price of
peace?
And have I ever lost anything
important?
Not once.
You cannot ever lose anything
that has any true value.
Every step I take in life...and
I do mean every single one...
makes me feel a little more
free than the step which I
took before it.
That's exhilarating my dear,
never discouraging, depressing
or frightening.
Because in the end, isn't that
what we all want?
Freedom from the tyranny of
inner turmoil and distress,
unequivocal liberty from
the dominion of inner states
which control you, rather than
you exercising your agency
and autonomy over them?
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for showing
me the path to true and
lasting freedom.
No self, no problem.
Amen
***
05/28/2026
Thought for the Day
An exercise is given you to work
with today which you, no doubt,
will find illuminating.
Make everything you do today
be a reflection of your love
for yourself.
Every feeling...
Every emotion...
Every thought...
Every action...
To do this, you will have to slow
your life down so completely,
that you are aware of what you
are up to in the little moments
and actions which fill your day,
regardless how small or seemingly
insignificant the act may seem.
The first thing you will notice is
how unkind and unloving you
actually are, not just with yourself,
but your world in its entirety.
Either you are harsh and critical,
judging yourself and others unfairly,
or you ignore yourself and your
world entirely, skimming your way
through your life like a mindless
automaton or drone.
Disregard is a silent means
of abject cruelty.
Silent, yet deadly in its effects.
This assignment is not about
changing what you feel, changing
what you think, changing what
you do.
It's about being able to bring
enough of a pause into your life
that you can consciously bring
comfort to yourself in the midst
of chaos.
You see, you think you are very
loving toward yourself, and kind
more often than not.
Poppycock.
It's not about being loving in the
moments which stand out in some
way to you, it's about how loving
can I be in all the moments which
compose a human life?
More conscious awareness means
that you are taking the time to
bring tenderness to yourself and
your life.
Are you not worth it?
It means that you are connecting
with your heart and your breath,
bringing your light to those parts
of you that have gone unnoticed
and unloved for far too long.
This is about you saying, "I deserve
to be peaceful, happy and loving."
"I deserve to be the conscious
architect of my own inner experience
of life."
"I choose to bring the state of presence
to all the moments which compose
my day."
Because every instant matters, beloved,
every single instant matters.
Each instant is a miracle of biblical
proportions, a one of one. It will never
again be seen or repeated.
So cherish them.
And cherish the one who is experiencing
them.
Nothing is insignificant.
You matter.
Your life matters.
You came to touch the heart of all
form and phenomena. But how can
you do that when you cannot even be
kind and gentle with yourself?
***
Prayer for the Day
Dear God:
Let's ravish our world today,
shall we?
Amen
***
05/27/2026
Thought for the Day
I was a very young child when
first I realized that other people
were not my problem, I was
my only problem.
The emotions and thoughts I
experienced on a daily basis
were like a never ending
roller coaster ride.
I hated that about myself.
That is where the phrase I use
so often came from. For indeed
I did want to be like a candle
that did not flicker in the wind.
Who I was and how I was kept
me up at night, haunting me
like my shadow, which was never
not there.
I could not get away from the
experience of being me.
And I despised myself.
Surely there must be some
way to find a changeless peace
which is unaffected by the
chaos and unpredictability
of life and my inner world!
This is where the quest for
freedom found its origin
within me.
And it would take another
half century of life before
the answers to my misery
came to me and they did so
in the form of a pandemic.
For though I had experienced
a ka-gillion beatific mountaintop
experiences over the course of
my life, some of which lasted
for months at a time, none were
sustainable. My inner world was
all the evidence I needed to
prove to myself that I had not
found what this heart had been
yearning for, for so very long.
What would a life experience
actually look like and feel like
if one were able to live peacefully
and lovingly in their own skin?
Little did I know how simple
the solution I had been
searching for actually was and
is.
I had to learn to love myself.
Not just the warm and fuzzy
parts which were easy to love,
but the messy shit too.
You know...all those things
which made me cringe and
loath myself, feeling I was
hopeless and beyond
redemption of any kind.
I had to make peace with all
of myself if I would know
the freedom I sought first
hand.
I had to know I was not wrong,
that I was not broken and I did
not need fixing.
There was nothing missing or
defective in me.
But at this point in my life,
I was entirely unable to begin
with acceptance.
I had to start with something
bite size. So in my case, this
began with non-resistance.
Inwardly I would feel myself
bowing and opening in a very
neutral way before the things
I did not like about myself,
the myriad of grievances to
which I clung, and the many,
many ways in which I found
myself and my world so deeply
flawed that there could be no
answers for anything.
This willingness to stop fighting
with myself and life proved itself
to be a great friend and ally.
As I began to accumulate data
in the form of evidence that
this was and is a path which
works, I began to trust myself.
I knew that this was to be my
journey for what remained
of this life.
If I were on a busy street
and I came across a child who
was lost, could I abandon
them?
Heavens no!
Would it matter to me what
this child had done before?
Would I refuse my assistance
if I did not approve?
No. It would not.
I would stop whatever I was
doing and provide this child
with comfort and a sense of
safety, giving him my heartfelt
support and steadfast assurance
that I would not leave him under
any circumstances,and I would
help him find his way back home
and would not rest until I did.
And this is how I began to treat
my inner world.
When I found that I could not, I
would take another inner step
back and offer reassurances and
empathy to the part of me that
struggled with accepting certain
aspects of myself.
Little by little I began to teach
myself that I was worthy and
entirely loveable.
And as I did, things began to
shift and change in my inner
world.
I had more peace.
When faced with a decision, I
would always ask myself, what
is the next most peaceful thing
for me to do?
And non-resistance became
acceptance.
And acceptance became
neutrality.
And neutrality became kindness.
And kindness became genuine
love, affection and tenderness.
Throughout all of this great
journey of being human I have
come to know one thing, and
this one thing has become the
foundation upon which I have
built my life.
What is that thing?
When I stopped trying to transcend
the ego or personal self, when I
stopped trying to fix or change me,
and just accept myself as I am, fully
and completely, I began to actually
embody the state of transcendence.
I became my own scripture, and
my life was my only message.
For when you make peace with all
that you are and all you are not,
the presence which you are and
have always been begins to pour
itself out, and from here, it begins
to radiate to all creation!
This is the Good News I share with
my world each and every day,
simply by being me, for I am that
word which was made flesh, and
darlin', so are you.
***
Prayer for the Day
Popeye said it best...
"I yam what I yam, and
that's all what I yam!"
I have received the blessing
of my own seal of approval.
Whose approval could mean
more to me than that?
Amen
***
05/26/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday was the kind of day
the former me would have
called straight out of hell's
playbook.
For starters, yesterday they
began the big plumbing project
where I live.
I knew that this was coming
for the past six months.
But it takes a bit to raise the
$80,000.00 that it was going
to take to redo 100% of the
duplex's plumbing.
Cast iron pipes, which were
decaying and crumbling,
had to be replaced with PVC.
So beginning at 8:00 AM, you
could not hear yourself think.
Three different jackhammers
and seven men began their
excavation beneath the
foundation of both sides of the
duplex to get to all the old
plumbing which had become
problematic.
And then at precisely 9:30 AM,
the electricity and internet went
out on my side.
They jackhammered their way
through an electrical power line.
Now I understand nothing about
electrical lines, but apparently
whoever did the electrical originally
didn’t trench the service conduit
to code, they just laid it on the
ground and poured concrete
over it.
So naturally, they jackhammered
their way right through the line!
Thus the day was spent without
electricity or internet, but they
were able to continue with the
excavation because they ran
extension cords from the other
half of the duplex, which still
had electricity.
Now...jump ahead to 5:15 PM
and the electrician arrives.
After sleuthing around for the
better part of an hour, he said
that 100% of all the electrical
work had to be redone because
none of it was up to code and
they also had to replace the
fuse boxes as well because they
were not code either.
The cost?
A whopping $14,000.00.
So Violet and I fumbled our
way through the dark yesterday
evening and then sweat bullets
when we went to bed because it
was very sticky and humid,
having had an hour of rain
between 3:00 & 4:00 PM.
I tell you all this because all of
the commitment, consistency
and repetition paid off in
dividends which were out of
this world.
I quote it all the time, but it
bears repeating now.
My favorite verse from the
Bodhicharyavatara by
Shantideva:
If there is something you can
do about it, why worry?
If there is nothing you can
do about it, why worry?
I remained 100% calm and
peaceful throughout all of it,
happy even...without a single
instant of worry or concern.
Life....
It still happens, enlightened or
not.
But how you navigate the churning
and entirely unpredictable waters
of life makes all the difference
in the world.
And you know what?
I wouldn't trade my life for anyone
else's on this planet.
I have become the candle which
does not flicker in the wind.
So how was your day?
If you happen to run across a money
tree today, will you please throw
a little my way?
Oh, and btw... If you find yourself near
the Starbucks at Preston and Royal,
I am over here using the free
internet.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the life which
is mine to live.
Amen
***
05/25/2026
Thought for the Day
NOTHING HAS THE POWER TO
AFFECT YOU DIRECTLY.
BUT YOU CAN ALLOW YOURSELF
TO GET SUCKED INTO DRAMA
AND CHAOS THROUGH
DISTRACTION.
All caps so you will hopefully commit
it to memory as a reminder.
Steps To Recovery
(1) Keep coming back to your breath.
(2) Soften. Lean into. And open your
heart to yourself and all parties
involved.
Remember, every upset is an initiation
and a doorway into the truth if
you allow it to be.
Thus, the solution is as simple
or difficult as you make it.
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me remember to keep it simple
today, for nothing is ever as difficult
as I try to make it.
Stories upon stories upon stories.
Am I reacting to what is happening,
or am I reacting to the story I am
telling myself about what is happening?
Because there's a difference, you know....
Let me notice what I am up to and
reflect on these things.
Amen
***
05/24/2026
Thought for the Day
You know and I know that you
have been and can be
a real holdout when it comes
to your commitment, consistency
and repetition.
Yet it still remains forever true
that commitment, consistency
and repetition will deliver
liberation as promised if,
and that's a big if, you make
them #1 in your life.
How willing are you to put it to
the test and let the results
speak for themselves?
***
Prayer for the Day
There is a beautiful passage in
ACIM which states that it is
not that you are to no longer
have any negative thoughts or
feelings. It is that there should
be none of them which are
willing to keep.
We hold onto the egoic identity
through grudges and the need
to be right.
I fall off the horse. And I do it
a million times a day.
So what do I do?
Get up and get back on.
Just keep coming back to my
breath with love, devotion and
sincerity.
I am worth that consistent
effort.
For commitment, consistency
and repetition are a demonstration
of my love for myself.
And my breath is the doorway
through which I enter into
the peace of God.
Amen
***
05/23/2026
Thought for the Day
Simple but not easy....
Have you ever heard a phrase
repeated so many times
that you felt if you heard it
one more time you would
completely lose it?
That is how I feel about this
one.
This path is both simple and
easy.
Every single breath you take is
an initiation into what is forever
true.
What could be easier or simpler
than that?
You tell me...
If everyone is always on their
soul's journey, then there is
no reason to squawk about
anyone or anything.
If God loves you and wants you
to be happy, then why worry that
pretty little head of yours about
anything?
If there is absolutely nothing
you have done or ever could do
to mess anything up, nor could
anyone else for that matter,
then why all the second guessing
and beating up on yourself, to
say nothing of all the character
assassination you engage in?
If your worth is not established
by you but by God and that is
forever immutable, how can
you feel anything but love for
yourself? How could you treat
yourself or your world with
anything other than kindness?
And if there is nothing you value
more than your peace, and you
are entirely unwilling to allow
anything to ever compromise
that, how could anything about
your life seem difficult to you
ever again?
Take the time to write down
these 5 points and carry them
with you in your pocket where
they are always there to remind
you of what is true whenever
you forget or have a few idle
moments.
Don't just repeat them, feel
them dissolve inside of you,
replacing old worn out beliefs
and ideas which you have held
onto and used as evidence that
you could not possibly be
perfect the way you are and
that you need do nothing
other than learn to truly love
yourself; hair, guts, feathers
and all.
When you are waiting in the
check out lane at the grocery
store, filling the tank up with gas,
why, even when using the bath-
room, take a few moments to
hit your pause button, close
your eyes, return to your breath
and remind yourself of what
you know....
Anytime is a good time to
repeat what is forever true
about yourself and your life.
Repeating these simple
statements will also aid you
in easing up on your world.
You are a beautiful treasure.
You matter.
You are loved.
And you are seen, beloved, seen
and held in the most sacred and
loving embrace by your Creator.
I wish you a lovely Memorial Day
weekend as we all reflect and
remember those whom we have
known and loved who are no longer
with us physically.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the GIFT of this
day and all that it will bring.
May all beings; past, present
and future, be happy and rest
in abiding and transcendent
peace.
Amen
***
05/22/2026
Thought for the Day
Day before yesterday it was suggested
that you have a codependent
relationship with life.
Codependency is a word that has
been tossed around quite a bit
in the world's conversation since
the eighties, yet few truly under-
stand it, and even fewer are willing
to admit that many if not most of
their relationships are based in
codependency.
Let us begin by establishing a
working definition for codependency.
A relationship can be said to be
codependent when your involvement
is based in the belief that the other
person has something which you
do not have.
It is therefore based in need.
But let me ask you a question, does
the soul need anything?
So there is a basic inequality in
the relationship. And the relationship
itself is built on a foundation of
confusion and illusion.
Both parties are using each other.
The relationship is more of a contractual
agreement based on expectations
than it is one of intimacy based on
wholeness and mutual completion.
Thus, it inevitably leads to resentment
and passive-aggressive behavior.
It is a decision made by both parties
is halt all genuine growth and
expansion in favor of seeking, but
never finding.
There is an essential tension which
is always there unless both parties
fill their lives with addiction and
distraction.
One participant is looking for
safety and security, while the other
maintains the illusion of generosity
and control over the other.
Perhaps it is even believed that you
too have what the other has, but you
have been unable to access it on
your own, so you believe that If you
enter into relationship with them,
your chances of attaining what you
believe they have for yourself are
much more probable because of
your participation and involvement.
One who is in a codependent
relationship can never truly know
if they sincerely love the other
when the very basis of the relationship
is rooted in using one another.
If we are always on the soul's journey,
one will inevitably ask oneself,
what does it matter if all my relationships
are codependent?
And in the end, it does not matter
a hill of beans.
But when one is truly living their lives
from soul, every aspect of one's life
comes into alignment with the soul
or heart.
Here, one cannot tolerate the discrepancy
between knowing the truth and livng
one's truth.
The ultimate codependent relationship
is that of the guru/disciple or teacher/
student relationship.
It is one of the most difficult and
painful lessons one can master.
Whether teacher or student, neither
participant is in the relationship for
honest reasons.
Beloved, no one has any power
that you do not have.
So look carefully and lovingly at
all your relationships today.
And do not confuse security
for love.
See if it does not become clear to
you that if you live from the outside
in, every relationship you have
is codependent by nature.
To be truly integrous may well
mean that you have to walk away
from many of the so-called
relationships in which you have
been participating.
To be truly integrous may well
mean that you have to learn how
to live with less.
To be truly integrous may well
mean that you have to learn
to trust yourself and trust the
universe.
To be truly integrous may well
mean that you have to discover
love from within rather than
trying to get it from other people,
places and things.
But you know what?
The stakes are too high to bullshit
yourself or another.
And I would rather die than live a
lie.
Wouldn't you?
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me begin to have some
very important conversations
with myself that have been
long overdue.
For I do not wish to leave this
earth without having mastered
the art of loving myself and being
my own source.
Can a relationship be said to be
a relationship if it is based on
anything else?
May the relationship I have with
me be true to my very last breath.
Amen
***
05/21/2026
Thought for the Day
It is quite vital that you understand
that no one here wants you to
feel badly about anything.
Ever watch a child who is learning
to walk?
When they fall, they get back up,
undaunted, and begin again.
Before you know it, your hands
are full because they are into
everything.
All of this is but to say that what
we do want to accomplish is to
empower you.
We want to place your firmly in charge
of your own inner experience of life.
For so very long you have given
your power away to so many
people, places and things.
And this is just not right.
No one deserves to have any power
over you but you, my dear.
You are a sovereign and autonomous
being and no one on this planet
deserves to have any agency over you
but you.
In every single instant of life, peace
is being delivered to you on a
silver platter.
It does not matter what the life
circumstances are that you are
going through.
There are no exceptions to this.
Here, in this moment, is peace.
Will you choose your peace over
everything?
The way you say yes to the universe,
the way that you connect with that
peace, is through the breath.
Like water mixed with water,
the breath and peace are inseparably
mixed.
Every conscious breath which you
take not only unlocks the door to
peace, it is a portal of initiation into
the realm of possibility, into the
domain of the miraculous.
It is an invitation which says, "I'm
done with playing small. I am ready
for the big leagues. I choose a totally
miraculous and awesome life."
And who can give you that life
but you?
***
Prayer for the Day
What could be more valuable
than peace?
I get it.
Connecting with peace in a world
gone mad is like choosing to
walk on water.
I deserve this. I deserve my peace.
And so it is.
Amen
***
05/20/2026
Thought for the Day
Perhaps the most difficult thing
for any human being to face,
let alone accept, is that no one
can fuck with your peace unless
you give them permission to
do so.
While you may well feel that you
are upset with others, who you
are really mad at, who you are
really disappointed with, is
yourself.
When you allow anything to disturb
your peace, be it within or without,
what you are essentially saying is,
"I am a victim. You can mess with
me all you want. I live my life from
the outside in. I am not worthy of
my peace and it really isn't some-
thing I value, nor is it anything I
am willing to protect at all costs."
You have a codependent relationship
with your world.
Beloved, you deserve your peace.
I know this because peace is your
natural state.
Confused, off-kilter, running around
like a chicken with yout head
chopped off, worried about the state
of the world, your finances, your
job, your kids, your dog, robbing
Peter to pay Paul while you live
paycheck to paycheck, may be normal
to you but it most certainly is not
natural.
Peace will be yours the instant that
you love yourself too much to ever
let anything disturb it again.
And not a moment sooner.
Remember, it is the ego that craves
complexity while the soul abides
undisturbed in perfect changeless
peace.
Peace is the ultimate demonstration
of one who abides as soul.
The cord that has kept you tethered
to misery and insanity has been
severed once and for all.
Where have you drawn your line
in the sand?
What do you deserve today?
***
Prayer for the Day
Nothing the world has to offer me
is worth my peace.
Hear me world?
From now on, can't touch this.
Amen
***
05/19/2026
Thought for the Day
Today is a really great day to take
a clear look at your relationship
with yourself.
Specifically, let us all look (myself
included), at every area in which
we still tell ourselves or feel that
we are incomplete, we are not
whole, not what we really should
be, as well as everything we do not
like about ourselves.
Beloved, you are the unborn,
uncreated, eternal and immortal
soul, the very God particle, God's
self-extension of Itself!
This cannot and does not change,
beloved.
Nor can it ever.
Yet you look upon yourself
every single day and find fault
with so many things.
You encounter experiences every day
which you feel should be different
as well as ones in which you feel
that you are unequal to the task.
All of this is poppycock and faulty
programming.
It is time to let go of every single
illusion you still have about yourself.
It does not matter how many you
have already relinquished.
If there is one still there, it is one
too many.
Instead of constantly working on
yourself, how about simply allowing
all of these false beliefs you have
held onto for so long to complete
themselves?
Despite your best thinking, you
have never ever for a single
instant actually been working on
yourself.
What you have been working on
is the illusions you have held about
yourself or the illusions that others
have had about themselves and
then have projected onto you and
you have willingly assimilated.
Let your inner delete button
become your new best friend.
The entire notion of incompletion
is an utter impossibility, not
just for you, for everyone.
It is time to update the contract
that you have with everyone else.
And it is time to update the contract
which you made with yourself.
A good mantra for today is thus:
I no longer need to hold onto
anything for anyone including
myself. I will accept no more
distortions about myself or
anyone else.
Feel yourself letting go of every
distorted and self-created image
of yourself which you have willingly
taken on, mistaking it for who
you are.
One by one, feel yourself hitting
your delete key every single
time a new ideation arises.
You do not need to analyze,
understand, figure out, forgive
or heal anything.
But you do have to be willing
to let it go of all the nonsense
you have been holding onto,
and this is something that
no one else can do for you.
Even you must be entirely
incapable of disturbing your
peace.
There is nothing to overcome.
But it is high time you cleared
all the rubble and debris that
you have been clinging to and
trying to fix, rather than kindly
sweeping it all away, revealing
what lies beneath.
For it is your destiny to behold
the face of God!
And it is for this you were born.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I wll listen to myself
carefully and lovingly,
relinquishing every illusion
I still maintain about
myself.
May the freedom I find
today be shared with
every living being.
Amen
***
05/18/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's be willing to take an honest
look this week at all the relationships
in which you are still participating
that you know not only are no longer
reflections of who you are, but if
anything, they keep you both locked
into patterns of relating which not only
are not peaceful, they bring sorrow,
discomfort, distress and dis-ease
in their wake.
I don't care who they are.
They can be a spouse, a partner,
a child, a neighbor, a co-worker,
a boss or a so-called friend.
You know and I know that the time
to end it was clear to you long ago.
Any relationship which vexes you
so completely has seen its day.
Remind yourself often today that
loving yourself means giving
yourself the gift of your peace.
And when anything has the ability
to disturb your peace, what you are
really saying is that "there are still
parts of me that do not deserve
my peace."
That's not a commentary on the
relationship my dear, that is
a rather profound statement
about you.
No one and no thing is capable of
disturbing your peace unless you
give them permission to do so.
So guard your peace today.
Don't you believe that your
amygdala is worthy of your peace?
How about your mind and your
heart or your poor little body?
Are they not worthy too?
When you give yourself the gift
of your peace, what you are really
giving yourself is the gift of your
completion.
It is a proclamation of emancipation
in which you are silently shouting
from the rooftops, "I am a sovereign
being and irrevocably free. Harmony
and peace are my constant. This is
who I am and nothing can ever again
disturb that."
Anyone who has been around me
at all since 1999 knows that my
favorite movie of all time is
The Matrix.
It is such an amazing representation
of life in this decade.
And one of the most powerful
things about that movie was that
anyone who was still plugged into
the Matrix could still be used by
the Matrix.
In other words, they could be turned
into an agent and anyone who watched
the movie observed that whenever it
happened.
Because those who were still plugged
into the Matrix were often turned into
agents in an attempt to capture those
who had already been freed from the
Matrix.
And who could be captured by an agent?
Anyone who did not trust themselves
and was still so wishy washy and all
over the map that the agents saw their
freedom as something which was
not only not firmly established, it was
still very much up for grabs.
How susceptible are you to being
hooked by others?
By the world?
By yourself?
Either you are worthy of your peace
or you are not.
Today is the day to answer that
question for yourself once and for all,
don't you think?
***
Prayer for the Day
May I never forget this day and every
day that my breath is the path back
to peace whenever I have again lost
myself in the Matrix of life.
Amen
***
05/17/2026
Thought for the Day
The creation of a personal self
begins when one learns to answer
to the name it has been given
and is encouraged to refer to others
by name as well.
That sense of a separate and personal
sense of me, myself and I in a world of
other separate and personal people,
places and things is further reinforced
through history, conditioning, programming,
habits, behaviors, beliefs, meanings
and interpretations.
It is through the repetition of all of
these things that one becomes the center
of their own universe and everyone
else is thus a planet or other celestial
body which orbits oneself.
You, the barycenter, while others are
held in place through attachment
and aversion.
But here's the deal...
No personal self, no personalizing.
And no personalizing, no suffering.
There is no such thing as a truly
existent personal self, thus no
experience which can be claimed
to be personal.
So today we are going to try to feel
what life would be like without
a center, without this sense of me,
myself and I.
Even a single instant experienced
without an experiencer is enough
to provide a deeply compelling taste
of true authentic freedom.
What if experiences were just allowed
to be experiences?
Happening to no one, each having
a beginning, middle and an end?
And what if you were just to observe
what is palpably felt in response
to each experience and were to leave
it at that?
No need to name anything, just a
simple catch and release.
A series of experiences whose most
salient feature is their impermanence.
When you dig even deeper, you inevitably
find that all the personal self is, is whatever
has been repeated so many times that
one makes an individual entity out of it to
whom it all happens or happened.
And day by day and hour by hour this
sense of "i" is reinforced by you,
the reporter and experiencer.
Your assignment for today is to
observe every experience scrupulously,
yet let nothing land.
You are air through which everything
passes on through but never sticks.
What are the habits, patterns, behaviors,
lines of thinking, emotions, feelings
and storylines which you reinforce
through repetition?
When you notice something which
has been previously repeated again
and again, try shaking it up a bit.
Try something entirely different.
Be mindful of what you reinforce
through repetition.
You will inevitably find that the end
of personalization hallmarks the end
of all suffering.
Life still happens. That is never going
to change.
So it is not that suffering disappears,
it is the sufferer or personalizer
which disappears!
And you are always given the opportunity
to repeat new things such as peace,
contentment, gratitude, joy, happiness
and love.
And when these are reinforced through
repetition, they are found to be a point
of initiation.
For here there is a doorway through
which you gain access to the Infinite
and Changeless.
Here you encounter the Soul.
Here is the true "I," unchanged,
unchanging, unchangeable.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today may I be as translucent
and gossamer as clear light.
And may I walk this world wihout
leaving any footprints behind.
No reporter, nothing to report.
Only peace.
Amen
***
05/16/2026
Thought for the Day
If your potential is something
which exists beyond the experience
that you have of yourself, namely
that of your humanity, then there is
a whole lot more that is not only
available to you, but that you have
seriously not been tapping into.
Wouldn't you agree?
Another way of verbalizing this
is that you cannot transcend
the mind with the mind, you
cannot transcend emotions with
emotion, and you cannot
transcend your humanity with
your humanity.
So your assignment today is a
rather simple one.
It is both simple and easy, and
all it takes is a little willingness
on your part.
First, remember to watch your
breath.
Next, hit your pause button
frequently.
Lastly, feel your whole being opening,
wherein you feel as though you
have become a living invitation, like
a sunflower which turns, freely opening
itself before the sun.
You may feel warmth, energy or
a tingling sensation.
Be sensitive and open to your
experience whatever it is.
And if you feel nothing, that does
not mean that you are doing it all
wrong.
It means that your experience is
that of nothingness.
Your instruction is simply to open
your heart and your entire being
to that 'something more" which
you have been withholding from
yourself.
Here we are talking about the vast
and infinite unknown territory of
the Soul.
This is what you really are.
The body and all its accoutrements;
feelings, emotions, thoughts,
beliefs, habits, patterns, behaviors
and addictions are merely
distractions and delay mechanisms
which you use to keep yourself
separate and distanced from your
original face and your eternal good.
And why?
You have your reasons, and they are
aplenty, but when you catch your hand
in that cookie jar, just stop it.
You are not being asked to resist your
natural inclinations.
You are being asked to recognize what
is happening for what it is and to choose,
rather, to love yourself enough to stop
being so mean and chicken shit toward
yourself.
You deserve better than that from
yourself and you know it.
Love yourself enough to say,'no more.'
And do be open to the miraculous.
For this is what living as Soul is really
all about, living from miracle to
unfolding miracle, moment by moment.
***
Prayer for the Day
Talk about living a meaningful
and fulfilling life...
May today be a day of playing full out
and swinging for the fences, for I am
that, I am.
Amen
***
05/15/2026
Thought for the Day
One of the key premises from ACIM
is that you need do nothing.
I like that.
In fact, I like it a lot.
Take a few moments to reflect back
on your life, taking the time to
truly appreciate all the experiences
which you have had, both monumental
and small, as well as all the milestones
that you’ve experienced along the way.
How you go through each of these
is by living your life exactly as
you did and are.
You are never alone.
Harmony is your birthright.
Know yourself.
Love yourself.
Love other people.
It’s really pretty simple when you
think about it.
You came here to take your time
and go through what is yours to
experience as only you can every
single day, one day at a time.
Cherish the moments.
You are always living your potential
in every single moment, even when
you believe that you are not.
This is your design, and your design
never leaves you.
However you are, however you react,
however you happen to feel, take
the time to pause and bow before
your unique perfection.
You are living out your destiny as
only you can.
You have always been your cruelist
taskmaster. Let that part of you go.
In spite of how improbable it may
seem at times, I’ve seen how it all
ends and you are going to make it.
And the deepest truth is this.
if anyone on this planet were to
intervene in your life in any way, it
would be an entirely unacceptable
act of interference in your personal
agency and autonomy, your inalienable
right to live your life the way which
feels best to you.
You possess unconditional autonomy
and that is sacred.
You cannot fuck anything up.
Ever.
Have a wonderful weekend.
And no pole vaulting over mouse
turds!
Got it?
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for all the particulars
which have composed my
life this time around.
It’s been a masterpiece. And it
has been my masterpiece to live,
love and enjoy.
What a playground.
Gratitude feels woefully inadequate
a sentiment for so great a GIFT.
It may be a simple life, but it is my
life...every bit of it...and it is the
only life for me.
Amen
***
05/14/2026
Thought for the Day
We are going to make your message
for today as short and succinct as
we possibly can.
Although we have danced around
coming right out and saying this
in clear and unmistakable language
for the past two weeks, you are now
more than familiar with parts of it
and more than ready at this point
to hear the pure and unfiltered truth.
You have never been confined or
imprisoned by your humanity.
Only you were powerful enough a being
to take yourself out of your eternal abode
as the Infinite, placing yourself by choice
into a dualistic human experience, and you
are the only being who is powerful enough
to end this game once and for all, returning
to your natural state.
As we have said several times now,
it all ends when you finally love yourself
enough to end it.
Not a moment sooner, nor a moment
later.
So it is time to be done and over with
the endless self pity and and victim
consciousness.
No more undermining, self-sabotage,
whining and complaining.
It’s phony bologna and entirely
unseemly for one who formed
every photon, atom, subatomic
particle and molecule from Itself,
for goodness sakes!
Only you can give yourself permission
to reclaim the very freedom which
has always been yours.
The ball is in your court and it always
has been.
You have what it takes to be free,
so set yourself free and be free.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the sense of freedom,
connection and peace which are
always mine.
For I am that Force which animates
everything living thing, It a part of
me, and me a part of It.
Amen
***
05/13/2026
Thought for the Day
Perhaps it would help all of us
today to slow our roll each time
we noticed we were moving
too fast, that we were lost in
doing and drowning in time,
and take a mindful moment to
hit our pause button, returning
our awareness to our breath,
reverently recalling one simple
thought.
We are all in the same boat.
Take notice of those around you.
We tend to forget each other
hundreds of times a day, and the
pandemic made anonymity mistakenly
seem more desirable than actual
communion.
We have become a world where
our primary mode of contact is
that of social media. Gone are
the days of interacting one on one
and taking the time to look into
each other's eyes and hearts.
Truth has become an ever moving
target in our world, and being an
online bully and asshole is the new
norm.
There seems to be no limits to our
ability to be mean, uncaring and
uninvolved, forgetting about simple
things like unconditional positive
regard.
But this being human thing is a team
sport, not a solo one.
Whatever happened to living a life
we love and helping others do so
as well?
Can we not see that the foundational
essence or energy of everything is
exactly the same?
We are ONE but most would not
know it.
Life works in miraculous ways
when we remember harmony
and flow, rather than when we are
behaving like rocks in a tumbler.
All that bumping up against each
other, clashing, abrasiveness and
chaos is still going to produce a
beautiful and shiny stone in the
end, but cooperation and kindness
freely given to one another gets us
there quicker and makes for a much
more interesting and comfortable
ride.
***
Prayer for the Day
Meaning and fulfillment are a now or
never kind of thing.
Help me to remember to stop
and smell the roses along the way
today.
For I would be one with the moment,
not simply passing through it, settling
for mere existence, rather than truly
living.
For quantity will never be a legitimate
substitute for quality.
Amen
***
05/12/2026
Thought for the Day
So I went about the business of
living my life day by day.
And I began to notice how everything
about our world, everything about
how we were parented and taught
along the way was brainwashing us
into believing that we are not enough
so we would get out there and search
for more, better and different as we
painstakingly tried to fix what we felt
was broken about ourselves.
Entire industries were created in order
to try to magnify our emptiness and
sense of lack as they promised to satiate
our thirst for good, better and best...
We formed alliances, cliques, groups,
parties and sanghas in order to find other
like minded individuals such as our-
selves to align with, hoping that
support and comradery would somehow
make us feel better about ourselves.
Misery does love company, does it not?
But even these begin to disintegrate,
deteriorate and unwind as cliques
formed within them too. For where there
was once the appearance of unity, there
were now hurt feelings, more judgment,
disappointment and separation from
those from whom you least expected it.
We see it on every billboard we pass,
every song on the radio, the guy
who honks at you and flips you the bird
for going to slow as he passes you,
only to arrive at the same red traffic
light as you a few moments later.
And I began to feel pissed off.
Cheated.
And the more pissed I felt, the more
I saw and experienced it everywhere.
I felt duped, victimized and taken
for granted.
I walked around life for almost 4
full years with an angry chip on my
shoulder and did not hesitate to
lay someone's race out for them
when I caught them at it red handed.
But the day it all disappeared was
so amazing.
I realized that I had never ever
really been angry at anyone or
anything else.
They were just doing what they were
supposed to do.
We come here to temporarily forget
so we can undergo the legion of
experiences one has as they remember
again what can never be lost, changed
or destroyed.
Simply forgotten for a time, that we
might experience the incredible rapture
of remembering once again.
And I realized that I was the only
one I had really been mad at.
I hated that I was was so naive and
gullible.
That I did not think for myself, that I
was always second-guessing everything
I thought or did because I did not
trust myself.
And because I did not trust myself,
I placed more value on what other
people thought than how I thought
and felt.
In time, I began to feel a great love,
compassion and tenderness for the
character I had only thought that
I had become.
And the very instant that I did, things
began to shift and I felt peace, as
well as a tensile strength that had
heretofore been unfamiliar to me
in my experience of myself.
I have always said that if a single
thing about my human experience
could save another a single instant
of suffering, confusion and misery,
then I would count my life well
lived.
So thank you for listening to me
ramble on and on day after day.
Can you believe it?
January 1, 2027 marks 29 years
of the thought and prayer offerings!
So have a beautiful day today,
beloved.
This old woman's heart purrs like a
kitten whenever she thinks of
you as we travel this journey together
arm in arm, walking each other back
to the HOME we never left, nor could
we ever leave in truth.
You are a treasure....
***
Prayer for the Day
How could anything be more
beautiful or more fulfilling than
to be a humble human being on
planet earth who has been given
the opportunity to share this
incredible experience we are
each having in our own unique
way with each of you?
Thanks for the company.
You make one helluva travel
companion.
Amen
***
05/11/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's begin with a quick reminder
of the verse we have been unpacking
from A Course In Miracles:
“The secret of salvation is but this:
that I am doing this unto myself.”
T-27.VIII.10
To truly understand this verse, there
is yet one more puzzle piece for us
to look at and understand.
From the day you were born, the
world has brainwashed you and
meticulusly trained you to believe
that in order to get something,
you have to be willing to give
something of either equal or
great value in return.
This is how religions, spiritual teachings
and teachers, the self help industry,
our educational system, healthcare
system, social media and capitalism
all began.
It is the tangled and gnarly root
behind every expectation.
Take a few moments to think about
it.
What have you ever really gotten that
was truly free?
Has this world ever made you feel
equal to everyone else on this planet
and that you were perfect as you are
right now?
This is the how, when and where that
God became something or someone
outside of ourselves.
And that bar for reaching this so-called
Source of all things, this Creator of the
Universe, was an impossibly high goal
to achieve and few would ever be found
distinguished enough to attain It, let
alone deserve It, and 'It' was usually
addressed as a 'Him' because being
male is somehow the best thing to be.
Right?
It is how we all became unworthy or
not good enough.
And it is why we have all been searching
for good, better and best and trying
to beat the next guy in order to hold
onto it.
Happy moments, content moments,
are fleeting at best because we are
always waiting for the other shoe
to drop and it always does, doesn't
it?
Can you imagine a world of duality
or victim consciousness if we were
all equally worthy and already had
everything we needed, that all we
had to do was ask and the solution
or opportunity would always present
itself?
What's not to trust in a world that
is already and always perfect and
you rest securely because every-
thing unfolds in ways more fulfilling
than the mind could ever imagine?
Can you imagine growing up and
believing that you were not loved,
that you were not love itself, and
then spending your whole life
either looking for it, or trying to
hold onto it because you had been
hoodwinked into believing that
no matter what you did, no matter
how hard you tried, you would
never measure up, never be worthy,
that you had to work your ass off
to the bone every single day and
every minute of every day because
there would always be something
about you or your life which would
always be lacking, someway to make
it better, if only you hold on tighter,
try harder and never stop trying to
achieve some mythical idea of
perfection that was not only
unattainable, but would never, could
never be the version of you that you
are right now, in this very moment?
Beloved...
You are beautiful.
And right now, exactly as you are,
you are as God created you.
There is nothing for you to do,
nothing to become, no goal to achieve,
no pinnacle of success to search for
other than that you be happy, that you
go ahead and live you life as your heart
dictates and have experiences while
being the perfect you character that you
already are, never forgetting that you
are soul, experiencing a human life,
so get on out there and live it as only
you can because a human life is a
precious gift and even what is considered
a long and happy life is done and over
with in the blink of an eye.
Know that you are a treasure because
you are treasured by yourself.
You are complete.
You are whole.
And baby?
You are resplendent.
And nothing...
nothing...
...stands between you and the
Source of everything because
darlin', believe it or not, you
hung the stars!
***
Prayer for the Day
How could anything be more
perfect than what I already
am and have?
Thank you for every bit of it!
Amen
***
05/10/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's begin with a quick reminder
of the verse we are unpacking
from A Course In Miracles which
we began yesterday:
“The secret of salvation is but this:
that I am doing this unto myself.”
T-27.VIII.10
Let's dive deeper into what the verse
is telling us today.
First, let me remind you of an idea
which we have already covered on
two different occasions.
The experience of survival, separation
and suffering ends when we love
ourselves enough to end it.
This is a very important idea which
flew over most people's heads when
it was first shared, in spite of the fact
that it is probably the most profoundly
liberating statement which has ever
been uttered here.
It is important because it puts you
squarely back into the driver's
seat.
This means that it places the burden of
responsibility onto you, beloved,
which is precisely where it belongs.
Because if your emancipation depended
on anyone or anything outside of you,
you could rightfully claim victim
consciousness.
For how could anyone ever exercise any
consistent control over another
that actually works?
That's like playing a game of Russian
roulette with your life where your
happiness is in the hands of others
every single instant.
But because your freedom is your
responsibility, you can end it whenever
you decide you are worthy of your
freedom and release from all that
you only think you have made.
This is all about us recognizing that
we are the only one capable of creating
the illusion of separation, in our minds,
and we are the only one that is strong
enough and powerful enough to end it.
And that, dear one, hinges on your
taking your power back and deciding
that you are worthy of your own love
and respect.
And that begins by recognizing that
your worth is established by God
and is forever immutable.
And that is all about you allowing this
to be true for you.
LOVE must be free of expectations,
demands or requirements to be love.
For that is what unconditional actually
means.
God's LOVE is yours and it always has
been and always will be yours.
There is nothing you can do to lose it.
There is nothing that you can do to
earn it.
That is why grace means unmerited
favor.
It is not unmerited in the sense that
its yours, but you do not really
deserve it.
It means it is yours and you cannot earn
it because you do not need to.
NO REQUIREMENTS EVER!!!
So I will end today's thought this beautiful
Mother's Day with this...
Why not today?
Is not today a beautiful day for a prison
break?
***
Prayer for the Day
How could I break out of prison
when it is clear to me today
that I cannot be imprisoned?
That I never have been, nor could
I ever be.
My so-called capture was by
my own design.
Talented, eh?
Well it ends as of this moment.
The gig is up.
Today I accept that truth is true
and nothing else exists.
Amen
***
05/09/2026
Thought for the Day
There is a beautiful statement which
is made in A Course Of Miracles
that says the following:
“The secret of salvation is but this:
that I am doing this unto myself.”
T-27.VIII.10
This one sentence is saying so much
in so few words.
Shall we explore it together this
Mother's Day weekend?
Let us start with this.
On the most rudimentary level
it is telling us:
What we hold onto, the body
holds onto.
To this there are no exceptions.
You tell me, is it worth it?
I don't know about you, but
I would rather have a body that
works and serves me well
until my very last breath than
one that is broken down,
disease-ridden and in pain
all the time.
The relative well-being of the body
does not depend on pills, potions,
fasts, diets, or any other external
remedy or gimic the mind comes
up with.
It relies soul-fully on your own
inner experience of yourself and
your life.
Loving, open, receptive and empty
will always be the only thing which
opens the door to infinite possibility
and infinite potential.
***
Prayer for the Day
Inwardly I bow before every
experience with an open and
loving heart.
I cling to nothing, so nothing
clings to me.
Amen
***
05/08/2026
Thought for the Day
One day you will look upon all of this,
yourself, the Soul and the world
as one seamless whole of continuity
and perfection without flinching,
without contraction or judgment.
There will be no more compartmental-
ization, no either/or, just flawless flow.
This is the pinnacle of the embodied
realized state and thus the true meaning
of resurrection.
For resurrection is not the raising
of the dead, but bringing the vision of
wholeness to the once blind, & new life
to those walking the procession of
the living dead.
***
Prayer for the Day
No more judging anything.
May I behold naught but the face
of God in all I see and experience.
And may this vision be the only
thing I bear witness to within me.
And so it is.
Amen
***
05/07/2026
Thought for the Day
The last of our thoughts for review
are as follows:
"Being who I am and how I am
isn't getting in the way of
anything.
Ever.
(So I entirely lost the plot over
Donald Trump and his most recent
antics yesterday...)
When I recognize what I am doing,
the question I then ask myself is,
how quickly can I pick myself up
and climb back into the saddle?
Can I do so without lapsing into
self-abnegating inner chatter and
recrimination?
And can I do so with a quick 'bless
my heart,' loving and accepting
the oh-so-human part of the mind
that is quick to judge and be self-
righteous and extremely vocal
about it?
Can I also do so with the part
of the created self who is quick to
follow the negative partyline?
I do not have to make such a BFD
out of everything that I do not
approve of and wish were
different.
Can I be equally loving and accepting
of the judgy-preachy-things which
the mind goes on and on about as I am
of the shiny loving and gentle ones?
Can I see that everyone, no exceptions,
is a reflection of myself?
Because here is the honest-to-God
truth...
I walk this world in perfect Oneness
no matter how I happen to show up,
completely connected to God in
every possible way.
And so does everyone else."
***
Prayer for the Day
No more the unclaimed treasure, I
claim all of me right now!
Instead of "Can I embrace that?", my
new mantra is "Can I love this long
forgotten and abandoned part of
me that I find fault with because I
believed she should be different?"
If God approves of all of me as I am,
me being an extension of God Itself,
why can't I?
And is this not the truth for all of us?
We are all in the same boat.
Sometimes the water is choppy, and
sometimes it is smooth sails all the
way.
No matter.
Let this then be the awareness I
walk the world with today.
Amen
***
05/06/2026
Thought for the Day
Our next thoughts for review:
"Each day that I awaken is a gift that
the Universe has seen fit to grant me.
It was never and will never be a given
that I can take for granted.
As we discovered yesterday, I experience
tabula rasa, a blank slate, every new day
that I am given.
I get a Cosmic reset. A redo, if you will.
The past no longer applies to anything.
The slate is entirely wiped clean of all
imprints, unless I chose to keep them
so that I can cling to the attachment
I have to everything which would
strengthen and maintain my belief
that I am an individual, this separate
sense of self that I must keep alive
and real to me at all costs in my mind.
When the truth is, the only thing that
matters is today, this day that I have
been granted.
I am no longer available for other
people's bullshit. Nor can I hoodwink
myself into believing any narrative
or particular interpretation my mind
offers.
I am teflon, not velcro.
The world passes through me, but never
sticks to me.
Emotions, feelings, thoughts, beliefs,
judgments and experiences pass through
me but nothing clings.
No more holding onto anything.
I am in the world, but I am no longer of it.
Harmony, peace and equipoise are
my new norm."
***
Prayer for the Day
I am endlessly grateful for today.
I recognize that it is a gift, no matter what
it holds, a gift that I was never promised.
Let me remain lovingly aware, ever kind
to myself, ever kind and accepting of
my world.
Amen
***
05/05/2026
Thought for the Day
Our next thoughts for review:
"I am tabula rasa, a blank slate.
Rehashing the past is how I
keep the personal alive
in my mind.
Where else could the personal
actually live other than between
my two ears?
The world is my oyster.
Everything is available to me.
Everything is possible.
Right now. For me. In this very
moment.
My life is a living invitation which
says:
Miracles welcome here.
Why settle for the finite when
I was born from Magnitude
and made for the Infinite?
***
I challenge you to make a recording
of these words and listen to them
all day long.
Feel them as they are absorbed into
your cells, your heart, the very core
of your innermost being.
They were written for you, my dear.
I am not asking you to play your
recording out loud for all the world
to hear.
That's why we have these things
which we call earbuds and
headphones, silly.
At day's end report back to me,
sharing what kind of day you
experienced and the miracle
for which you were most fond.
May grace fill your cup to over-
flowing with hope and unity today,
this beautiful Cinco de Mayo.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for all the GIFTS this
day will hold for all the earth
to bear witness to and receive.
Amen
***
05/04/2026
Thought for the Day
Our next point of review:
"I give myself permission to be
Infinite and free."
"Only I am clever enough to
design a foolproof plan to
leave Oneness and lose all
sense of reality to the Matrix."
"And only I am wise enough
and loving enough to give
myself permission to return
to that state which I never
left, which could never ever
leave me, being what I
changelessly am."
"Do I love myself enough to
give myself permission to be
free now?"
Allow it to flow wordlessly as
a soft and inviting invitation
in the background of the mind,
ever reminding you to relax,
accept, watch the breath and
lean into your experience with
an open and loving heart which
trusts that you are always
experiencing what you were
meant to experience and you
cannot mess it up.
Life is pretty simple as long as
we allow it to be.
horizontal axis = Matrix, lost in the
experience of humaning.
vertical axis = True North, the eternal
abode and home of the soul.
Have an elegantly simple and loving
day, for that too is by our design.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the sweet and simple
day that I am about to experience.
For I realize that all days are sweet
and simple unless I lose sight of
truth and complicate them.
May miracles of kindness fall like
healing rain on each and everyone
of us, as I give the whole of humanity
permission to be free and Infinite.
May all beings directly experience
their inherent freedom and know
peace.
Amen
***
05/03/2026
Thought for the Day
Our next point of review:
Life is all about....
*accepting...
*embracing....
*allowing...
Nothing more and nothing less.
Life is about being unequivocally freed
of the need to try to change anything.
Efforting over anything is a relic of
the past, a one and done.
So is struggle and suffering.
You are beautiful and perfect the way
you are right now, beloved, because
you are as God created you.
Unchanged. Unchanging. Unchangeable.
And so is everyone and everything
else.
This is and always has been all about
you giving yourself permission to be
free.
The nightmare phase of being human
ends when you finally love yourself
enough to end it.
The age of tenderness and completion
is upon us.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for helping these eyes
and this heart to see clearly.
Amen
***
05/02/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday in the midst of our prayer,
we made one of the most sobering
statements that can ever be made
and it went in one ear and out the
other for most who read it.
And it is a statement that nearly
no one on this planet actually
believes is true.
So let's take a look at it again.
"I am already as free as I ever will
be. I always have been and so is
everyone else."
Let's try to make it an even bolder
statement than this, one you
can memorize and keep in your
invisible pocket, ever available
to you whenever you feel upset,
angry, uncertain or lost in a state
of overwhelm and fear.
Right now, in the very midst of this
____________ (thought, this feeling,
this sensation, this experience), I
am as enlightened as I am ever going
to be.
There will be no other instant where
it can be said that I am more free
than this.
So why not slow my roll, take a breath
and lean into what is, knowing that
I am not here to try to change this.
I am here to feel it and experience this
fully, as it is.
So let me soften and bring my awareness
to my heart as I ask myself the following
question:
Can I embrace this?
And if that is just too big of an ask
at this point in time, can I at least
accept it and be kind and gentle with
myself and those who are experiencing
this along with me?
Obviously I have lost the plot again.
No matter.
Let me use this experience as a reminder
to return to True North.
There you have it.
Use it liberally.
Remember, you are in the world, but
you are not of it.
And nothing is nearly as big a deal
as your mind would like to make of it.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the FREEDOM which
I share with every living thing.
Amen
***
05/01/2026
Thought for the Day
From time to time I find it helpful
to hit my pause button, relax
and breathe, as I review what has
become powerfully clear to me.
Doing so will also provide a huge
paradigm shift for anyone who
takes it to heart if they let it.
And what I like best about this kind
of a review is that it illuminates just
how far I've come.
For although I am the same basic
person that I have always been,
the difference in the quality of my
life is like the difference between
night and day.
Remember the spiritual paradox
that we covered in recent weeks?
Although our emphasis, from day one,
has always been on radical acceptance,
ever reminding us that we do not need
to fix or change anything because we
are not broken, we have each seen
through our own direct experience
that the more you can accept yourself
as you are, the more you can accept
what you have done and what has
been done to you, with open arms
and a loving and gentle heart, the
more we find our lives changing, and
always for the better.
We are happier.
We walk around with a smile on
our face more often than not.
We trust more.
And a genuine lightheartedness
begins to fill our days.
We know that we are always on
the soul's journey and that we
cannot mess it up.
We know that what happens as
well as how we experience what
happens was meant to happen
precisely as it did.
And if it is true about us, it is
equally true for every single one
of us.
God doesn't make mistakes,
which means that you do not
make mistakes either.
Ever.
You are as God created you, are
you not?
So our first point of review can be
simply stated as follows:
There is no determining factor
for anyone.
Everything is available equally to
all of us in every moment of our
lives.
This translates into this simple fact:
Everything is available to you and
everyone else right now, in this
very instant.
Nothing is or ever can get in the way
of anything.
Isn't that such magnificent news?
Remind yourself of this often today.
Especially when you are about to
judge and find fault with someone,
something or yourself.
Apply it generously to any situation
that happens to get under your skin
or ruffle your feathers.
See if you can open your heart and
your arms to what happens in your mind,
your emotions, your body and every
situation or circumstance you find
yourself in today with a smile rather than
a reproach, softness rather than spite,
and openness rather than contraction.
Whether you choose to participate in
this little experiment or not will not
change a single thing, so why bother?
How about this for a guarantee?
I promise you that your participation
in the experiment will not change
what is destined to happen, but it
will change the quality of your inner
experience if you do elect to participate
because that, beloved, always makes
for a much sweeter ride.
***
Prayer for the Day
What is there to get upset
and forlorn about when you
accept that there is no
determining factor for any-
thing?
I am already as free as I ever
will be. I always have been
and so is everyone else.
How about I lay aside all effort
and striving today and just
enjoy the life which is mine
to live?
Thank you ahead of time for
the miracles which will unfold
for each and every one of us
today.
Amen
***
04/30/2026
Thought for the Day
Now that you have a couple of
days under your belt of working
with the metaphor of repelling
magnets, we are going to talk
about them again in reverse.
I spoke with several people and
they told me that they recognized
what I was trying to explain when
it occurred within themselves
rather quickly.
It became a felt experience which
was recognizable for the most part.
We are talking about simple ways
to notice how quickly one shifts
from enlightened to humaning
unless they find ways to remain
consciously aware in the moments
of their days.
They also reported that it was a
reminder to slow their lives
down. For always this world
seeks to get you to join the herd
of ballistic human doing.
But today, I just want you to
notice when the now quite
familiar feeling of repelling
magnets rises within you.
See it, recognize it and feel it
You see, there are so many times
that I do not realize that I am
resisting rather than relaxing
until I acknowledge the discomfort
that I am feeling.
This is often the case when
resistance is more subtle, and
therefore passes by unrecognized
in the moment.
I then hit my pause button and
the first question that arises is
the question we have repeatedly
offered here over the years.
Is peace in my awareness?
Obviously, it is not, so then the
second question arises.
What am I resisting?
That's where our inner inquiry
begins.
As I said, so often I do not recognize
the subtlety of resistance, the
undercurrent of avoidance and
discontent (wishing things were
different and trying to change
them).
When we are humaning, the ego
can be very clever in its ability
to mask what we are up to so
that it can remain in charge.
And what is the overarching
purpose of such inquiry?
To show us that we are again
embroiled in the mechanics
of humaning, up to our eyeballs
in the finite, the personal, and
we have entirely lost sight of
our Infinite and Eternal Reality
or soul.
So the purpose of our inquiry
is to show us what we have
resisted, what we have not
accepted and embraced, not
to try to fix or change either
ourselves or our experience.
So normalize your experience.
Now relax into it with your
heart open and the proclivity
to judge and avoid gently laid
aside, thus returning you
to soul.
Work with this today and do share
what you discover.
As our thought yesterday
reminded us, being human
is not a solo act.
And there is so much comfort
in the recognition and realization
that we are not alone.
Consciously choosing to connect
with other friends who are also
choosing conscious lives, actively
extracting themselves from the
Matrix as are we, can be a huge
source of strength and support
to us if we let it be.
How amazing is it to recognize
someone from the same branch
of the Tree of Life as ourselves?
One who chose to incarnate at this
particular time in human history
along with us to help usher in
the next chapter in human evolution?
And we do this each and every day
by allowing ourselves to become
the science experiment, the petri
dish, so that our lives are living
demonstrations of what is possible
in the span of one precious human
life.
***
Prayer for the Day
Liveth Thou Me, dear
soul.
Liveth Thou Me.
May I never lose sight of
you in the quagmire of
this Matrix in which we
find ourselves.
For I would be a lighthouse;
ever reminding all within the
purview of its luminescence
of their own True North.
Amen
***
04/29/2026
Thought for the Day
How about a really great
go-to statement?
One you can pull out of
your pocket when things
are tough and you feel
uncertain, overwhelmed,
frustrated, perturbed and
in over your head?
I am never a soloist.
I am not a person, I am
a Presence.
Empowerment is not about
personal power, personal
understanding, its about
remembering to give it to God
and leave it there.
And if you do no happen to like
my use of the word "God,"
how about tweaking it a bit
and saying the following...
To be empowered is not to seek
personal power, personal solutions,
but to leave all power in its Universal
form where answers come from an
intelligence which is entirely beyond
my paygrade when they are needed
and where they are needed.
Nothing ever depends upon me.
Because the truth is that none
of the human stuff is about
you.
And none of the human stuff
depends upon you.
Nor does any of it mean anything
about you.
So memorize it and use it whenever
and wherever you feel outside of your
capacity to know what to do.
I am sure your mind as well as your
life will give you plenty of experiences
which are perfect for a reminder such
as this.
Let the results speak for themselves
and let me leave you today with
the following...
There is a beautiful sloka in the
Bodhicharyavatara which means
The Way of the Bodhisattva that
says the following:
If there is something you can do
about it, why worry?
If there is nothing you can do
about it, why worry?
I know I am powerless as a human
being and yet I rest in a sublime
state of peace and trust.
I worry about absolutely nothing
these days...
Do I have serious health challenges
right now?
Yes.
Am I swimming in medical debt?
Yes.
Have I recently lost a major source
of income upon which I depended?
Yes.
But am I worried?
No.
Do I feel afraid?
No.
Do I wrestle with sleeplessness?
Heaven's no!
I feel comforted and supported
by the Universe, I do not feel
overwhelmed, nor do I feel
abandoned by it.
I know I am loved and will be
cared for.
God is my Daily Bread, not this
world.
I draw from an Eternal Source
beyond this world's capacity
to remotely fathom.
I really think that is my greatest
super power.
Because being human is a unending
reminder to remember to take a step
back and allow the LIGHT to lead
the way.
***
Prayer for the Day
I can't.
God can.
So I think I'll turn loose of
the steering wheel, hop in
the backseat, and let the Universe
do all the driving.
Amen
***
04/28/2026
Thought for the Day
When I was a child, I loved magnets.
They were such a strange and oddly
compelling mystery to me.
I loved how they were attracted to
one another, how quickly they
would become attached when you
put them in proximity to one another.
But I think it was the magnets which
repelled one another than I liked
best and found most interesting to
play with.
I would toy with them until I found
that perfect sweet spot of tension
between the two where I could
feel the pull that existed between
them because it was coursing
through my body as well.
Close enough and yet not so distant
that they were able to push apart
completely, thus breaking the point
of any palpable tension.
They were interesting to observe.
You could not endure feeling that
energy indefinitely, because there
was a point where it began to feel
too uncomfortable to continue.
Strangely enough however, I loved
making myself feel that discomfort
for as long as I could stand it.
But inevitably, you were driven
to distance the two from each other
to a place of safety where the tension
could no longer be felt.
This is the nature of resistance.
Whenever you do not like something,
for whatever reason, and you feel
the knee-jerk urge to avoid, I would like
you to quietly observe your experience.
Treat your experience like a science
experiment.
Do not try to change it immediately
and do not judge yourself or make
yourself wrong in any way.
Just notice what you feel and observe.
For what I have found in observing
myself is that it is not the particular
story or meaning which I have given
to the experience that I am trying to
avoid which is the cause of my
suffering.
It is the palpable tension that I am
feeling which is indistinguishable
to that of repelling magnets.
I will continue to feel that so long
as I continue to avoid what I am
trying hard not to look at, or
enough time passes where I can
successfully suppress and repress
which usually takes a few days to
accomplish.
You know what I am talking about.
Out of sight and out of mind.
However, I have met people who
have been stuck in this position
for decades.
People in this position are very
attached to playing the role of
victim and blaming their misery
on someone or something else.
What I have noticed with myself,
however, as I continued to explore
my experience, is that when I
consciously choose to stop resisting
and just remain very still and open,
without telling any stories or
assigning any meanings to my
experience, just absolutely still
and open, that I no longer feel
that repelling quality of energy.
All I notice are nameless sensations
in various parts of the body.
Here, they can be felt, described,
observed and integrated.
A very simple process.
Observe this with yourself today.
But take it a step further.
After allowing the experience to
fully integrate, repeat the following
statement to yourself:
I am identified with the ego. Only
the ego is capable of experiencing
resistance. Only the ego can suffer.
Then turn your attention to the
universal experience of the Soul,
which is peaceful and loving
acceptance.
This entire event which you have
now experienced has been truly
miraculous.
On a planet with nearly 9 billion
people, how many do you suppose
are experiencing the incredible
luminosity of Clear Seeing as
are you?
Have a beautiful and profoundly
miraculous day today.
And may you remain consciously
aware of the force that is ever
with you, for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
It's good to be alive.
Thank you for the gift.
Bless these eyes.
Bless these eyes and this heart,
for I will to see clearly.
Amen
***
04/27/2026
Thought for the Day
As entirely liberating as a thought
may be, as our thought from
yesterday was, your experience
after having your eyes and heart
opening wider than they ever have
before,can seem confusing because
you may start experiencing things
that feel far more unsettling or
difficult than they do peaceful.
This is to be expected.
I cannot emphasize enough the
necessity of normalizing our
experience, whatever it happens
to be.
Normalizing is often an act of
profound kindness that you are
not used to affording yourself.
But here is the thing...
Each instant that you grasp a
little more clearly that there is
no such thing as a personal self,
and each instant that you identify
more clearly with the Universal,
Eternal and Changeless nature
of who and what you truly are,
the more the body has to shed
all the things which were
byproducts and acquisitions
of the personal identity you
have been operating as
through incessant repetition.
You see, when we say you are
on the soul's journey, that you
have always been on the soul's
journey, things like time, destiny
and karma apply only to the
individual or personal self.
But when you embark on the
journey As Soul, meaning your
identification is with our
collective identity, rather than
the personal identity, all things
which are the result of one's
identification as the personal
begin to purge themselves from
the body's cells, organs, tissues,
glands, DNA, atoms and molecules.
This is a good thing.
This is a very good thing.
This is even a boon for your entire
lineage, both backward and forward.
But it may well feel as challenging
and disturbing as it is wonderful.
Would you not be free of all of
this?
Trust now must become your new
best friend.
So do not be at all surprised
if you face things you thought
were long gone.
And do not count it strange if
you experience bouts of extreme
cold, heat or nausea, joint
pain, mild fevers or achiness.
Remember that the instruction
is to first normalize the experience.
Next, support the body in whatever
way your intuition suggests.
And never forget to ask yourself
sincerely, "How can I love and
support you best through this?"
This is the time of tenderness.
And your breath is the key to
everything.
Be attentive and gentle with yourself,
feeling deeply everything that is
presenting itself.
THIS IS ONLY COMING UP SO THAT
IT CAN LEAVE.
ALLOW IT TO LEAVE BY TRULY
BEING THERE FOR YOURSELF.
Presence is the fire which lovingly
burns to ashes all things which are
no longer necessary.
No stories. No meanings. No
interpretations nor any need to
understand anything.
These are mere delay mechanisms.
Just feeling, loving and supporting.
That is the instruction.
Nothing is ever as complicated
or as serious as you have made it
out to be.
How very fortunate you are
to be where you are, experiencing
what it is yours to experience.
A little gratitude will go farther
than you could possibly know.
A good mantra I have found
useful over the years is this:
This is a GIFT. Why not stick
around and truly be here to
see how it all unfolds?
***
Prayer for the Day
I am a limitless being of love
and light, ONE with all things
manifest and unmanifest.
Thank you for the countless
gifts and miracles which will
unfold in my life today, all
because I know that I am that,
I am.
Amen
***
04/26/2026
Thought for the Day
I would like to begin today's thought
with the final statement that I made
in yesterday's prayer:
"For the sake of all of us..."
It is one thing to believe that we are
all one, that what we do affects each
and every single thing that lives and
to have accepted this as gospel, and
it is quite another thing to have had
a direct experience of Oneness, to
feel our unity with each other and
all of life, knowing that we are one
being who is wearing countless forms
and faces.
And we all know how tragically
Christianity screwed things up by
making Jesus special, so special in
fact that he was the one and only
son of God, while the rest of us were
hopeless sinners who were entirely
beyond redemption without his
sacrifice.
This is the idea that God had to
allow his one and only son to be
sacrificed in a perfectly heinous
manner for the sake of all the rest
of us, so that all of creation would
not be forever lost to themselves,
to each other, and to God, and
by thus condemned to hell.
But even Jesus was known to have
uttered these words before his
ascension:
"Very truly I tell you, whoever believes
in me will do the works I have been
doing, and they will do even greater
things than these because I am going
to the Father."
John 14:12
What did he mean? What was he
really saying?
To one who has a direct experience
of oneness it is self evident.
First, he was trying to get through
to us that there is no such thing as
the personal self.
There is the Christ Consciousness,
the very spark of God which lives
in all things created equally, for it
is a part of an infinite ocean or
field we know as God.
Christ was not Jesus' name.
It was the part of God inside of
him which had saturated every
atom and molecule of his being
and with which he had become
entirely identified.
Secondly, he was trying to tell us
throughout his brief public
ministry that we are all the
Christ.
This is our changeless identity.
Next, he was trying to tell us that
all the ego or personal self really
is, is the portion of the collective
consciousness we each have been
channeling from those around
us and the etheric element of that
unified field of energy.
When you repeat something often
enough, you believe that it is the
truth.
There is a beautiful sentence in
the AA Preamble which says:
"Repetition strengthens and
confirms, and faith comes naturally."
We have each been functioning
from a mistaken sense of identity.
So we took all these repeated 1's
and 0's from this matrix of energy,
this amalgamation of data points,
and we formulated a sense of
identity from them, as if molding
them from clay.
This became our adopted sense
of self, the sense of I, me, mine.
But again, there is no such thing
as a personal self which is real.
So what is all the collective
consciousness? What does it
contain?
Remember the discussion we had
on our own trinity?
a) The personal self and every quality
possible to the experience of being
human.
b) The experience of love, light and
presence which we all are.
c) The Void or Emptiness; a primordial
nothingness which contains every
single possibility and potential in
a formless state.
So what Jesus was trying to get each
of us to see was that we do not need
to channel those things which keep
us believing in the pseudo self that
we made.
If that Collective Consciousness, which
is the truth of all of us, contains every
possibility and potential, if it is quite
literally Infinite, meaning that there is
no beginning nor end to what is
equally available to all of us, then
that, dear friends, is what the living
presence of Christ or God is.
So surely what is possible for each of us
is beyond anything which the mind can
conceive.
Every great achievement, every record
set, every work of art, every beautiful
sunset, every baby's smile, where do
you think all of this stuff comes from?
Our Consciousness, the Infinite
Unified Field we call God.
So today I want you to give yourself
permission to quietly reflect on all
of this.
Every breath that you take, every beat
of your heart, every thought that
you think, every feeling that you feel
is coming from that vast and infinite
field of information.
Aren't you magnificent?
So welcome the miraculous.
And remember..
"All things are possible to the one
who believes."
Mark 9:23
***
Prayer for the Day
I am all this...
Can you believe it?
Me a part of it and it a part
of me...
Everything is a miracle!
Every single thing is a miracle!
Every moment is a miracle.
I am a miracle!
The opportunity to be here,
to be alive, to experience all of
this, what an incredible gift!
Thank you for all of it!
I'm going back for more!
Why settle for crumbs?
I'll take the whole enchilada!
Amen
***
04/25/2026
Thought for the Day
When you can meet the more
difficult aspects of your
humanity, I mean really turn
and face them, accepting these
parts of yourself without
trying to change them or make
them wrong, welcoming them
fully into your heart with
gentleness, compassion and
kindness exactly as they are,
this hallmarks the beginning of
union with the Divine.
What more could be shared
today than this?
You have your marching orders.
There are legions of things
that will happen today.
And you will either turn and
face each one of them or you
will try to find some way to run
away from them in order to
avoid them.
And the myriad of reactions
to these experiences that you
will have will quite literally
be all over the map.
You will see parts of yourself
which are easy to love and
embrace.
There will be other parts for
which you feel rather cool or
neutral.
But there will be other things....
Things that you would rather
deny, ignore, distract, numb or
self medicate into oblivion in
whatever way which works best
for you when you are trying to
avoid facing and acknowledging
the uncomfortable and perhaps
even more painful aspects of your
humanity to look at and own.
Do you have the courage to
be still, to turn and face them?
Because the courage to stay is
a big one for all of us.
And from here, can you accept
and embrace the darker aspects
of your humanity and normalize
them?
They are nothing to feel shame
about.
But they are aspects of the collective
which you have repeated again
and again until you have chosen
to believe they are who you are.
They are not, but you have made
them yours through repetition
and identification.
You are a human being humaning.
You are having a human experience.
Truth be told, if anyone else on
this planet had to go through what
you have gone through in this life?
Well they would feel, say and
act this way too when they had
had enough.
You see, the ability to do this
genuinely on behalf of all of us
is the only so called price to
knowing the unknowable.
And each time that you do,
beloved, we each can breathe
a little more free as we experience
a huge sigh of relief and embrace
our newfound emancipation and
peace.
***
Prayer for the Day
I am ready to embrace all that
I have denied because it was
my truth.
For the sake of all of us........
Amen
***
04/24/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple thought is again given
you to work with today.
The instruction remains the
same.
Allow the thought to walk in the
space before you today, ever
informing your feelings, your
thoughts and your actions, for it
is a very good reminder to stop
taking yourself and life so seriously.
Allow the words to fill you with
peace each time you repeat them
to yourself, ever reminding you
to relax and remember to actually
give yourself permission to enjoy
your breath.
Deep breaths.....
Remember how that feels?
Try taking a deep breath now with
your head tilted slightly back while
your face is tilted a bit upward.
Now close your eyes and put
a smile on that face of yours
with your arms stretched wide.
Isn't that delicious?
Here is you statement.
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
Isn't that wonderful to hear and
such good news?
This being human thing has
never been a 'me' type of
experience, it is a 'we'
experience.
And that air you are breathing?
It is the Universal Life Force
that you are breathing there, pal.
It isn't about your breath, it is our
breath that you are breathing.
With each and every breath, you
are connecting with the very spirit
which abides in all of us equally.
Remember....
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
You are not nearly as important
as you believe that you are.
You have been operating under
a false sense of self importance.
You have been pole-vaulting over
mouse turds your whole life.
It is a burden, stressful and completely
overwhelming to believe you are so
bloody important, because it has always
been and always will be about “our”
presence, "our" influence....
We are each a satellite dish that
receives and expresses the energy
that is all of us united as we were
created.
We aren't the doer of shit.
Lifting the overwhelm off of you,
the energy that you made all
about you.
Your efforts...
Your contributions...
Your being irreplaceable...
You have been victimized by life....
Giving all your power away...
When it is all about you and your
efforts, your contribution, it is
severely limiting and it is a burden.
The cards have not been stacked
against you.
Allowing the illusion and trap
of personal doership to be
lifted off of you.
Pivoting out the individual into the
Infinite, out of the personal into
the Universal.
Noticing the absolute sense of
liberation and expansion of the
energy you are experiencing.
And also noticing the FREEDOM.
It is our Presence you are feeling.
It is our Presence which you are
experiencing.
And your world will not collapse
without your efforts, in spite of how
deeply you believe you are the one
who keeps it all propped up and
flowing on a daily basis.
From a bird's eye view, you look like
Don Quixote tilting at windmills
all day.
Isn't that exhausting and utterly
burdensome?
So let yourself off the hook today.
And give yourself the ingredients
required for fun and amazement.
It could be one helluva Friday if
you allowed yourself to take a step
back and enjoy the gift you have
been given.
Lay the adult aside and see how
wonderful it feels to be childlike
and unencumbered by worries,
concerns, pressures to perform
and unrealistic goals.
Have you ever witnessed anything
in nature ever worry about anything?
Allow your world to flow without
your aid.
It has been all along in spite of your
gymnastics and theatrics.
Oh.. You thought that was your
efforts that were making all this
happen?
Will the earth stop spinning on
its axis today without your help?
Every day is a good day to be
still and know with a child's heart
ever reminding you that you were
born to bear witness, not to lose
yourself in the false notion of
personal doership and the activity
of adulting.
For you are only ever as free as you
allow yourself to be.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today, I will give myself
permission to live free of
everything.
I'm gonna play full out
and swing for the fences
with a heart as wide as
the world!
Amen
***
04/23/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday was a day that the former
'me' would have described as
"straight out of hell."
First let me clarify something that
is very important.
The singular message which I
have consistently given voice to
for as long as I can remember is
that you do not need to change.
You are not broken.
And there is absolutely nothing
for you to work on.
Yet I have just spoken of myself
as though I was two different
people: current me and former
me.
And this is because one of the
more hilarious paradoxes of
the spiritual path to me is that
the more you stop working on
yourself, the more you change
and the more things change
in your life.
So while I say there is nothing
wrong, that there is nothing for
you to do and nothing to work
on, the more I have been able
to love and accept myself and
my life as it is in recognition
that I am already and always
the perfect 'me,' the more my
life has changed, the more
I have changed...
And for the better, IMHO.
All my rough edges were made
smooth. And I am kind and
gentle, spacious and infinitely
patient, loving and peaceful.
Hey...and I have a whole lot of
the wisdom thing going on!
Not just some of the time, but
all of the time!
And I dare to say these things
about myself because even
when I am having a rough day
like yesterday, I can always
take another step back and
be the most loving and tender
friend to the part of me that
feels such overwhelm, confusion,
ever questioning the universe,
about "Where in the h-e-double
toothpicks is my miracle?"
when no apparent miracle
is showing up to save the day.
I even noticed while in the check
out lane at Trader Joe's, when
the kind young man who
was loading up my groceries and
hit his pause button long enough
to look me dead in the eye
and ask,"How's your day going
today?" that I replied with a steady
return gaze, "You know...it's been
a day that 6 months ago I might
have had a royal meltdown over.
But you know what?
Today I am honestly just trying
to breathe, relax, trust that all is well,
and remember to smile as I do.
Because the real kicker is that
I could no longer be here to be
experiencing it. And that makes
it all a GIFT."
He said, "That's really great. I
hope it gets better for you now
that it seems you are ready to
head for home and call it a day."
A moment of connection, heart
to heart. And compassion and
kindness from a stranger who
would be brother and friend.
Does it get any better than that?
I'm telling you....
So that's the daily challenge
for all of us today.
No one can normalize your
experience but you.
Life is going to do what life is
going to do.
And humans are going to do
the one thing that you can
always count on them doing,
humaning.
And you will be reminded again
and again that you do not have
any control over any of it.
You do not even have control
over whether or not you are
even going to be given your
next breath.
That is mighty humbling, mighty
humbling...
Sometimes it will be exhilarating.
Sometimes you will want to pat
yourself on the shoulder because
you are doing so well.
(Which is seriously a joke if ever
I heard one because none of us
has any control over anything
other than whether or not we
will love and support ourselves
as we live the life which is ours
to live...)
Sometimes our day will go all
pear shaped and we will want
to go home, pull the covers
over our head and alternate
between spitting nails and
sucking our thumb.
But it will be our day.
It will be our life.
And we will live it as only we
can live it.
Now can you just do you, stay
in your lane and notice when
you are getting too close to either
the yellow line or the shoulder
and feel a bit of gratitude that
you are still here, still giving it
your all, still seeing how precious
you are and life is?
Because the deepest truth I have
discovered in the living of my life
is that when you can normalize
something, it is no longer such a
big deal.
Did you hear that?
Because it is very, very important.
This is normal.
My reaction is normal.
And life is just doing life.
The sky isn't falling and
I am doing me.
Normal. Every damn bit of it.
Hey self...could you use a hug?
Have a beautiful day my loves,
and know that I am in this
thing with you, right up to my
eyeballs, embracing the life
which is mine to live and sending
you all the love, encouragement
and support this heart has to
offer as you live the life which
is yours to live and experience
today too.
The key word for the day today
is normalize.
Remember that every moment
is a good moment to be thankful
and normalize the life which
is yours to live.
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever the day is that is
going to be mine to experience
and live today, let me remember
to normalize my experience,
smile and breathe, and never
forget to dance as I love my
way through it!
Amen
***
04/22/2026
Thought for the Day
I moved into the home in which
I presently live the day the Trade
Towers went down.
Good thing I don't believe in
bad omens or that could have
been a real bummer.
Few can imagine living in the same
place for as long as I have, but
there you have it.
I call that GRACE.
I mention this because I have
used my address as an example
to explain what we are all trying
to accomplish here because it
does so quite clearly.
It is an example which has served
me well since the day I moved in.
Let's say that someone knocks
on my door because they are
lost and are asking me for
directions to get back home.
I ask them where they are trying
to get to and they inform me
that their destination is Plano, TX.
Plano is a mere hop, skip and a
jump from my home in North Dallas.
My residence is less than a quarter
of a mile from a freeway which is
named North Central Expressway.
Here in Texas, this freeway is
commonly referred to as
'N. C. Expwy'.
And Plano is 5 miles north of me
off of that Expwy. which runs both
north and south.
What if I were to give that individual
directions to the freeway and then
I instructed them to get on the
southbound Expwy because all that
they have to do is go 12,954,001
miles and they will find themselves
safely in Plano.
This is the path of working on your-
self.
And it is what religion, the New
Age movement, all self help
groups, books, seminars, work-
shops, etc. try to sell you.
It is also what traditional therapy
has to offer.
Time, effort, energy and resources
all going nowhere which only com-
pound your sense of failure.
But what if I gave that same person
directions to the freeway and told
them to stay in the far left lane
because what they want to do is
get on the northbound freeway
and they will see exit signs in
approximately 5 miles which say
that you are now in Plano?
Which route would you rather take?
Both will eventually get you there,
for that is their intention.
However, one way will more than
likely take you decades if not lifetimes
to arrive at your destination.
And the journey will be fraught with
disappointment, discouragement,
uncertainty, calamity and chaos.
While the other will be a straight shot.
Now it really is up to you.
But long and tedious is just not my
bailiwick.
Can you accept the blessed truth that
you do not have to be different in
any way?
That you are only as encumbered or
unencumbered as you are preoccupied
with trying to fix yourself?
And you cannot seek salvation when
you have never needed salvaging
because you cannot find what was
never lost in the first place.
You can only give yourself permission
to be who and how you always have
been and ever yet shall be.
Because it is one thing to say these
words because you believe them to
be true. Here they can remain safely
in the mind as mere concept.
And it is quite another thing to open
your beautiful and fragile heart in
complete and utter transparency,
allowing the LOVE which you forever
are to engulf and consume you
irrevocably.
This is about alchemy, and it is about
living a great mystery.
Liberation is not an acquired state,
it is about you allowing yourself to
receive the LOVE which you
changelessly are.
And that, dear one, is a matter of you
opening your heart to the truth which
abides in all its immaculate clarity,
wonder and awe within you.
It was and is as available to a serial
killer as it is to a saint.
Thus your humanity does not
and cannot get in the way of it.
Will you allow yourself to be free?
Because that is what it all boils
down to is your permission, or do
you need more time to work on
yourself, to seek but never find?
You do not need a guru, a teacher,
a special book, workshop or
seminar.
You do not need to waste money
and travel somewhere other than
where you presently are in this
very instant.
Freedom really is free, in spite of
the bill of goods you have been
sold which has you brainwashed
into believing you are broken so
you cannot be free in your present
state and need time to work on
yourself.
You do not need to believe any of
the negative bullshit that has been
spoken over you which you have
mistakenly taken to heart.
The state of transcendence is freely
offered you in every single breath
you take.
Remember when the starship
Enterprise would find itself in
a tractor beam?
Well, that tractor beam is your
breath, ever pulling you into
the secret depths of your inner-
most kingdom.
So consciously follow the breath
today, and give yourself permission
to receive what no one else can
give you, because it is already yours
and it always has been.
Isn't it high time you allowed what
you are to tell you of itself?
***
Prayer for the Day
I give myself permission to experience
the freedom which is forever mine.
Oh God, reveal Thyself to me!
And in each and every moment,
I silently give this same permission
to all my world.
May all beings give themselves
permission to embrace FREEDOM
NOW with no further delays or
hesitation.
Amen
***
04/21/2026
Thought for the Day
There is a profound and highly
palpable harmonic resonance
which is felt when you live
your life in alignment with
the inner Trinity within you.
We haven't spoken of this
Trinity in a while, so we will
offer a quick review.
(1) A profound state of Emptiness
which is also referred to as the
Void.
There is nothing here.
There is no you, no reporter.
Free of any content, yet pregnant
with Infinite Potential and
Possibility.
It is mentioned in the Bible in
Genesis 1:2 where it says,
"And the earth was without form,
and void, and darkness was upon
the face of the deep."
(2) The first creation was that of
light, spoken of in Genesis 1:3.
"And God said, 'Let there be light,
and there was light."
The manifest form of this Infinite
Potential and Possibility is light.
And the feeling which is associated
with that light is love.
You are that presence, that love,
that light.
(3) While the third portion of your
Trinity is the human manifestation.
There is no difference between these
three. They are one.
Life also has two axes.
A vertical axis and a horizontal one,
forming the shape of a cross within
the human being.
The point where these axes cross
one another is found within each
of the 7 chakras.
The difference between the two
axes is one who lives from the
outside in and one who lives their
life from the inside out.
One who lives from the outside in
lives their whole life trying to tinker
with their humanity while trying
to control and manipulate their
life experience, feeling that their
inner experience is dictated by
their out one.
While one who lives from the inside
out is aligned with the Trinity
within. This one is not controlled
by outside experiences. Nor are they
bothered by their human one.
Their life is an authentic expression
of the Trinity within them, ever
remaining in alignment with all three
aspects of identity.
You are experiencing the body, yet
you are also experiencing being
transcendent.
This is to be in the world but not
of it.
The means given you to remain
anchored to the Trinity within you
is that of the breath.
Breath awareness is a living practice.
The will to live your life free of
suffering, free of survival, free of
uncertainty, chaos and doom
begins with commitment and
consistency on your part.
How attuned to my breath can
I be today?
That is the question that walks in
the space before you, ever
reminding you of your first priority.
When I forget, can I return without
beating up on myself, and just keep
threading my internal needle by
returning to the breath again and
again and by thus, realigning to
the source of truth within me?
This is your challenge for today.
"I am no longer allergic to being
human."
"No part of my humanity is ever
in conflict with the Trinity within
me."
"Breath awareness ever reminds
me of the truth. The breath is
my anchor to all three."
"There is no conflict between all
three states and I can live my life
in alignment with all three all of
the time."
"My only struggle has ever been
with my humanity. Now I can
normalize the human experience
rather than pathologize it while
constantly trying to work on it."
"My human experience is part
of the Infinite being that I am."
You are the one who stigmatized
your particular experience of
being human and you are the
only one who needs to normalize
it.
This happens when you no longer
make yourself wrong and allow
a thing so simple as the breath
to keep you tethered to all three.
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me keep life profoundly
simple today by anchoring
mind, emotions, body and
experience upon the breath.
And help me remain light
hearted about it, returning
again and again when I forget
and lose myself once again
on the horizontal.
I am in the world, but
not of it and my only wish
is for my human experience
to be a reflection of the
Trinity within me.
Amen
***
04/20/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple assignment is offered
today in lieu of a particular
thought.
The practice is that of wearing
yourself and your life today
like a loose garment.
Hold the highest and best for
yourself.
Hold the highest and best for
everyone and everything you
will encounter in your day
today.
Hold the highest and best for
our world.
But do not expect that anyone
is ever going to get it, that
anyone is ever going to get you.
Perhaps the most difficult thing
for any of us to face is that
there is no endgame to all this,
certainly not the one that you
have been trying to make happen.
We are all experiencing what
we have not yet had the courage
to face, living our lives as we
feel guided to do so.
You did not come here to make
a difference in anyone else's life.
You came here to experience
being you, and that you do, each
and every day.
Remain clear, trusting and humble.
Simply live your truth and do it
for yourself, in constant remem-
brance that you are not here to
have some kind of impact on
anyone.
You are here to be you, as only
you can.
Cease wishing for another world
other than the one you are
experiencing right now.
You have nothing to offer anyone
other than your example.
LOVE is about knowing everyone's
potential, knowing the world's
potential, without expectations
or attachments to a particular
outcome.
LOVE is always offered with an
open hand and a boundless
heart.
How could LOVE be called love
if it did not give total radical
freedom to everyone to be
exactly as they are, without
expectations, judgment or
demand?
Can you dare to wear your life
this loosely?
And when you notice that you
are taking yourself or your
world a little too seriously,
wearing it tightly once again,
remember your exercise for
today.
Take a psychological step back,
return to the breath, relax and
soften as you inwardly hold
space for our world, offering a
mother's tender and endlessly
compassionate and patient heart
to all that is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever is God's will is
destined to happen.
Whatever is not God's will
is destined never to happen.
And between these two
opposites, we are the architects
of our own destiny.
Amen
Prayer from the Upanishads
***
Dear God...
I cannot do anything other than
be me and strive to love myself
and my world with all my heart,
ever holding all of us in golden
light.
A light that holds the highest and
best for all of us, while knowing
the world is going to do what it is
going to do and I cannot change
that.
Grace fall upon me, that I might
live my life so aligned with truth
that there is no difference between
us.
For I recognize that to know this
and to live this is to know peace.
Amen
***
04/19/2026
Thought for the Day
Another short but sweet
practice is offered you
today.
Every moment can be
an invitation for miracles
if you (a) want it to be and
(b) allow it to be.
Most people do not pay
attention to their lives.
They live with their IOS set
on remote control, with the
ego large and in charge,
but at the same time, this is
a very robotic and reflexive
way to live.
I feel that the one thing that
all human beings are most
afraid of is love.
They do not want to believe
that they are incapable, as
the personal self, of meeting
love.
What ego is capable of genuinely
living their lives in a state of absolute
vulnerability and transparency?
Virtually all people leave
relationships, encounters and
experiences long before
they are actually over with.
That is a powerful statement
I have just made.
Don't just let it pass you by
without carefully and kindly
examining how you conduct
yourself in relationship.
See if you do not notice your
attention drift off, the walls
go up to varying degrees
(depending on the experience
or who you happen to be with
at the time) and the mind start
planning its exit strategy.
The sad reality is that no
ego is capable of meeting
love.
That would require being able
to consciously recognize that
every moment is a holy moment,
every encounter or experience
is also holy, every instant an
exploration of life lived from
the vestiges of the final frontier;
that of the totally raw, naked and
vulnerable human heart.
What makes every instant holy is
the fact that your choosing to
remain both conscious and irrevocably
vulnerable opens the floodgates
of heaven.
What else could an invitation
to the miraculous be?
It is one thing to know this.
It is another thing to believe
that it is true.
And it is an altogether new
kind of experience to actually
try to live one's life this way.
Can you not see that if the ego
were capable of doing this, it
would no longer be the ego?
So that is the assignment for
today.
To have some respect and awe
for the potential which is available
to each and every one of us in every
moment of our lives.
What could happen in your world
today if you were to remain conscious,
tender, naked and vulnerable?
There is no limit to the possibility
of every moment for one that
consciously chooses to live life
so bravely.
How miraculous can your world
be today?
Challenge yourself.
What have you got to lose other
than your sense of separation,
isolation and aloneness, as well
as the misery and suffering that
mistaking the pseudo self for
who you are actually entails?
***
Prayer for the Day
Naked.
Oh so vulnerable.
Curious.
May my very being be an
open invitation to
the soul.
Live Thou me.
Amen
***
04/18/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's look again today at expectations
and attachments.
This is to be a day of simple noticing,
followed by a conscious choosing to
fall back, relax and accept the most
sobering of truths that you have no
control over the people in your life
and withdraw all the energy you have
put into trying to help or fix them.
This is especially difficult to do with
life partners, children and relatives.
You are not failing.
You simply have expectations, and
things are not going the way you
wish or according to your timeline.
When you have expectations of any
kind, you will suffer, but only 100%
of the time.
Remember, they are on the soul's
journey and cannot do it wrong or
mess things up. Give them the gift
of their own dysfunction and the
freedom to do things as they are
destined to do.
If freedom is what you cherish, do
they not deserve the same measure
of freedom from you?
Even if that means they do not use
it the way that you would use it?
Remember...their soul's journey, not your
journey...
This is going to require you to deepen
your understanding and practice of
trust.
You cannot be attached to any outcome.
It will require a level of truthfulness with
yourself that you are currently unfamiliar
with.
It is the razor's edge you walk: on one
side of the blade lies attachment and
expectations, while on the other side
is acceptance and trust.
What if....
What if they agreed to play this role in
your life while they were yet in the bardo
between life and death, that this was
and is the plan?
All so that you could deepen your
capacity to accept and trust?
For peace is what arises to fill every cell,
every atom, molecule and photon of
your being when you let yourself and
your world be as it is and trust.
***
Prayer for the Day
I bow before the isness of life
today and every day.
Radical acceptance and trust
are my only practices from here
on out.
Amen
***
04/17/2026
Thought for the Day
Two mantras are given you
to work with today.
First, commit them to
memory.
Secondly, allow them each to
walk in the space before you,
ever informing and reminding
you that you are okay, that every-
thing is okay and you have every
reason to stop engaging with the
peanut gallery between yours
ears, drop it like a hot potato,
return to the breath and trust.
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
And do share how your
day goes if you would like to
chat.
***
Prayer for the Day
The 4 things which my
personal self is best at
are opinions, thinking it
knows best, free advice
and complicating the shit
out of everything.
I cannot think of a better
way to keep me confused,
off balance and chasing
my tail.
Sweet and simple are the
marching orders for the day
as I remind myself often of
the following:
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
It is a beautiful and perfect
world when I remember that.
Thank you for the gift of life.
Thank you for the gift of
my life.
I wasn't promised a today,
yet here it is.
Let me live it consciously
with care.
Amen
***
04/16/2026
Thought for the Day
Repeat after me:
What happens to my identity
does not happen to the soul.
My identity is only soul.
A human costume is not an
entity, it is a suit. It is the means
by which universal consciousness
can experience individually.
This is an experience.
This is only an experience.
I am experiencing it the way
that I am supposed to be
experiencing it.
Let me therefore breathe,
relax and trust.
A simple enough practice,
but one that will accomplish
two things:
(1) You will see how much the
mind balks, resists and offers
commentary which is not helpful
on everything.
(2) It will introduce the idea of
conscious awareness into your day.
We have no control over our
humanity, but by introducing
awareness into the mix of
our day, we are given the
opportunity to choose peace
rather than disruption, calm
and tranquility rather than
friction and unsatisfactoriness.
Do you control the mind, or does
the mind control you?
If you believe for a single second
that the mind controls you, then
you are assuming the role of victim
and are gaslighting yourself.
And that is a choice, my friend.
Perhaps one you do not really
want to be making?
***
Prayer for the Day
The biggest obstacle I have
every faced in this life is myself.
I'm done with the whole
saboteur thing.
From here on out I am gonna
ride with the tide and go with
the flow.
Amen
***
04/15/2026
Thought for the Day
Good people shine their brightest
in dark times.
That's a bold statement.
But I think our present times qualify
for that descriptor, don't you?
And guess what?
We are all good people because
we share the same soul.
It is the soul which makes us
beautiful to behold, not our
humanity.
Never hold anyone's humanity
against them.
We are all doing the only thing
we can, that which is our
destiny to do and experience.
If you are experiencing it and
someone else is doing it, does
it not stand to reason that this
is part of the destiny the soul
has chosen for you to experience
as well?
It is the meaning of the statement
which says, "Oneness is."
The soul is perfect, changeless,
and has never experienced
a single instant of suffering.
It has no troubled past to deal
with, no baggage or burden
to carry.
It never judges or is unkind.
The soul loves us without conditions,
demands, disappointments
or expectations.
The soul is one and it is 100%
indivisible.
This means that we do not each
have a part of the same soul.
100% of all the soul is, is contained
within each of us!
We are fractals of the same formless
being expressing itself uniquely
through each lens of humanity.
Does it not also stand to reason
that everyone is then, none other than
an expression of yourself?
Our humanity has nothing to do
with our Divinity.
Nothing the human being thinks,
feels, says or does can harm the
soul, nor can anyone's humanity
change, alter, influence or direct
the destiny which the soul has
planned for each of us, nor fail
to meet the soul's expectations.
The soul has no expectations!
If you are experiencing it, it is
your destiny to do so.
This is as true for you as it is for
everyone and everything else.
Everyone is perfectly on time, both
who and how they are supposed
to be.
It can be no other way.
How about, just for today, looking
past everyone's humanity,
including your own, choosing
rather to see the part of them
that is real, eternal, infinite and
changeless?
There is a fundamental law to
all seeing which says:
You see what you want to see
and you experience what you want
to experience.
Why expect the worse from
others when it is given you to
bring the truth to light, simply
by wanting to see what is true
and only what is true?
Feed the truth your attention
and the truth is what the world
will bear witness to along with
you.
One person, seeing clearly,
can save the world from
themselves.
In fact, this is how it is done.
One beating heart at a time
which earnestly cries out,
"Above all else I want to see."
***
Prayer for the Day
Bless all my seeing today
as I commit the day
to Clear Seeing.
I want others to see the
soul in me.
For why would I not give to
my world what I most
long to experience within
myself?
Amen
***
04/14/2026
Thought for the Day
Freedom is nothing more
and nothing less than being
able to live your life in
touch with the Soul, re-
cognizing that it is Soul
which is your true Identity.
For thou art that, yesterday,
today and forever.
When this is that which
you are most aware of in
all the moments of your
life, what is left to realize
or embody?
In January of 2000, in the
early morning hours before
daylight, the day before I
was preparing to leave for
a trip to Egypt, I awakened
to the sound of a dove cooing.
And I felt this giant pair of
wings embracing me from
head to toe.
And there was a vibration
or frequency that was too
palpable to ignore.
Exquisite...
Comforting...
Light filled...
These are words which do not
begin to do it justice.
I knew I was deeply loved,
treasured even, swathed
and held in the most tender
and loving embrace.
All I have to do is close my
eyes for a nanosecond,
remembering that beautiful
day, and I am so aware of
this presence, that I cannot
tell where it ends and I
begin.
Or are we more like water
mixed with water, inseparably
mixed?
Does it even matter?
All I know is I am not the same
and nothing has ever been
the same since.
It is a formless something
which deepens and widens
moment by moment until
there are no more edges
to my loving.
And you know what?
If I am silent and I listen
to you deeply enough, it is
what I hear in you as well.
It is the thread that makes
us, this planet and all
that is a seamless and
single fabric of texture,
vibrancy and diversity
which is so exquisitely
beautiful that it makes me
weep tears of gratitude
and endless joy.
But do not mistake form
for content.
Truth is formless.
It is a profound Emptiness
of infinite possibility and
potential.
It can take on any form.
I am certain it took the form
it did for me because of where
I was preparing to travel to
and because I was studying
ACIM at the time.
Look!!!
It has even taken on the form
of you!
But it is not the form.
It is what animates the form!
And here, it is posing as you,
hiding in plain sight!
Today is a day to rejoice,
for you are never not this.
And today, you will allow yourself
to be all that you are; that light
which illuminates the entire
universe.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
for the GIFT.
For I realize one does not
need to be special or
somehow noteworthy
to receive such a blessing,
they need only open
their hearts to the Infinite
and give it welcome,
disappearing forever
into the very heart of God.
Amen
***
04/13/2026
Thought for the Day
I think that the most difficult thing
for any of us to accept is the truly
humbling knowledge that no
matter what we do, no matter
how hard we try, no matter how
fervent and heartfelt our prayers, no
matter how much pressure others
put on us to do so, OUR HUMANITY
IS NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.
We are who we are who we are.
And guess what?
If this is true about you, it is true
about every other human being
on this planet, as well as our
world and the world at large.
Until we can accept this changeless
fact, we will be miserable.
Misery will be our constant bed
fellow and the frequency we will
broadcast to the world.
Is it any wonder why the world is
as it is given this?
The world will always be a reflection
of our inner state of being.
It can be no other way.
And until we can accept this, and
I mean really and truly accept this,
we will keep trying to rearrange
the deckchairs on the Titanic,
keep trying to redecorate our hotel
rooms, in spite of the fact that
we are only overnight guests.
There is no amount of trying to
change your humanity that will
suddenly make it the soul.
And there is no amount of trying
to change your humanity that will
suddenly make you worthy of
experiencing yourself as soul.
Therefore, leave the humanity
alone.
A vehicle is not an identity.
People actually believe that if they
can only experience the truth of
who they are, their humanity and
their lives will somehow miraculously
change.
They will no longer experience
trials and tribulations, calamity
and chaos, upheaval and uncertainty,
crisis and predicaments.
This is a lie.
You are not here to change your
humanity or your life experience.
You are here to learn to love your
humanity, as it is, and to have
experiences, as only your humanity
experiences them, to love and
support yourself while remaining
compassionately detached to
the very world you are here to
witness.
I've got news for you honey,
awakening changes absolutely
nothing about you or your lived
experience.
But maybe...
Just maybe...
Accepting and embracing all
of this, truly accepting and
embracing it, as it is, is what
LOVE is really all about.
Total, radical, unqualified
acceptance, without demand
or expectations of any kind.
Ever.
And maybe that is what God is
after all.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I bow before the
isness of what is.
Every moment, a quiet
letting go and letting
God.
I am as I am.
My life is as it is.
Others are as they
are and the world is
as it is.
May I accept all of that.
Amen
***
04/12/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday, at a good friend's
recommendation, I went to see
the movie, "Project Hail Mary."
You have to understand just what
a big deal that is.
I have gone to less than ten movies
in my entire lifetime and I will be
73 years old this year!
I had read the book over a year
ago, so I already knew what the
movie would be about.
It was so beautiful and the heart
has been in a constant state of
reverie and inner reflection since
going, which is almost 24 hours
now.
Without revealing too much
about it, let me share that
the overarching theme of the
movie is that of a reluctant ego
that does not want to do
something that will no doubt
be scary, completely out of
his wheelhouse, and will require
the utmost bravery and heroism
on his part.
Not only is he the right man
for the job, he is the only man
with his particular skillset to
do it.
So the powers that be tackle
him and put him in a coma
against his will, and his journey
begins.
He is the ultimate reluctant
traveler.
Like all journey's go, this one
was chock full of surprises,
challenges and opportunities.
By the time the movie ends, not
only does he prove himself to be
a hero, he is not even certain
that he wants to return to earth.
It is a beautiful journey of the heart.
So filled with love and unity
it will break even the most
stubborn and stoney heart.
It is pouring down rain here in
Dallas, TX, but the sunshine
that this particular heart is
producing and giving off is
enough to light the entire
planet!
What a great day.
Today will be a day of rest
for me.
One of the most important
things I received from the movie
was how much life force we expend
and direct toward thinking we know
best for ourselves and therefore,
how much energy we waste trying
to plan, control and direct our
human journey, rather than be
open to the idea that there is a life
which has been planned for you
that is far greater than your wildest
imagination and we have every
reason to surrender and trust in
that unfolding.
So today, how about hopping
into that back seat and letting
the Universe be in charge?
How about living the Mystery,
entering the flow and just
choosing to trust?
Sound like a plan?
Well it does to me.
So I leave you this rainy morning
with the famous Irish blessing...
"May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
the rains fall soft upon your fields and,
until we meet again, may God hold you
in the hollow of His hand".
Boundless Love,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for my life.
I never know what's next,
but I always know how
the story ends because
I am, afterall, on the hero's
journey.
Amen
***
04/11/2026
Thought for the Day
I woke up this morning feeling
so much gratitude and joy
because it dawned on me that
it is the weekend and I have
absolutely nothing 'major'
on the horizon, which is a
rarity.
I plan to take a longer walk
with Violet. I place her in
the kitty backpack and off
we go. She seems to love it
but because she is an indoor
only kitty, we practice being
in nature from behind a plastic
shell with plenty of air holes
to breathe and take it all in.
I also plan to play more with her,
perhaps take a nap and maybe
a movie.
Any recommendations?
Thus a simple little practice is
offered for today.
And let me be clear.
When I use the word practice,
I am always using the word in
the context of some form of
inner inquiry or observation.
Statement:
The part of you that is authentic
cannot be found by trying to
change your human experience.
From where are you looking?
Begin by observing yourself with
kindness and curiosity today.
Notice when you are trying to
change, redirect or 'help' your
human experience in some way.
Then repeat your statement/
question for today.
Take an inner step back.
Return to the breath.
Relax.
Soften.
Feel yourself opening like a
flower as you feel the breath
moving in and out of the heart.
You do not need to change
or do anything.
Just remember...
You are in this world but you
are definitely not of it, which
means no fiddle-fucking with
either your humanity or your
human experience.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the simple and
sweet little life which is mine.
Help me wear my life like a
loose garment today as I
observe it whilst it is happening.
I love this fully immersive
human experience.
It's always a Mystery.
Always a GIFT.
I am fortunate to be here.
I am fortunate to be experiencing
this.
I could be long gone and six feet
under.
May I never lose sight of that.
Amen
***
04/10/2026
Thought for the Day
No matter what…
NEVER LET THIS WORLD
DOMESTICATE YOU.
Throughout the years, I have
experienced hundreds of people
say to me something like the
following.
”I had it and then I lost it. I
get these glimpses a lot but I
keep going back to letting the
ego be the one in control.”
Listen.
That is crazy talk.
Bologna.
Horse hooey.
Conformity bullshit you inherited
from the Matrix.
What happens...and you have
to catch yourself in the act a
few times to see it in action,
is you take the Universal Energy
to which you have joined and
try to make it personal.
You grasp.
You cling.
You want to make it yours forever.
Your achievement.
The sign you've arrived.
You ticked the right box. Now
you can lean back, bask in the
light so everyone can see, and
enjoy what is left of your life.
What is inherently our energy
becomes your energy and that
is the precise moment in which
you lose the thread.
Honey, there is no such thing as
personal anything in this cosmos.
What happened is that you had
an instant in which you finally
got out of your own way and
experienced what is ours.
What is never not here when
you stop identifying with me,
myself and I.
But you tried to make it all about
you.
You tried to own it, to claim it,
and to hold onto it, and that is
when you stopped experiencing
directly what is always there and
never not ours.
Our shared identity...
I have the sweetest friend in
the entire universe and she has
changed so much in the past
few years. It truly is remarkable
to see.
More calm.
More peace.
Very little self pity and victim
consciousness which are huge
shifts in awareness.
She always says, "by your grace..."
Bull shit.
By her grace she decided to learn
what it means to love herself
and get out of her own damn way.
This is all.
And she is sticking that landing
because she is not taking credit
for it or claiming ownership.
But she is making it special be-
cause she is making it about me.
Very humble about it all, but
entirely inaccurate and
unneccessary.
This is about no one.
It is the only thing which is truly
existent.
It is the changeless substrate of
every living thing.
It is always there.
It is always ours.
And there are no prerequisites
other than the desire to
experience it.
In fact, that friend I just spoke
of?
She doesn't even need to stop
making it all about me and my
influence over her life.
She just has to keep wanting
this and only this, giving
it her allegiance and devotion,
knowing it does not really
have anything to do with me
or her.
Willingness and acceptance
are the keys to everything.
It will always be there.
Rain or shine.
Listen.
My internal dial is tuned into the
true blue signal of station
G-O-D.
I am broadcasting Infinity
live.
We all are.
The question is, are you doing
so consciously or unconsciously
because that is the difference
between peace and suffering.
And because I know it is not
mine, I never experience it not
there. Thus, I am it's conscious
conduit.
So play a little game with
yourself today.
Notice when you are personalizing
anything, then try the following:
(1) Feel yourself relax as you
take a step back in recognition
that you are doing it again.
You are making the Universal
a personal thing.
(2) Return to your breath, calming
the brain and nervous system.
(3) Remind yourself, "This is not
personal. What is happening is
supposed to be happening
because this is what is happening.
Let me surrender to what is and
enter the flow of it and trust. God
doesn't need a backseat driver."
And when you do have those moments
where you feel the flow, and your
heart is so light and you are in the
zone, remember, this is not personal.
This is the Universal Energy.
It is our energy. It is not mine.
It belongs to each and every
one of us.
There are no requirements, no
conditions, no religion, no teacher,
no book, no practices, nor anything
else to follow.
The desire to be consciously aware
of the ONE thing which always is,
is what allows all of us to see and
live humbly as its representative
on this earth, allowing it to flow
uniquely through our humanity
to all that is.
The truth may flow through you
but it will never be personal,
never be yours.
It will never ever be about you.
Isn't that grand?
***
Prayer for the Day
Spigot on.
I enter the flow.
And it's miracle time.
Oh goody, goody gum
drops.
I can't wait to see what
happens next because I
love surprises.
I got nothing better to do
than to step back and let
the light lead the way.
Amen
***
04/09/2026
Thought for the Day
People do not know this about
me, but I have always harbored
a secret love for old fashioned
true blue rock and roll music.
None of the newer stuff.
And especially not rap.
Gone are the days in which
lyrics actually meant something
beyond sex, grievances and
taking advantage of others,
or just plain doing away with
anyone who disturbs you or
your life in any way.
In 1982, my favorite album
was by Prince.
It was the “1999” album.
The song which I was over
the moon with was entitled,
“Let’s Pretend We’re Married."
The song ended with the following
words.
You think I’m crazy?
You’re probably right.
But I’m gonna have fun
every mother f _ _ ckin’
night.
You like to fight?
You’re a double drag fool.
I’m goin' to another life.
How about you?
And although these words
seem eerily appropriate because
of how he left this earth so soon,
and the manner in which he did
so has always seemed suspicious
to me, I changed the words to
those closing lyrics to ”I’m gonna
live a happier life, how about you?”
Listen, beloved.
It is fundamentally okay for you
to not live your life like everyone
else is. In fact, I have been doing
just that every single day I have
been here on planet earth.
Live your truth.
Have your experience.
No one seeks enlightenment so that
they can doom scroll like everyone
else on this planet as they play the
unsettling and nerve-racking game
of “Chicken Little And The Sky Is
Falling” with themselves, each other
and this planet.
Who the hell cares what other people
think when they see you dancing
your way through your life?
Whose life do you really want?
Yours or theirs?
How about no more pretending
to be a grown up today?
Huh?
What have you got to lose other
than all of your doom, gloom
and excessive misery?
After all, I have never ever seen
a single grown up who actually
looks like they are having a good
time here anyway.
They look serious as a heart attack
and run around like chickens with
their head's chopped off; all restless,
irritable and discontent.
Do they look like they are having
fun?
I don't think so...
So screw that.
I’m gonna march to the beat of
my own drum and I’m gonna
go where there is no path
and leave a trail of fairy dust
in my wake for others to find.
All rainbow glittery and glowy
as all get out.
I'm gonna LIVE, baby, making up
for all the time I lost when I forgot
that Fun was actually my middle
name!
What are you going to do with
your one precious human life?
***
Prayer for the Day
I’m gonna C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-E !!!
Amen
***
04/08/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday in the blog entry that
I posted, I asked the following
question:
Why do we so easily see the needs
in others but are entirely oblivious
to our own?
I feel this is one of the most vital
questions we could ask of ourselves.
I remember when Baba was still
alive and I was trying to help him
remember a particular disciple
who had given him a ring to bless.
I said to him, “You know, Jitesh.
Jitesh, Baba. His mind is very
disturbed.”
(It just so happened that Jitesh had
recently been diagnosed with a form
of mental illness which is extremely
difficult to treat.)
Without missing a beat, Baba
then said to me, “Oh yes,
Pelkyong-ma. Your mind is very
very disturbed.”
I was quietly insulted.
It seemed that I had a much higher
opinion of my mind and myself
at the time.
Over the decades, this has remained
a very funny inside joke to me, even
though it was anything but funny
to me at the time.
Baba has been dead for almost 30
years now but some of the lessons
that he taught me, without even
trying to do so, were so memorable
that they never cease to humble
me and remind me of what is true
upon each and every recollection.
Some people actually think they
know what it means to know that
you know nothing.
In fact, I know quite a few who
believe that this is true with
all of their hearts.
But it's not true.
It's not true at all.
For they have barely scratched
the surface of what one is actually
saying when they heartfully say
that they know nothing.
You see, it is one thing to know
that you know nothing, and quite
another thing to realize how deeply
in need you actually are.
This is one who really and truly knows
that they know nothing. They are naked
and humble and open and yielding
to the Divine.
They are a living breathing invitation.
They have been made ready for truth
to enter in and reveal Itself.
Priding yourself in the belief that you
have no needs, yet merrily going about
the business of living your life, waiting
for something to happen, daily adulting,
which is the one thing you do best,
is a blatant demonstration of an I know
state of mind.
One of the things which I heard Baba
say every single day in the years
that I was with him, was that he was
a tiny, helpless, little baby and he
didn’t know anything.
Oh, how his heart yearned for God!
Many times I caught him kneeling
beside his bed, praying when he
thought no one saw him, ever
crying out to the Lord, "Oh, God...
Oh, God... Reveal Thyself to me!"
He would often tell me that the
more he realized and understood,
the more he recognized that he
knew nothing.
For Infinity is so big...
He knew that without God, he
was nothing, absolutely nothing!
And this was coming from a man
who had attained the state of
Nirvikulpa Samadhi!
Listen to your heart today.
You do have needs.
And they are legion.
Be loving, kind and gentle
with yourself.
Take the time to care for
your innermost being in a way
it will never forget.
For how you treat yourself, is
how you treat your world.
And how you treat yourself is how
you handle the rest of your life.
***
Prayer for the Day
I see so clearly that there is
no deceit which is greater
than self deceit.
I saw a beautiful photo today
of Mother Mary kissing the
cheek of baby Jesus as she
cradled him in her arms.
I cried. It touched me that
much, to see how deeply
she loved her child.
Help me care for myself today
just like that.
Amen
***
04/07/2026
Thought for the Day
The way that everyone
processes life is the way that
it was modeled to them.
That is a matter of history,
programming, conditioning,
beliefs, preferences, biases
and judgments, cultural,
religious, local, national and
world brainwashing.
Rare is the human being that
can experience themselves
as anything other than this.
For as long as there has been
such a thing as human history,
it has been believed that the
only way to find God or truth
is through a reductionist model,
which is all about getting rid of
one's humanity or changing it.
This is not the way.
This is not your way.
What is necessary is to recognize
that when your humanity is in play,
your experience will always be finite
and unpleasantly unstable.
In other words, not this.
This is neither Zen seeing or
experiencing.
It is the manifestation of your
particular flavor of survival.
This content is not who you
are.
It is what was modeled to you.
You are the very emptiness
which existed and exists
before all of that.
It is still there, covered up by
layer upon layer of jumbled
up primitive stalagtites and
stalagmites which are concealing
the inherent radiance of indivisible
pure potential.
In every moment, it is given
you to either engage with
your humanity or engage with
the blank slate which you
inherently are.
However, you will never ever
source the truth by searching
for it through your human
experience.
Give yourself the GIFT of
allowing yourself to get to
know the you which existed
prior to the world sinking its
talons into you.
The only way to begin this is by
consciously choosing to not
get lost in the human experience;
to no longer give it your time,
attention, energy or resources.
Again, you are not try to change
it or get rid of it, you are
choosing not to engage with it.
Notice today when you are
about to lose yourself in the
experience of humaning, and
hit your pause button.
Do not try to change the human
experience to one you feel
is better, one the mind believes
is reflective of clear seeing.
For this is not clear seeing.
This is the choice to human
as the spiritual ego.
Simply drop it.
Drop it altogether like a hot
potato.
Return to your breath and
be empty of everything.
Bring your attention to your
heart center and notice
what you experience.
Do you not feel lighter,
brighter and more expansive?
And do you not notice
something which is entirely
beyond the human experience
which begins to reveal Itself?
You did not incarnate in these
times in order to go to war with
your human experience.
Nor did you come here to
get lost in role play.
You came to share the part of
you which you did not inherit
from this world.
Do not lose sight of that.
For only the soul is authentic.
Two options stand before you
in every moment of life.
To be the part of you that you
inherited from the world, your
humanity.
Or to be the part of you that
you brought to this world with
you, the soul.
Which would be more helpful
to you right now?
Which would be more helpful
for the world to witness being
modeled to them?
***
Prayer for the Day
Support my efforts to remain
empty today and no longer
pick my humanity up and
run with it.
Amen
***
04/06/2026
Thought for the Day
I hear so many folks complaining
on a daily basis about all the gut-
wrenching things which are
happening in our world.
Just when it is felt that things
cannot get any worse, life
turns around and shows you
that indeed they can.
There is so much upheaval,
chaos and uncertainty
in these times.
How can it not feel overwhelming
and challenging if the only laws
you live by are the laws which
govern this world?
Just a little reminder today...
If you are experiencing the world
as the ego, you are experiencing
the world inauthentically, and it is
to the very laws that keep this
house of cards afloat to which you
adhere and have given your faith.
But if you are witnessing the world
as the love, light and presence which
you forever are, you are experiencing
the world authentically; for it is the
laws of God to which you have
consecrated your heart in the blessed
assurance that it is here and only
here that you receive your daily bread.
Safety is born of truth, not of lies.
Never forget that you incarnated at
this particular time in human history
so that you might be a keeper of the
flame.
Never that presence more deeply
shared or felt than when you
experience your life as only you can---
authentically.
A few months ago I wrote a thought
which asked you to see, feel or experience,
through the faculty of imagination,
yourself unzipping a zipper which begins
at the crown of your head and extends
all the way to your feet.
When you notice that you are again lost
in the experience of your humanity,
feel yourself unzipping the humanity
suit and stepping out of it.
Notice how light you feel without
the heaviness and density of the
burden of wearing it, rather than
the activity of simply observing it.
You came here to usher in a new way
of being human.
That way of experiencing yourself is
the way of genuine authenticity;
experiencing yourself as soul whilst
seeing the humanity you are wearing
in this lifetime as a humble vehicle
through which you can consciously
touch the lives of others.
Not because there is anything wrong
with experiencing life as a human,
but why settle for the finite, which is
fraught with challenges and limitations;
ups and downs and constant curve balls
when you least expect them, when you
were born to experience your life as a
keeper of the flame and consciously
live your life as the light of the world?
***
Prayer for the Day
May I never forget my
purpose in this life; to
live as a witness of the
truth which never
changes.
Not through words,
but as a living and
undeniable presence
or demonstration of
the truth which is
always true.
Amen
***
04/05/2026
Thought for the Day
May this Easter be entirely
unlike any other Easter
that you have ever experienced.
May this be the day in which
you wax bold and embrace
the risen Christ within you.
Recognizing that not a single
blade of grass, nor flower,
no face you look upon, nor a
single thing in all creation
which does not share this
same Identity.
Long have you searched for
truth, for peace, for a love
without demand.
And today you find it.
The search is over.
Recognizing that it was and
always has been your own self
for which you searched,
yearned, ached and prayed.
Today you come home to
your very self.
The Door is open.
Long have you hoped to
find a way in, longing to be
welcomed home by your
most holy Self.
Long has your most holy Self
waited for your return, to
welcome you home.
Here you recognize that the
only price of admission has
always been the willingness
to acknowledge that you are
the risen Christ, the beloved
child of the Most High.
Welcome home, dear one,
welcome home.
Allow the light of the risen
Christ to thoroughly saturate
all of your atoms, molecules
and particles.
For you are that LIGHT which
illuminates the entire Universe.
Here you are!
Here you have always been!
A part of this as much as this
has always been and ever yet
shall be a part of you.
For you are the complete and
completed fully risen Christ..
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you that my time of
dreaming I am lost and
separated are now over.
For I am That for which I have
search.....yesterday, today
and forever.
Amen
***
04/04/2026
Thought for the Day
Several people sent emails or
texted this week, complaining
of feeling extremely hot and/or
sweaty, for no particular reason
which was obvious to them
upon investigation, while also
experiencing a burning sensation
in the center of their chest.
Some thought they should
go to the doctor for medication
to treat heartburn, while
others thought for sure that
they were experiencing early
signs of an impending heart
attack.
Calm down.
Relax...
And rejoice!
Not everything you experience
is a commentary on the state
of the body's health!
The inner flame is awakening
within you!
Lord Krishna said the following
to Arjuna in the Mahabharata
as they were preparing to cross
the battlefield:
"We are about to enter an era of
darkness together, and all we
have with us is the small light
which you are carrying.
If your heart breaks, or becomes
bitter or numb, that light will be-
come lost to you.
What will you do?"
I have two questions for you:
(1) Is not the night of which
Krisha speaks a fair description
of the decade in which we now
find ourselves living?
(2) Is it not a beautiful thing to
know that you have been chosen
to be a keeper of the flame in this
particular decade for the sake of
all humanity?
What a GIFT!!!
What a GIFT....
Your assignment is quite easy
today.
Simply notice what increases
your awareness of this flame
and what decreases your
awareness of it.
In addition, what do you notice
when you make watching the flame
a high priority in the midst of living
your life?
This is all.
May the force be with you,
for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Burn me to ashes, Lord,
that my awareness might be
raised to Infinity and there
abide in Thee unceasingly.
For I would know that I am
GIFT.
Amen
***
04/03/2026
Thought for the Day
So the day-to-day practice of
how I consciously choose to
live my life is what I refer to
as threading the needle.
Back and forth, with the ease
and grace of a artistic or
synchronized swimmer in a
water ballet, I flow in this
state of inner alignment
with the soul and that of being
the loving and always available
presence who attends to the
human being and her experience
as it arises in the midst of whatever
is happening there.
This is my living amends to
myself for having ignored
my own experience for so long,
mistaking love for something
you find from others rather
than from yourself.
I am not, for a single instant,
saying I ever did anything
wrong.
I did what I thought I had to
do in order to survive, mistaking
who and what I was for the mis-
created self.
That, too, was the soul's journey.
But I love being given both
the time and the opportunity
to make it up to myself.
Decades of lonliness and aloneness,
suffering and chaos, gaslighting
and self-abnegation are at last
seeing the light of day and feeling
the warmth of the sunlight of
the spirit.
It is no simple thing to consciously
choose to stay with yourself
when things are difficult, providing
yourself safety and attention which
is steadfast yet gentle.
I trust myself.
For I have proven myself to be
committed, consistent, loyal and
100% unconditional in my
devotion to myself.
My life is thus profoundly slow
and reflective. awareness is aware
of itself.
You cannot do this work if you
are constantly on the move,
living your life at Mach 12 with
your hair on fire.
Every day I watch people talking on
the cell phone while driving,
in the check out line, in the parking
lot, ever racing from here to there.
Frantic, overwhelmed, looking like
tweakers in Wally World at 2:00 AM,
is it any wonder you do not know the
sweetness of soul?
The activity of the body is reflective
of the frenetic nature of the mind.
Rarely do they experience quiet
moments where the nervous system
is given the opportunity to unwind.
Simplicity, sweetness, gentleness,
and profound care are the new
name of the game.
You cannot catch that thread on
the run.
Nothing more is required.
But nothing less will do.
***
Prayer for the Day
Reveal to me in the day-to-day
of life what it means to be
my own true blue bestie.
Amen
***
04/02/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday I left you to look at
the following questions:
Do I have an ‘I know’ state
of mind?
Do I try to bring truth to a mind
which thinks it already knows?
Am I trying to bring the truth to
the illusion of myself, or am I
bringing the illusion of myself
to the truth?
This line of questioning is not about
whether or not you deceive and
limit yourself in this way, because
the truth is that we all do it or
have done it.
The question that we all need to be
willing to ask ourselves is, “How
do I do this?”
Keep in mind we are not asked
to fix or change anything at
all.
I received the most diverse responses
and reactions to yesterday's thought
which ranged from gratitude to
anger, and some folks actually went
down the rabbit hole to be swallowed
up by guilt and despair.
So let me repeat something which
I have often said.
I am not capable of making you
feel anything.
Your feelings are your feelings.
They are your responsibility, not
mine.
Each message is thus a gift.
We are simply asked to see
ourselves with a bit more clarity
and honesty with each new day.
For we cannot experience a
peace which is stable if we are
constantly pulling the wool over
our own eyes.
Remember the old saying?
Denial ain't a river in Egypt.
If our eyes and our heart's are
not open, rather than experiencing
peace in the midst of all situations
and times, we inevitably find our-
selves still riding the proverbial
emotional roller coaster.
Peace is not something you try to
be when things are tough, peace
is your natural state.
Thus suffering in the presence of
other feelings reflect identification
with what you are not.
So what is the razor's edge we
are looking for in our day-to-day
lives?
The conscious willingness to see
ourselves with increasingly more
clarity and charity.
Instead of making ourselves
wrong, or trying to make
someone else wrong, we are
deeply present to all of our
experiences, realizing that
nothing can replace awareness +
gentleness + compassion +
respect + kindness.
You are here to be the human
being that you are and to
experience your life as only
you can and do.
But whether that life is a peaceful
one, a loving one and a kind one,
or one which is fraught with
restlessness, uncertainty and chaos
depends on the constant willingness
to remain aligned, empty, humble
and open.
When we can be with ourselves
and our experience lovingly with
increasing commitment and
consistency, the rewards will
speak volumes all by themselves.
***
Prayer for the Day
No matter what life holds,
I know my experience will
always be great because
I am the one who can choose
to be constantly and
consistently consciously aware
in the midst of every what is.
No one gets to determine
that but me.
Amen
***
04/01/2026
Thought for the Day
Recently I have written on the
subject of what the Bhagavad
Gita says are the two greatest
impediments to the path of a
true seeker:
(1) Attachment to the effort.
(2) Attachment to the fruits
of the effort.
But I feel that there is an
impediment which is far more
pivotal.
The 'I know' state of mind.
I'm with the Tibetan lamas
on this one. Sorry Krishna.
You cannot share anything with
anyone who thinks they already
know or understand.
And because they think they know,
they already feel they stand head's
above the crowd of other seekers.
I have several people in my life
right now who are just like that.
Sometimes it is tiresome to be
around them.
I find the saddest thing of all
is that they do not see it.
Thankfully, I know it is not my
job to help them see it.
Look, listen and smile....
That's about as far as I take it
these days.
They, too, are on the soul's
perfect journey, it's just not
the one they think they are
on, unfortunately.
Because they think they already
know, that they have had enough
direct contact under their belt
that proves that they now see
clearly, they cannot see how
what they think they know is
actually getting in their way.
And they most certainly do not
see the arrogance of that.
They cannot see that day after day,
they try to bring whatever nugget
of truth that comes their way to
the spiritual ego, thus they are
adding to the ego's spiritual identity.
This is why I love meeting people
who were not raised with any
particular spiritual religion or
tradition, people who never had
a guru, no experience as a disciple
and are happily without dogma,
rituals and spiritual bias.
Those belief systems are not there
to get in the way of their freedom.
Sure, they have the same old
angst and suffering from their
conditioning and programming
just like everyone else, but they
lack the belief systems that make
them continuously try to bring
truth to their illusions because
they cannot part with tired and
worn out beliefs and practices
which are no longer helpful, they
have outlived their usefulness,
their heyday, their time in the sun.
They cannot see that every single
so-called realization is filtered
through the spiritual ego and is
therefore, biased, and not that.
They are entirely oblivious to
the fact that they are trying to
bring the truth to the illusion
of themselves and what the
persona thinks it knows and
has accepted as truth.
The spiritual identity, which replaced
the former identity, now thinks and
deeply believes that it already knows.
However, they have simply written
another chapter in the book entitled,
"More About Myself."
My dear, it is what you think you
know that limits you!
We have to approach this journey
without distance to a goal which
we never left each day with a Zen
mind, a beginners mind, and an
open and empty heart which knows
that it knows nothing, knows that
it understands nothing.
Here is one who is both teachable
and reachable.
Anything short of this is pissing in
the wind.
How ready are you to see that
all your spiritual seeking thus far
has ever really gotten you is to
deliver you to this very moment.
That was its intended purpose.
Now it is time to drop every bit
of it, to drop everything and
be entirely empty and humble.
A blank slate.
Here is a canvas upon which
something truly liberating may
be written.
And with a entirely teachable,
vacant and hollowed out heart
say, "I am ready Lord. Show me
the way."
Your Forever Friend,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Asato ma sadgamaya
tamaso ma jyotirgamaya
mrityuma amritam gamaya
om shanti, shanti, shantihi.
Lead me from the unreal
to the real.
Lead me from darkness to
light.
Lead me from death to
Immortality.
Om... May peace be, may
peace be, may peace be.
Amen
***
04/28/2026
Thought for the Day
When I was a child, I loved magnets.
They were such a strange and oddly
compelling mystery to me.
I loved how they were attracted to
one another, how quickly they
would become attached when you
put them in proximity to one another.
But I think it was the magnets which
repelled one another than I liked
best and found most interesting to
play with.
I would toy with them until I found
that perfect sweet spot of tension
between the two where I could
feel the pull that existed between
them because it was coursing
through my body as well.
Close enough and yet not so distant
that they were able to push a part
completely, thus breaking the point
of any palpable tension.
They were interesting to observe.
You could not endure feeling that
energy indefinitely, because there
was a point where it began to feel
too uncomfotable to continue.
Strangely enough however, I loved
making myself feel that discomfort
for as long as I could stand it.
But inevitably, you were driven
to distance the two from each other
to a place of safety where the tension
could no longer be felt.
This is the nature of resistance.
Whenever you do not like something,
for whatever reason, and you feel
the knee-jerk urge to avoid, I would like
you to quietly observe your experience.
Treat your experience like a science
experiment.
Do not try to change it immediately
and do not judge yourself or make
yourself wrong in any way.
Just notice what you feel and observe.
For what I have found in observing
myself is that it is not the particular
story or meaning which I have given
to the experience that I am trying to
avoid which is the cause of my
suffering.
It is the palpable tension that I am
feeling which is indistinguishable
to that of repelling magnets.
I will continue to feel that so long
as I continue to avoid what I am
trying hard not to look at, or
enough time passes where I can
successfully suppress and repress
which usually takes a few days to
accomplish.
You know what I am talking about.
Out of sight and out of mind.
However, I have met people who
have been stuck in this position
for decades.
People in this position are very
attached to playing the role of
victim and blaming their misery
on someone or something else.
What I have noticed with myself,
however, as I continued to explore
my experience, is that when I
consciously choose to stop resisting
and just remain very still and open,
without telling any stories or
assigning any meanings to my
experience, just absolutely still
and open, that I no longer feel
that repelling quality of energy.
All I notice are nameless sensations
in various parts of the body.
Here, they can be felt, described,
observed and integrated.
A very simple process.
Observe this with yourself today.
But take it a step further.
After allowing the experience to
fully integrate, repeat the following
statement to yourself:
I am identified with the ego. Only
the ego is capable of experiencing
resistance. Only the ego can suffer.
Then turn your attention to the
universal experience of the Soul,
which is peaceful and loving
acceptance.
This entire event which you have
now experienced has been truly
miraculous.
On a planet with nearly 9 billion
people, how many do you suppose
are experiencing the incredible
luminosity of Clear Seeing as
are you?
Have a beautiful and profoundly
miraculous day today.
And may you remain consciously
aware of the force that is ever
with you, for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
It's good to be alive.
Thank you for the gift.
Bless these eyes.
Bless these eyes and this heart,
for I will to see clearly.
Amen
***
04/27/2026
Thought for the Day
As entirely liberating as a thought
may be, as our thought from
yesterday was, your experience
after having your eyes and heart
opening wider than they ever have
before,can seem confusing because
you may start experiencing things
that feel far more unsettling or
difficult than they do peaceful.
This is to be expected.
I cannot emphasize enough the
necessity of normalizing our
experience, whatever it happens
to be.
Normalizing is often an act of
profound kindness that you are
not used to affording yourself.
But here is the thing...
Each instant that you grasp a
little more clearly that there is
no such thing as a personal self,
and each instant that you identify
more clearly with the Universal,
Eternal and Changeless nature
of who and what you truly are,
the more the body has to shed
all the things which were
byproducts and acquisitions
of the personal identity you
have been operating as
through incessant repetition.
You see, when we say you are
on the soul's journey, that you
have always been on the soul's
journey, things like time, destiny
and karma apply only to the
individual or personal self.
But when you embark on the
journey As Soul, meaning your
identification is with our
collective identity, rather than
the personal identity, all things
which are the result of one's
identification as the personal
begin to purge themselves from
the body's cells, organs, tissues,
glands, DNA, atoms and molecules.
This is a good thing.
This is a very good thing.
This is even a boon for your entire
lineage, both backward and forward.
But it may well feel as challenging
and disturbing as it is wonderful.
Would you not be free of all of
this?
Trust now must become your new
best friend.
So do not be at all surprised
if you face things you thought
were long gone.
And do not count it strange if
you experience bouts of extreme
cold, heat or nausea, joint
pain, mild fevers or achiness.
Remember that the instruction
is to first normalize the experience.
Next, support the body in whatever
way your intuition suggests.
And never forget to ask yourself
sincerely, "How can I love and
support you best through this?"
This is the time of tenderness.
And your breath is the key to
everything.
Be attentive and gentle with yourself,
feeling deeply everything that is
presenting itself.
THIS IS ONLY COMING UP SO THAT
IT CAN LEAVE.
ALLOW IT TO LEAVE BY TRULY
BEING THERE FOR YOURSELF.
Presence is the fire which lovingly
burns to ashes all things which are
no longer necessary.
No stories. No meanings. No
interpretations nor any need to
understand anything.
These are mere delay mechanisms.
Just feeling, loving and supporting.
That is the instruction.
Nothing is ever as complicated
or as serious as you have made it
out to be.
How very fortunate you are
to be where you are, experiencing
what it is yours to experience.
A little gratitude will go farther
than you could possibly know.
A good mantra I have found
useful over the years is this:
This is a GIFT. Why not stick
around and truly be here to
see how it all unfolds?
***
Prayer for the Day
I am a limitless being of love
and light, ONE with all things
manifest and unmanifest.
Thank you for the countless
gifts and miracles which will
unfold in my life today, all
because I know that I am that,
I am.
Amen
***
04/26/2026
Thought for the Day
I would like to begin today's thought
with the final statement that I made
in yesterday's prayer:
"For the sake of all of us..."
It is one thing to believe that we are
all one, that what we do affects each
and every single thing that lives and
to have accepted this as gospel, and
it is quite another thing to have had
a direct experience of Oneness, to
feel our unity with each other and
all of life, knowing that we are one
being who is wearing countless forms
and faces.
And we all know how tragically
Christianity screwed things up by
making Jesus special, so special in
fact that he was the one and only
son of God, while the rest of us were
hopeless sinners who were entirely
beyond redemption without his
sacrifice.
This is the idea that God had to
allow his one and only son to be
sacrificed in a perfectly heinous
manner for the sake of all the rest
of us, so that all of creation would
not be forever lost to themselves,
to each other, and to God, and
by thus condemned to hell.
But even Jesus was known to have
uttered these words before his
ascension:
"Very truly I tell you, whoever believes
in me will do the works I have been
doing, and they will do even greater
things than these because I am going
to the Father."
John 14:12
What did he mean? What was he
really saying?
To one who has a direct experience
of oneness it is self evident.
First, he was trying to get through
to us that there is no such thing as
the personal self.
There is the Christ Consciousness,
the very spark of God which lives
in all things created equally, for it
is a part of an infinite ocean or
field we know as God.
Christ was not Jesus' name.
It was the part of God inside of
him which had saturated every
atom and molecule of his being
and with which he had become
entirely identified.
Secondly, he was trying to tell us
throughout his brief public
ministry that we are all the
Christ.
This is our changeless identity.
Next, he was trying to tell us that
all the ego or personal self really
is, is the portion of the collective
consciousness we each have been
channeling from those around
us and the etheric element of that
unified field of energy.
When you repeat something often
enough, you believe that it is the
truth.
There is a beautiful sentence in
the AA Preamble which says:
"Repetition strengthens and
confirms, and faith comes naturally."
We have each been functioning
from a mistaken sense of identity.
So we took all these repeated 1's
and 0's from this matrix of energy,
this amalgamation of data points,
and we formulated a sense of
identity from them, as if molding
them from clay.
This became our adopted sense
of self, the sense of I, me, mine.
But again, there is no such thing
as a personal self which is real.
So what is all the collective
consciousness? What does it
contain?
Remember the discussion we had
on our own trinity?
a) The personal self and every quality
possible to the experience of being
human.
b) The experience of love, light and
presence which we all are.
c) The Void or Emptiness; a primordial
nothingness which contains every
single possibility and potential in
a formless state.
So what Jesus was trying to get each
of us to see was that we do not need
to channel those things which keep
us believing in the pseudo self that
we made.
If that Collective Consciousness, which
is the truth of all of us, contains every
possibility and potential, if it is quite
literally Infinite, meaning that there is
no beginning nor end to what is
equally available to all of us, then
that, dear friends, is what the living
presence of Christ or God is.
So surely what is possible for each of us
is beyond anything which the mind can
conceive.
Every great achievement, every record
set, every work of art, every beautiful
sunset, every baby's smile, where do
you think all of this stuff comes from?
Our Consciousness, the Infinite
Unified Field we call God.
So today I want you to give yourself
permission to quietly reflect on all
of this.
Every breath that you take, every beat
of your heart, every thought that
you think, every feeling that you feel
is coming from that vast and infinite
field of information.
Aren't you magnificent?
So welcome the miraculous.
And remember..
"All things are possible to the one
who believes."
Mark 9:23
***
Prayer for the Day
I am all this...
Can you believe it?
Me a part of it and it a part
of me...
Everything is a miracle!
Every single thing is a miracle!
Every moment is a miracle.
I am a miracle!
The opportunity to be here,
to be alive, to experience all of
this, what an incredible gift!
Thank you for all of it!
I'm going back for more!
Why settle for crumbs?
I'll take the whole enchilada!
Amen
***
04/25/2026
Thought for the Day
When you can meet the more
difficult aspects of your
humanity, I mean really turn
and face them, accepting these
parts of yourself without
trying to change them or make
them wrong, welcoming them
fully into your heart with
gentleness, compassion and
kindness exactly as they are,
this hallmarks the beginning of
union with the Divine.
What more could be shared
today than this?
You have your marching orders.
There are legions of things
that will happen today.
And you will either turn and
face each one of them or you
will try to find some way to run
away from them in order to
avoid them.
And the myriad of reactions
to these experiences that you
will have will quite literally
be all over the map.
You will see parts of yourself
which are easy to love and
embrace.
There will be other parts for
which you feel rather cool or
neutral.
But there will be other things....
Things that you would rather
deny, ignore, distract, numb or
self medicate into oblivion in
whatever way which works best
for you when you are trying to
avoid facing and acknowledging
the uncomfortable and perhaps
even more painful aspects of your
humanity to look at and own.
Do you have the courage to
be still, to turn and face them?
Because the courage to stay is
a big one for all of us.
And from here, can you accept
and embrace the darker aspects
of your humanity and normalize
them?
They are nothing to feel shame
about.
But they are aspects of the collective
which you have repeated again
and again until you have chosen
to believe they are who you are.
They are not, but you have made
them yours through repetition
and identification.
You are a human being humaning.
You are having a human experience.
Truth be told, if anyone else on
this planet had to go through what
you have gone through in this life?
Well they would feel, say and
act this way too when they had
had enough.
You see, the ability to do this
genuinely on behalf of all of us
is the only so called price to
knowing the unknowable.
And each time that you do,
beloved, we each can breathe
a little more free as we experience
a huge sigh of relief and embrace
our newfound emancipation and
peace.
***
Prayer for the Day
I am ready to embrace all that
I have denied because it was
my truth.
For the sake of all of us........
Amen
***
04/24/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple thought is again given
you to work with today.
The instruction remains the
same.
Allow the thought to walk in the
space before you today, ever
informing your feelings, your
thoughts and your actions, for it
is a very good reminder to stop
taking yourself and life so seriously.
Allow the words to fill you with
peace each time you repeat them
to yourself, ever reminding you
to relax and remember to actually
give yourself permission to enjoy
your breath.
Deep breaths.....
Remember how that feels?
Try taking a deep breath now with
your head tilted slightly back while
your face is tilted a bit upward.
Now close your eyes and put
a smile on that face of yours
with your arms stretched wide.
Isn't that delicious?
Here is you statement.
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
Isn't that wonderful to hear and
such good news?
This being human thing has
never been a 'me' type of
experience, it is a 'we'
experience.
And that air you are breathing?
It is the Universal Life Force
that you are breathing there, pal.
It isn't about your breath, it is our
breath that you are breathing.
With each and every breath, you
are connecting with the very spirit
which abides in all of us equally.
Remember....
Nothing in this whole wide world
depends on me.
You are not nearly as important
as you believe that you are.
You have been operating under
a false sense of self importance.
You have been pole-vaulting over
mouse turds your whole life.
It is a burden, stressful and completely
overwhelming to believe you are so
bloody important, because it has always
been and always will be about “our”
presence, "our" influence....
We are each a satellite dish that
receives and expresses the energy
that is all of us united as we were
created.
We aren't the doer of shit.
Lifting the overwhelm off of you,
the energy that you made all
about you.
Your efforts...
Your contributions...
Your being irreplaceable...
You have been victimized by life....
Giving all your power away...
When it is all about you and your
efforts, your contribution, it is
severely limiting and it is a burden.
The cards have not been stacked
against you.
Allowing the illusion and trap
of personal doership to be
lifted off of you.
Pivoting out the individual into the
Infinite, out of the personal into
the Universal.
Noticing the absolute sense of
liberation and expansion of the
energy you are experiencing.
And also noticing the FREEDOM.
It is our Presence you are feeling.
It is our Presence which you are
experiencing.
And your world will not collapse
without your efforts, in spite of how
deeply you believe you are the one
who keeps it all propped up and
flowing on a daily basis.
From a bird's eye view, you look like
Don Quixote tilting at windmills
all day.
Isn't that exhausting and utterly
burdensome?
So let yourself off the hook today.
And give yourself the ingredients
required for fun and amazement.
It could be one helluva Friday if
you allowed yourself to take a step
back and enjoy the gift you have
been given.
Lay the adult aside and see how
wonderful it feels to be childlike
and unencumbered by worries,
concerns, pressures to perform
and unrealistic goals.
Have you ever witnessed anything
in nature ever worry about anything?
Allow your world to flow without
your aid.
It has been all along in spite of your
gymnastics and theatrics.
Oh.. You thought that was your
efforts that were making all this
happen?
Will the earth stop spinning on
its axis today without your help?
Every day is a good day to be
still and know with a child's heart
ever reminding you that you were
born to bear witness, not to lose
yourself in the false notion of
personal doership and the activity
of adulting.
For you are only ever as free as you
allow yourself to be.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today, I will give myself
permission to live free of
everything.
I'm gonna play full out
and swing for the fences
with a heart as wide as
the world!
Amen
***
04/23/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday was a day that the former
'me' would have described as
"straight out of hell."
First let me clarify something that
is very important.
The singular message which I
have consistently given voice to
for as long as I can remember is
that you do not need to change.
You are not broken.
And there is absolutely nothing
for you to work on.
Yet I have just spoken of myself
as though I was two different
people: current me and former
me.
And this is because one of the
more hilarious paradoxes of
the spiritual path to me is that
the more you stop working on
yourself, the more you change
and the more things change
in your life.
So while I say there is nothing
wrong, that there is nothing for
you to do and nothing to work
on, the more I have been able
to love and accept myself and
my life as it is in recognition
that I am already and always
the perfect 'me,' the more my
life has changed, the more
I have changed...
And for the better, IMHO.
All my rough edges were made
smooth. And I am kind and
gentle, spacious and infinitely
patient, loving and peaceful.
Hey...and I have a whole lot of
the wisdom thing going on!
Not just some of the time, but
all of the time!
And I dare to say these things
about myself because even
when I am having a rough day
like yesterday, I can always
take another step back and
be the most loving and tender
friend to the part of me that
feels such overwhelm, confusion,
ever questioning the universe,
about "Where in the h-e-double
toothpicks is my miracle?"
when no apparent miracle
is showing up to save the day.
I even noticed while in the check
out lane at Trader Joe's, when
the kind young man who
was loading up my groceries and
hit his pause button long enough
to look me dead in the eye
and ask,"How's your day going
today?" that I replied with a steady
return gaze, "You know...it's been
a day that 6 months ago I might
have had a royal meltdown over.
But you know what?
Today I am honestly just trying
to breathe, relax, trust that all is well,
and remember to smile as I do.
Because the real kicker is that
I could no longer be here to be
experiencing it. And that makes
it all a GIFT."
He said, "That's really great. I
hope it gets better for you now
that it seems you are ready to
head for home and call it a day."
A moment of connection, heart
to heart. And compassion and
kindness from a stranger who
would be brother and friend.
Does it get any better than that?
I'm telling you....
So that's the daily challenge
for all of us today.
No one can normalize your
experience but you.
Life is going to do what life is
going to do.
And humans are going to do
the one thing that you can
always count on them doing,
humaning.
And you will be reminded again
and again that you do not have
any control over any of it.
You do not even have control
over whether or not you are
even going to be given your
next breath.
That is mighty humbling, mighty
humbling...
Sometimes it will be exhilarating.
Sometimes you will want to pat
yourself on the shoulder because
you are doing so well.
(Which is seriously a joke if ever
I heard one because none of us
has any control over anything
other than whether or not we
will love and support ourselves
as we live the life which is ours
to live...)
Sometimes our day will go all
pear shaped and we will want
to go home, pull the covers
over our head and alternate
between spitting nails and
sucking our thumb.
But it will be our day.
It will be our life.
And we will live it as only we
can live it.
Now can you just do you, stay
in your lane and notice when
you are getting too close to either
the yellow line or the shoulder
and feel a bit of gratitude that
you are still here, still giving it
your all, still seeing how precious
you are and life is?
Because the deepest truth I have
discovered in the living of my life
is that when you can normalize
something, it is no longer such a
big deal.
Did you hear that?
Because it is very, very important.
This is normal.
My reaction is normal.
And life is just doing life.
The sky isn't falling and
I am doing me.
Normal. Every damn bit of it.
Hey self...could you use a hug?
Have a beautiful day my loves,
and know that I am in this
thing with you, right up to my
eyeballs, embracing the life
which is mine to live and sending
you all the love, encouragement
and support this heart has to
offer as you live the life which
is yours to live and experience
today too.
The key word for the day today
is normalize.
Remember that every moment
is a good moment to be thankful
and normalize the life which
is yours to live.
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever the day is that is
going to be mine to experience
and live today, let me remember
to normalize my experience,
smile and breathe, and never
forget to dance as I love my
way through it!
Amen
***
04/22/2026
Thought for the Day
I moved into the home in which
I presently live the day the Trade
Towers went down.
Good thing I don't believe in
bad omens or that could have
been a real bummer.
Few can imagine living in the same
place for as long as I have, but
there you have it.
I call that GRACE.
I mention this because I have
used my address as an example
to explain what we are all trying
to accomplish here because it
does so quite clearly.
It is an example which has served
me well since the day I moved in.
Let's say that someone knocks
on my door because they are
lost and are asking me for
directions to get back home.
I ask them where they are trying
to get to and they inform me
that their destination is Plano, TX.
Plano is a mere hop, skip and a
jump from my home in North Dallas.
My residence is less than a quarter
of a mile from a freeway which is
named North Central Expressway.
Here in Texas, this freeway is
commonly referred to as
'N. C. Expwy'.
And Plano is 5 miles north of me
off of that Expwy. which runs both
north and south.
What if I were to give that individual
directions to the freeway and then
I instructed them to get on the
southbound Expwy because all that
they have to do is go 12,954,001
miles and they will find themselves
safely in Plano.
This is the path of working on your-
self.
And it is what religion, the New
Age movement, all self help
groups, books, seminars, work-
shops, etc. try to sell you.
It is also what traditional therapy
has to offer.
Time, effort, energy and resources
all going nowhere which only com-
pound your sense of failure.
But what if I gave that same person
directions to the freeway and told
them to stay in the far left lane
because what they want to do is
get on the northbound freeway
and they will see exit signs in
approximately 5 miles which say
that you are now in Plano?
Which route would you rather take?
Both will eventually get you there,
for that is their intention.
However, one way will more than
likely take you decades if not lifetimes
to arrive at your destination.
And the journey will be fraught with
disappointment, discouragement,
uncertainty, calamity and chaos.
While the other will be a straight shot.
Now it really is up to you.
But long and tedious is just not my
bailiwick.
Can you accept the blessed truth that
you do not have to be different in
any way?
That you are only as encumbered or
unencumbered as you are preoccupied
with trying to fix yourself?
And you cannot seek salvation when
you have never needed salvaging
because you cannot find what was
never lost in the first place.
You can only give yourself permission
to be who and how you always have
been and ever yet shall be.
Because it is one thing to say these
words because you believe them to
be true. Here they can remain safely
in the mind as mere concept.
And it is quite another thing to open
your beautiful and fragile heart in
complete and utter transparency,
allowing the LOVE which you forever
are to engulf and consume you
irrevocably.
This is about alchemy, and it is about
living a great mystery.
Liberation is not an acquired state,
it is about you allowing yourself to
receive the LOVE which you
changelessly are.
And that, dear one, is a matter of you
opening your heart to the truth which
abides in all its immaculate clarity,
wonder and awe within you.
It was and is as available to a serial
killer as it is to a saint.
Thus your humanity does not
and cannot get in the way of it.
Will you allow yourself to be free?
Because that is what it all boils
down to is your permission, or do
you need more time to work on
yourself, to seek but never find?
You do not need a guru, a teacher,
a special book, workshop or
seminar.
You do not need to waste money
and travel somewhere other than
where you presently are in this
very instant.
Freedom really is free, in spite of
the bill of goods you have been
sold which has you brainwashed
into believing you are broken so
you cannot be free in your present
state and need time to work on
yourself.
You do not need to believe any of
the negative bullshit that has been
spoken over you which you have
mistakenly taken to heart.
The state of transcendence is freely
offered you in every single breath
you take.
Remember when the starship
Enterprise would find itself in
a tractor beam?
Well, that tractor beam is your
breath, ever pulling you into
the secret depths of your inner-
most kingdom.
So consciously follow the breath
today, and give yourself permission
to receive what no one else can
give you, because it is already yours
and it always has been.
Isn't it high time you allowed what
you are to tell you of itself?
***
Prayer for the Day
I give myself permission to experience
the freedom which is forever mine.
Oh God, reveal Thyself to me!
And in each and every moment,
I silently give this same permission
to all my world.
May all beings give themselves
permission to embrace FREEDOM
NOW with no further delays or
hesitation.
Amen
***
04/21/2026
Thought for the Day
There is a profound and highly
palpable harmonic resonance
which is felt when you live
your life in alignment with
the inner Trinity within you.
We haven't spoken of this
Trinity in a while, so we will
offer a quick review.
(1) A profound state of Emptiness
which is also referred to as the
Void.
There is nothing here.
There is no you, no reporter.
Free of any content, yet pregnant
with Infinite Potential and
Possibility.
It is mentioned in the Bible in
Genesis 1:2 where it says,
"And the earth was without form,
and void, and darkness was upon
the face of the deep."
(2) The first creation was that of
light, spoken of in Genesis 1:3.
"And God said, 'Let there be light,
and there was light."
The manifest form of this Infinite
Potential and Possibility is light.
And the feeling which is associated
with that light is love.
You are that presence, that love,
that light.
(3) While the third portion of your
Trinity is the human manifestation.
There is no difference between these
three. They are one.
Life also has two axes.
A vertical axis and a horizontal one,
forming the shape of a cross within
the human being.
The point where these axes cross
one another is found within each
of the 7 chakras.
The difference between the two
axes is one who lives from the
outside in and one who lives their
life from the inside out.
One who lives from the outside in
lives their whole life trying to tinker
with their humanity while trying
to control and manipulate their
life experience, feeling that their
inner experience is dictated by
their out one.
While one who lives from the inside
out is aligned with the Trinity
within. This one is not controlled
by outside experiences. Nor are they
bothered by their human one.
Their life is an authentic expression
of the Trinity within them, ever
remaining in alignment with all three
aspects of identity.
You are experiencing the body, yet
you are also experiencing being
transcendent.
This is to be in the world but not
of it.
The means given you to remain
anchored to the Trinity within you
is that of the breath.
Breath awareness is a living practice.
The will to live your life free of
suffering, free of survival, free of
uncertainty, chaos and doom
begins with commitment and
consistency on your part.
How attuned to my breath can
I be today?
That is the question that walks in
the space before you, ever
reminding you of your first priority.
When I forget, can I return without
beating up on myself, and just keep
threading my internal needle by
returning to the breath again and
again and by thus, realigning to
the source of truth within me?
This is your challenge for today.
"I am no longer allergic to being
human."
"No part of my humanity is ever
in conflict with the Trinity within
me."
"Breath awareness ever reminds
me of the truth. The breath is
my anchor to all three."
"There is no conflict between all
three states and I can live my life
in alignment with all three all of
the time."
"My only struggle has ever been
with my humanity. Now I can
normalize the human experience
rather than pathologize it while
constantly trying to work on it."
"My human experience is part
of the Infinite being that I am."
You are the one who stigmatized
your particular experience of
being human and you are the
only one who needs to normalize
it.
This happens when you no longer
make yourself wrong and allow
a thing so simple as the breath
to keep you tethered to all three.
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me keep life profoundly
simple today by anchoring
mind, emotions, body and
experience upon the breath.
And help me remain light
hearted about it, returning
again and again when I forget
and lose myself once again
on the horizontal.
I am in the world, but
not of it and my only wish
is for my human experience
to be a reflection of the
Trinity within me.
Amen
***
04/20/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple assignment is offered
today in lieu of a particular
thought.
The practice is that of wearing
yourself and your life today
like a loose garment.
Hold the highest and best for
yourself.
Hold the highest and best for
everyone and everything you
will encounter in your day
today.
Hold the highest and best for
our world.
But do not expect that anyone
is ever going to get it, that
anyone is ever going to get you.
Perhaps the most difficult thing
for any of us to face is that
there is no endgame to all this,
certainly not the one that you
have been trying to make happen.
We are all experiencing what
we have not yet had the courage
to face, living our lives as we
feel guided to do so.
You did not come here to make
a difference in anyone else's life.
You came here to experience
being you, and that you do, each
and every day.
Remain clear, trusting and humble.
Simply live your truth and do it
for yourself, in constant remem-
brance that you are not here to
have some kind of impact on
anyone.
You are here to be you, as only
you can.
Cease wishing for another world
other than the one you are
experiencing right now.
You have nothing to offer anyone
other than your example.
LOVE is about knowing everyone's
potential, knowing the world's
potential, without expectations
or attachments to a particular
outcome.
LOVE is always offered with an
open hand and a boundless
heart.
How could LOVE be called love
if it did not give total radical
freedom to everyone to be
exactly as they are, without
expectations, judgment or
demand?
Can you dare to wear your life
this loosely?
And when you notice that you
are taking yourself or your
world a little too seriously,
wearing it tightly once again,
remember your exercise for
today.
Take a psychological step back,
return to the breath, relax and
soften as you inwardly hold
space for our world, offering a
mother's tender and endlessly
compassionate and patient heart
to all that is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Whatever is God's will is
destined to happen.
Whatever is not God's will
is destined never to happen.
And between these two
opposites, we are the architects
of our own destiny.
Amen
Prayer from the Upanishads
***
Dear God...
I cannot do anything other than
be me and strive to love myself
and my world with all my heart,
ever holding all of us in golden
light.
A light that holds the highest and
best for all of us, while knowing
the world is going to do what it is
going to do and I cannot change
that.
Grace fall upon me, that I might
live my life so aligned with truth
that there is no difference between
us.
For I recognize that to know this
and to live this is to know peace.
Amen
***
04/19/2026
Thought for the Day
Another short but sweet
practice is offered you
today.
Every moment can be
an invitation for miracles
if you (a) want it to be and
(b) allow it to be.
Most people do not pay
attention to their lives.
They live with their IOS set
on remote control, with the
ego large and in charge,
but at the same time, this is
a very robotic and reflexive
way to live.
I feel that the one thing that
all human beings are most
afraid of is love.
They do not want to believe
that they are incapable, as
the personal self, of meeting
love.
What ego is capable of genuinely
living their lives in a state of absolute
vulnerability and transparency?
Virtually all people leave
relationships, encounters and
experiences long before
they are actually over with.
That is a powerful statement
I have just made.
Don't just let it pass you by
without carefully and kindly
examining how you conduct
yourself in relationship.
See if you do not notice your
attention drift off, the walls
go up to varying degrees
(depending on the experience
or who you happen to be with
at the time) and the mind start
planning its exit strategy.
The sad reality is that no
ego is capable of meeting
love.
That would require being able
to consciously recognize that
every moment is a holy moment,
every encounter or experience
is also holy, every instant an
exploration of life lived from
the vestiges of the final frontier;
that of the totally raw, naked and
vulnerable human heart.
What makes every instant holy is
the fact that your choosing to
remain both conscious and irrevocably
vulnerable opens the floodgates
of heaven.
What else could an invitation
to the miraculous be?
It is one thing to know this.
It is another thing to believe
that it is true.
And it is an altogether new
kind of experience to actually
try to live one's life this way.
Can you not see that if the ego
were capable of doing this, it
would no longer be the ego?
So that is the assignment for
today.
To have some respect and awe
for the potential which is available
to each and every one of us in every
moment of our lives.
What could happen in your world
today if you were to remain conscious,
tender, naked and vulnerable?
There is no limit to the possibility
of every moment for one that
consciously chooses to live life
so bravely.
How miraculous can your world
be today?
Challenge yourself.
What have you got to lose other
than your sense of separation,
isolation and aloneness, as well
as the misery and suffering that
mistaking the pseudo self for
who you are actually entails?
***
Prayer for the Day
Naked.
Oh so vulnerable.
Curious.
May my very being be an
open invitation to
the soul.
Live Thou me.
Amen
***
04/18/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's look again today at expectations
and attachments.
This is to be a day of simple noticing,
followed by a conscious choosing to
fall back, relax and accept the most
sobering of truths that you have no
control over the people in your life
and withdraw all the energy you have
put into trying to help or fix them.
This is especially difficult to do with
life partners, children and relatives.
You are not failing.
You simply have expectations, and
things are not going the way you
wish or according to your timeline.
When you have expectations of any
kind, you will suffer, but only 100%
of the time.
Remember, they are on the soul's
journey and cannot do it wrong or
mess things up. Give them the gift
of their own dysfunction and the
freedom to do things as they are
destined to do.
If freedom is what you cherish, do
they not deserve the same measure
of freedom from you?
Even if that means they do not use
it the way that you would use it?
Remember...their soul's journey, not your
journey...
This is going to require you to deepen
your understanding and practice of
trust.
You cannot be attached to any outcome.
It will require a level of truthfulness with
yourself that you are currently unfamiliar
with.
It is the razor's edge you walk: on one
side of the blade lies attachment and
expectations, while on the other side
is acceptance and trust.
What if....
What if they agreed to play this role in
your life while they were yet in the bardo
between life and death, that this was
and is the plan?
All so that you could deepen your
capacity to accept and trust?
For peace is what arises to fill every cell,
every atom, molecule and photon of
your being when you let yourself and
your world be as it is and trust.
***
Prayer for the Day
I bow before the isness of life
today and every day.
Radical acceptance and trust
are my only practices from here
on out.
Amen
***
04/17/2026
Thought for the Day
Two mantras are given you
to work with today.
First, commit them to
memory.
Secondly, allow them each to
walk in the space before you,
ever informing and reminding
you that you are okay, that every-
thing is okay and you have every
reason to stop engaging with the
peanut gallery between yours
ears, drop it like a hot potato,
return to the breath and trust.
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
And do share how your
day goes if you would like to
chat.
***
Prayer for the Day
The 4 things which my
personal self is best at
are opinions, thinking it
knows best, free advice
and complicating the shit
out of everything.
I cannot think of a better
way to keep me confused,
off balance and chasing
my tail.
Sweet and simple are the
marching orders for the day
as I remind myself often of
the following:
I DO NOT NEED TO BE
DIFFERENT.
I DO NOT NEED FOR THIS
TO BE DIFFERENT.
It is a beautiful and perfect
world when I remember that.
Thank you for the gift of life.
Thank you for the gift of
my life.
I wasn't promised a today,
yet here it is.
Let me live it consciously
with care.
Amen
***
04/16/2026
Thought for the Day
Repeat after me:
What happens to my identity
does not happen to the soul.
My identity is only soul.
A human costume is not an
entity, it is a suit. It is the means
by which universal consciousness
can experience individually.
This is an experience.
This is only an experience.
I am experiencing it the way
that I am supposed to be
experiencing it.
Let me therefore breathe,
relax and trust.
A simple enough practice,
but one that will accomplish
two things:
(1) You will see how much the
mind balks, resists and offers
commentary which is not helpful
on everything.
(2) It will introduce the idea of
conscious awareness into your day.
We have no control over our
humanity, but by introducing
awareness into the mix of
our day, we are given the
opportunity to choose peace
rather than disruption, calm
and tranquility rather than
friction and unsatisfactoriness.
Do you control the mind, or does
the mind control you?
If you believe for a single second
that the mind controls you, then
you are assuming the role of victim
and are gaslighting yourself.
And that is a choice, my friend.
Perhaps one you do not really
want to be making?
***
Prayer for the Day
The biggest obstacle I have
every faced in this life is myself.
I'm done with the whole
saboteur thing.
From here on out I am gonna
ride with the tide and go with
the flow.
Amen
***
04/15/2026
Thought for the Day
Good people shine their brightest
in dark times.
That's a bold statement.
But I think our present times qualify
for that descriptor, don't you?
And guess what?
We are all good people because
we share the same soul.
It is the soul which makes us
beautiful to behold, not our
humanity.
Never hold anyone's humanity
against them.
We are all doing the only thing
we can, that which is our
destiny to do and experience.
If you are experiencing it and
someone else is doing it, does
it not stand to reason that this
is part of the destiny the soul
has chosen for you to experience
as well?
It is the meaning of the statement
which says, "Oneness is."
The soul is perfect, changeless,
and has never experienced
a single instant of suffering.
It has no troubled past to deal
with, no baggage or burden
to carry.
It never judges or is unkind.
The soul loves us without conditions,
demands, disappointments
or expectations.
The soul is one and it is 100%
indivisible.
This means that we do not each
have a part of the same soul.
100% of all the soul is, is contained
within each of us!
We are fractals of the same formless
being expressing itself uniquely
through each lens of humanity.
Does it not also stand to reason
that everyone is then, none other than
an expression of yourself?
Our humanity has nothing to do
with our Divinity.
Nothing the human being thinks,
feels, says or does can harm the
soul, nor can anyone's humanity
change, alter, influence or direct
the destiny which the soul has
planned for each of us, nor fail
to meet the soul's expectations.
The soul has no expectations!
If you are experiencing it, it is
your destiny to do so.
This is as true for you as it is for
everyone and everything else.
Everyone is perfectly on time, both
who and how they are supposed
to be.
It can be no other way.
How about, just for today, looking
past everyone's humanity,
including your own, choosing
rather to see the part of them
that is real, eternal, infinite and
changeless?
There is a fundamental law to
all seeing which says:
You see what you want to see
and you experience what you want
to experience.
Why expect the worse from
others when it is given you to
bring the truth to light, simply
by wanting to see what is true
and only what is true?
Feed the truth your attention
and the truth is what the world
will bear witness to along with
you.
One person, seeing clearly,
can save the world from
themselves.
In fact, this is how it is done.
One beating heart at a time
which earnestly cries out,
"Above all else I want to see."
***
Prayer for the Day
Bless all my seeing today
as I commit the day
to Clear Seeing.
I want others to see the
soul in me.
For why would I not give to
my world what I most
long to experience within
myself?
Amen
***
04/14/2026
Thought for the Day
Freedom is nothing more
and nothing less than being
able to live your life in
touch with the Soul, re-
cognizing that it is Soul
which is your true Identity.
For thou art that, yesterday,
today and forever.
When this is that which
you are most aware of in
all the moments of your
life, what is left to realize
or embody?
In January of 2000, in the
early morning hours before
daylight, the day before I
was preparing to leave for
a trip to Egypt, I awakened
to the sound of a dove cooing.
And I felt this giant pair of
wings embracing me from
head to toe.
And there was a vibration
or frequency that was too
palpable to ignore.
Exquisite...
Comforting...
Light filled...
These are words which do not
begin to do it justice.
I knew I was deeply loved,
treasured even, swathed
and held in the most tender
and loving embrace.
All I have to do is close my
eyes for a nanosecond,
remembering that beautiful
day, and I am so aware of
this presence, that I cannot
tell where it ends and I
begin.
Or are we more like water
mixed with water, inseparably
mixed?
Does it even matter?
All I know is I am not the same
and nothing has ever been
the same since.
It is a formless something
which deepens and widens
moment by moment until
there are no more edges
to my loving.
And you know what?
If I am silent and I listen
to you deeply enough, it is
what I hear in you as well.
It is the thread that makes
us, this planet and all
that is a seamless and
single fabric of texture,
vibrancy and diversity
which is so exquisitely
beautiful that it makes me
weep tears of gratitude
and endless joy.
But do not mistake form
for content.
Truth is formless.
It is a profound Emptiness
of infinite possibility and
potential.
It can take on any form.
I am certain it took the form
it did for me because of where
I was preparing to travel to
and because I was studying
ACIM at the time.
Look!!!
It has even taken on the form
of you!
But it is not the form.
It is what animates the form!
And here, it is posing as you,
hiding in plain sight!
Today is a day to rejoice,
for you are never not this.
And today, you will allow yourself
to be all that you are; that light
which illuminates the entire
universe.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
for the GIFT.
For I realize one does not
need to be special or
somehow noteworthy
to receive such a blessing,
they need only open
their hearts to the Infinite
and give it welcome,
disappearing forever
into the very heart of God.
Amen
***
04/13/2026
Thought for the Day
I think that the most difficult thing
for any of us to accept is the truly
humbling knowledge that no
matter what we do, no matter
how hard we try, no matter how
fervent and heartfelt our prayers, no
matter how much pressure others
put on us to do so, OUR HUMANITY
IS NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.
We are who we are who we are.
And guess what?
If this is true about you, it is true
about every other human being
on this planet, as well as our
world and the world at large.
Until we can accept this changeless
fact, we will be miserable.
Misery will be our constant bed
fellow and the frequency we will
broadcast to the world.
Is it any wonder why the world is
as it is given this?
The world will always be a reflection
of our inner state of being.
It can be no other way.
And until we can accept this, and
I mean really and truly accept this,
we will keep trying to rearrange
the deckchairs on the Titanic,
keep trying to redecorate our hotel
rooms, in spite of the fact that
we are only overnight guests.
There is no amount of trying to
change your humanity that will
suddenly make it the soul.
And there is no amount of trying
to change your humanity that will
suddenly make you worthy of
experiencing yourself as soul.
Therefore, leave the humanity
alone.
A vehicle is not an identity.
People actually believe that if they
can only experience the truth of
who they are, their humanity and
their lives will somehow miraculously
change.
They will no longer experience
trials and tribulations, calamity
and chaos, upheaval and uncertainty,
crisis and predicaments.
This is a lie.
You are not here to change your
humanity or your life experience.
You are here to learn to love your
humanity, as it is, and to have
experiences, as only your humanity
experiences them, to love and
support yourself while remaining
compassionately detached to
the very world you are here to
witness.
I've got news for you honey,
awakening changes absolutely
nothing about you or your lived
experience.
But maybe...
Just maybe...
Accepting and embracing all
of this, truly accepting and
embracing it, as it is, is what
LOVE is really all about.
Total, radical, unqualified
acceptance, without demand
or expectations of any kind.
Ever.
And maybe that is what God is
after all.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I bow before the
isness of what is.
Every moment, a quiet
letting go and letting
God.
I am as I am.
My life is as it is.
Others are as they
are and the world is
as it is.
May I accept all of that.
Amen
***
04/12/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday, at a good friend's
recommendation, I went to see
the movie, "Project Hail Mary."
You have to understand just what
a big deal that is.
I have gone to less than ten movies
in my entire lifetime and I will be
73 years old this year!
I had read the book over a year
ago, so I already knew what the
movie would be about.
It was so beautiful and the heart
has been in a constant state of
reverie and inner reflection since
going, which is almost 24 hours
now.
Without revealing too much
about it, let me share that
the overarching theme of the
movie is that of a reluctant ego
that does not want to do
something that will no doubt
be scary, completely out of
his wheelhouse, and will require
the utmost bravery and heroism
on his part.
Not only is he the right man
for the job, he is the only man
with his particular skillset to
do it.
So the powers that be tackle
him and put him in a coma
against his will, and his journey
begins.
He is the ultimate reluctant
traveler.
Like all journey's go, this one
was chock full of surprises,
challenges and opportunities.
By the time the movie ends, not
only does he prove himself to be
a hero, he is not even certain
that he wants to return to earth.
It is a beautiful journey of the heart.
So filled with love and unity
it will break even the most
stubborn and stoney heart.
It is pouring down rain here in
Dallas, TX, but the sunshine
that this particular heart is
producing and giving off is
enough to light the entire
planet!
What a great day.
Today will be a day of rest
for me.
One of the most important
things I received from the movie
was how much life force we expend
and direct toward thinking we know
best for ourselves and therefore,
how much energy we waste trying
to plan, control and direct our
human journey, rather than be
open to the idea that there is a life
which has been planned for you
that is far greater than your wildest
imagination and we have every
reason to surrender and trust in
that unfolding.
So today, how about hopping
into that back seat and letting
the Universe be in charge?
How about living the Mystery,
entering the flow and just
choosing to trust?
Sound like a plan?
Well it does to me.
So I leave you this rainy morning
with the famous Irish blessing...
"May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
the rains fall soft upon your fields and,
until we meet again, may God hold you
in the hollow of His hand".
Boundless Love,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for my life.
I never know what's next,
but I always know how
the story ends because
I am, afterall, on the hero's
journey.
Amen
***
04/11/2026
Thought for the Day
I woke up this morning feeling
so much gratitude and joy
because it dawned on me that
it is the weekend and I have
absolutely nothing 'major'
on the horizon, which is a
rarity.
I plan to take a longer walk
with Violet. I place her in
the kitty backpack and off
we go. She seems to love it
but because she is an indoor
only kitty, we practice being
in nature from behind a plastic
shell with plenty of air holes
to breathe and take it all in.
I also plan to play more with her,
perhaps take a nap and maybe
a movie.
Any recommendations?
Thus a simple little practice is
offered for today.
And let me be clear.
When I use the word practice,
I am always using the word in
the context of some form of
inner inquiry or observation.
Statement:
The part of you that is authentic
cannot be found by trying to
change your human experience.
From where are you looking?
Begin by observing yourself with
kindness and curiosity today.
Notice when you are trying to
change, redirect or 'help' your
human experience in some way.
Then repeat your statement/
question for today.
Take an inner step back.
Return to the breath.
Relax.
Soften.
Feel yourself opening like a
flower as you feel the breath
moving in and out of the heart.
You do not need to change
or do anything.
Just remember...
You are in this world but you
are definitely not of it, which
means no fiddle-fucking with
either your humanity or your
human experience.
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for the simple and
sweet little life which is mine.
Help me wear my life like a
loose garment today as I
observe it whilst it is happening.
I love this fully immersive
human experience.
It's always a Mystery.
Always a GIFT.
I am fortunate to be here.
I am fortunate to be experiencing
this.
I could be long gone and six feet
under.
May I never lose sight of that.
Amen
***
04/10/2026
Thought for the Day
No matter what…
NEVER LET THIS WORLD
DOMESTICATE YOU.
Throughout the years, I have
experienced hundreds of people
say to me something like the
following.
”I had it and then I lost it. I
get these glimpses a lot but I
keep going back to letting the
ego be the one in control.”
Listen.
That is crazy talk.
Bologna.
Horse hooey.
Conformity bullshit you inherited
from the Matrix.
What happens...and you have
to catch yourself in the act a
few times to see it in action,
is you take the Universal Energy
to which you have joined and
try to make it personal.
You grasp.
You cling.
You want to make it yours forever.
Your achievement.
The sign you've arrived.
You ticked the right box. Now
you can lean back, bask in the
light so everyone can see, and
enjoy what is left of your life.
What is inherently our energy
becomes your energy and that
is the precise moment in which
you lose the thread.
Honey, there is no such thing as
personal anything in this cosmos.
What happened is that you had
an instant in which you finally
got out of your own way and
experienced what is ours.
What is never not here when
you stop identifying with me,
myself and I.
But you tried to make it all about
you.
You tried to own it, to claim it,
and to hold onto it, and that is
when you stopped experiencing
directly what is always there and
never not ours.
Our shared identity...
I have the sweetest friend in
the entire universe and she has
changed so much in the past
few years. It truly is remarkable
to see.
More calm.
More peace.
Very little self pity and victim
consciousness which are huge
shifts in awareness.
She always says, "by your grace..."
Bull shit.
By her grace she decided to learn
what it means to love herself
and get out of her own damn way.
This is all.
And she is sticking that landing
because she is not taking credit
for it or claiming ownership.
But she is making it special be-
cause she is making it about me.
Very humble about it all, but
entirely inaccurate and
unneccessary.
This is about no one.
It is the only thing which is truly
existent.
It is the changeless substrate of
every living thing.
It is always there.
It is always ours.
And there are no prerequisites
other than the desire to
experience it.
In fact, that friend I just spoke
of?
She doesn't even need to stop
making it all about me and my
influence over her life.
She just has to keep wanting
this and only this, giving
it her allegiance and devotion,
knowing it does not really
have anything to do with me
or her.
Willingness and acceptance
are the keys to everything.
It will always be there.
Rain or shine.
Listen.
My internal dial is tuned into the
true blue signal of station
G-O-D.
I am broadcasting Infinity
live.
We all are.
The question is, are you doing
so consciously or unconsciously
because that is the difference
between peace and suffering.
And because I know it is not
mine, I never experience it not
there. Thus, I am it's conscious
conduit.
So play a little game with
yourself today.
Notice when you are personalizing
anything, then try the following:
(1) Feel yourself relax as you
take a step back in recognition
that you are doing it again.
You are making the Universal
a personal thing.
(2) Return to your breath, calming
the brain and nervous system.
(3) Remind yourself, "This is not
personal. What is happening is
supposed to be happening
because this is what is happening.
Let me surrender to what is and
enter the flow of it and trust. God
doesn't need a backseat driver."
And when you do have those moments
where you feel the flow, and your
heart is so light and you are in the
zone, remember, this is not personal.
This is the Universal Energy.
It is our energy. It is not mine.
It belongs to each and every
one of us.
There are no requirements, no
conditions, no religion, no teacher,
no book, no practices, nor anything
else to follow.
The desire to be consciously aware
of the ONE thing which always is,
is what allows all of us to see and
live humbly as its representative
on this earth, allowing it to flow
uniquely through our humanity
to all that is.
The truth may flow through you
but it will never be personal,
never be yours.
It will never ever be about you.
Isn't that grand?
***
Prayer for the Day
Spigot on.
I enter the flow.
And it's miracle time.
Oh goody, goody gum
drops.
I can't wait to see what
happens next because I
love surprises.
I got nothing better to do
than to step back and let
the light lead the way.
Amen
***
04/09/2026
Thought for the Day
People do not know this about
me, but I have always harbored
a secret love for old fashioned
true blue rock and roll music.
None of the newer stuff.
And especially not rap.
Gone are the days in which
lyrics actually meant something
beyond sex, grievances and
taking advantage of others,
or just plain doing away with
anyone who disturbs you or
your life in any way.
In 1982, my favorite album
was by Prince.
It was the “1999” album.
The song which I was over
the moon with was entitled,
“Let’s Pretend We’re Married."
The song ended with the following
words.
You think I’m crazy?
You’re probably right.
But I’m gonna have fun
every mother f _ _ ckin’
night.
You like to fight?
You’re a double drag fool.
I’m goin' to another life.
How about you?
And although these words
seem eerily appropriate because
of how he left this earth so soon,
and the manner in which he did
so has always seemed suspicious
to me, I changed the words to
those closing lyrics to ”I’m gonna
live a happier life, how about you?”
Listen, beloved.
It is fundamentally okay for you
to not live your life like everyone
else is. In fact, I have been doing
just that every single day I have
been here on planet earth.
Live your truth.
Have your experience.
No one seeks enlightenment so that
they can doom scroll like everyone
else on this planet as they play the
unsettling and nerve-racking game
of “Chicken Little And The Sky Is
Falling” with themselves, each other
and this planet.
Who the hell cares what other people
think when they see you dancing
your way through your life?
Whose life do you really want?
Yours or theirs?
How about no more pretending
to be a grown up today?
Huh?
What have you got to lose other
than all of your doom, gloom
and excessive misery?
After all, I have never ever seen
a single grown up who actually
looks like they are having a good
time here anyway.
They look serious as a heart attack
and run around like chickens with
their head's chopped off; all restless,
irritable and discontent.
Do they look like they are having
fun?
I don't think so...
So screw that.
I’m gonna march to the beat of
my own drum and I’m gonna
go where there is no path
and leave a trail of fairy dust
in my wake for others to find.
All rainbow glittery and glowy
as all get out.
I'm gonna LIVE, baby, making up
for all the time I lost when I forgot
that Fun was actually my middle
name!
What are you going to do with
your one precious human life?
***
Prayer for the Day
I’m gonna C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-E !!!
Amen
***
04/08/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday in the blog entry that
I posted, I asked the following
question:
Why do we so easily see the needs
in others but are entirely oblivious
to our own?
I feel this is one of the most vital
questions we could ask of ourselves.
I remember when Baba was still
alive and I was trying to help him
remember a particular disciple
who had given him a ring to bless.
I said to him, “You know, Jitesh.
Jitesh, Baba. His mind is very
disturbed.”
(It just so happened that Jitesh had
recently been diagnosed with a form
of mental illness which is extremely
difficult to treat.)
Without missing a beat, Baba
then said to me, “Oh yes,
Pelkyong-ma. Your mind is very
very disturbed.”
I was quietly insulted.
It seemed that I had a much higher
opinion of my mind and myself
at the time.
Over the decades, this has remained
a very funny inside joke to me, even
though it was anything but funny
to me at the time.
Baba has been dead for almost 30
years now but some of the lessons
that he taught me, without even
trying to do so, were so memorable
that they never cease to humble
me and remind me of what is true
upon each and every recollection.
Some people actually think they
know what it means to know that
you know nothing.
In fact, I know quite a few who
believe that this is true with
all of their hearts.
But it's not true.
It's not true at all.
For they have barely scratched
the surface of what one is actually
saying when they heartfully say
that they know nothing.
You see, it is one thing to know
that you know nothing, and quite
another thing to realize how deeply
in need you actually are.
This is one who really and truly knows
that they know nothing. They are naked
and humble and open and yielding
to the Divine.
They are a living breathing invitation.
They have been made ready for truth
to enter in and reveal Itself.
Priding yourself in the belief that you
have no needs, yet merrily going about
the business of living your life, waiting
for something to happen, daily adulting,
which is the one thing you do best,
is a blatant demonstration of an I know
state of mind.
One of the things which I heard Baba
say every single day in the years
that I was with him, was that he was
a tiny, helpless, little baby and he
didn’t know anything.
Oh, how his heart yearned for God!
Many times I caught him kneeling
beside his bed, praying when he
thought no one saw him, ever
crying out to the Lord, "Oh, God...
Oh, God... Reveal Thyself to me!"
He would often tell me that the
more he realized and understood,
the more he recognized that he
knew nothing.
For Infinity is so big...
He knew that without God, he
was nothing, absolutely nothing!
And this was coming from a man
who had attained the state of
Nirvikulpa Samadhi!
Listen to your heart today.
You do have needs.
And they are legion.
Be loving, kind and gentle
with yourself.
Take the time to care for
your innermost being in a way
it will never forget.
For how you treat yourself, is
how you treat your world.
And how you treat yourself is how
you handle the rest of your life.
***
Prayer for the Day
I see so clearly that there is
no deceit which is greater
than self deceit.
I saw a beautiful photo today
of Mother Mary kissing the
cheek of baby Jesus as she
cradled him in her arms.
I cried. It touched me that
much, to see how deeply
she loved her child.
Help me care for myself today
just like that.
Amen
***
04/07/2026
Thought for the Day
The way that everyone
processes life is the way that
it was modeled to them.
That is a matter of history,
programming, conditioning,
beliefs, preferences, biases
and judgments, cultural,
religious, local, national and
world brainwashing.
Rare is the human being that
can experience themselves
as anything other than this.
For as long as there has been
such a thing as human history,
it has been believed that the
only way to find God or truth
is through a reductionist model,
which is all about getting rid of
one's humanity or changing it.
This is not the way.
This is not your way.
What is necessary is to recognize
that when your humanity is in play,
your experience will always be finite
and unpleasantly unstable.
In other words, not this.
This is neither Zen seeing or
experiencing.
It is the manifestation of your
particular flavor of survival.
This content is not who you
are.
It is what was modeled to you.
You are the very emptiness
which existed and exists
before all of that.
It is still there, covered up by
layer upon layer of jumbled
up primitive stalagtites and
stalagmites which are concealing
the inherent radiance of indivisible
pure potential.
In every moment, it is given
you to either engage with
your humanity or engage with
the blank slate which you
inherently are.
However, you will never ever
source the truth by searching
for it through your human
experience.
Give yourself the GIFT of
allowing yourself to get to
know the you which existed
prior to the world sinking its
talons into you.
The only way to begin this is by
consciously choosing to not
get lost in the human experience;
to no longer give it your time,
attention, energy or resources.
Again, you are not try to change
it or get rid of it, you are
choosing not to engage with it.
Notice today when you are
about to lose yourself in the
experience of humaning, and
hit your pause button.
Do not try to change the human
experience to one you feel
is better, one the mind believes
is reflective of clear seeing.
For this is not clear seeing.
This is the choice to human
as the spiritual ego.
Simply drop it.
Drop it altogether like a hot
potato.
Return to your breath and
be empty of everything.
Bring your attention to your
heart center and notice
what you experience.
Do you not feel lighter,
brighter and more expansive?
And do you not notice
something which is entirely
beyond the human experience
which begins to reveal Itself?
You did not incarnate in these
times in order to go to war with
your human experience.
Nor did you come here to
get lost in role play.
You came to share the part of
you which you did not inherit
from this world.
Do not lose sight of that.
For only the soul is authentic.
Two options stand before you
in every moment of life.
To be the part of you that you
inherited from the world, your
humanity.
Or to be the part of you that
you brought to this world with
you, the soul.
Which would be more helpful
to you right now?
Which would be more helpful
for the world to witness being
modeled to them?
***
Prayer for the Day
Support my efforts to remain
empty today and no longer
pick my humanity up and
run with it.
Amen
***
04/06/2026
Thought for the Day
I hear so many folks complaining
on a daily basis about all the gut-
wrenching things which are
happening in our world.
Just when it is felt that things
cannot get any worse, life
turns around and shows you
that indeed they can.
There is so much upheaval,
chaos and uncertainty
in these times.
How can it not feel overwhelming
and challenging if the only laws
you live by are the laws which
govern this world?
Just a little reminder today...
If you are experiencing the world
as the ego, you are experiencing
the world inauthentically, and it is
to the very laws that keep this
house of cards afloat to which you
adhere and have given your faith.
But if you are witnessing the world
as the love, light and presence which
you forever are, you are experiencing
the world authentically; for it is the
laws of God to which you have
consecrated your heart in the blessed
assurance that it is here and only
here that you receive your daily bread.
Safety is born of truth, not of lies.
Never forget that you incarnated at
this particular time in human history
so that you might be a keeper of the
flame.
Never that presence more deeply
shared or felt than when you
experience your life as only you can---
authentically.
A few months ago I wrote a thought
which asked you to see, feel or experience,
through the faculty of imagination,
yourself unzipping a zipper which begins
at the crown of your head and extends
all the way to your feet.
When you notice that you are again lost
in the experience of your humanity,
feel yourself unzipping the humanity
suit and stepping out of it.
Notice how light you feel without
the heaviness and density of the
burden of wearing it, rather than
the activity of simply observing it.
You came here to usher in a new way
of being human.
That way of experiencing yourself is
the way of genuine authenticity;
experiencing yourself as soul whilst
seeing the humanity you are wearing
in this lifetime as a humble vehicle
through which you can consciously
touch the lives of others.
Not because there is anything wrong
with experiencing life as a human,
but why settle for the finite, which is
fraught with challenges and limitations;
ups and downs and constant curve balls
when you least expect them, when you
were born to experience your life as a
keeper of the flame and consciously
live your life as the light of the world?
***
Prayer for the Day
May I never forget my
purpose in this life; to
live as a witness of the
truth which never
changes.
Not through words,
but as a living and
undeniable presence
or demonstration of
the truth which is
always true.
Amen
***
04/05/2026
Thought for the Day
May this Easter be entirely
unlike any other Easter
that you have ever experienced.
May this be the day in which
you wax bold and embrace
the risen Christ within you.
Recognizing that not a single
blade of grass, nor flower,
no face you look upon, nor a
single thing in all creation
which does not share this
same Identity.
Long have you searched for
truth, for peace, for a love
without demand.
And today you find it.
The search is over.
Recognizing that it was and
always has been your own self
for which you searched,
yearned, ached and prayed.
Today you come home to
your very self.
The Door is open.
Long have you hoped to
find a way in, longing to be
welcomed home by your
most holy Self.
Long has your most holy Self
waited for your return, to
welcome you home.
Here you recognize that the
only price of admission has
always been the willingness
to acknowledge that you are
the risen Christ, the beloved
child of the Most High.
Welcome home, dear one,
welcome home.
Allow the light of the risen
Christ to thoroughly saturate
all of your atoms, molecules
and particles.
For you are that LIGHT which
illuminates the entire Universe.
Here you are!
Here you have always been!
A part of this as much as this
has always been and ever yet
shall be a part of you.
For you are the complete and
completed fully risen Christ..
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you that my time of
dreaming I am lost and
separated are now over.
For I am That for which I have
search.....yesterday, today
and forever.
Amen
***
04/04/2026
Thought for the Day
Several people sent emails or
texted this week, complaining
of feeling extremely hot and/or
sweaty, for no particular reason
which was obvious to them
upon investigation, while also
experiencing a burning sensation
in the center of their chest.
Some thought they should
go to the doctor for medication
to treat heartburn, while
others thought for sure that
they were experiencing early
signs of an impending heart
attack.
Calm down.
Relax...
And rejoice!
Not everything you experience
is a commentary on the state
of the body's health!
The inner flame is awakening
within you!
Lord Krishna said the following
to Arjuna in the Mahabharata
as they were preparing to cross
the battlefield:
"We are about to enter an era of
darkness together, and all we
have with us is the small light
which you are carrying.
If your heart breaks, or becomes
bitter or numb, that light will be-
come lost to you.
What will you do?"
I have two questions for you:
(1) Is not the night of which
Krisha speaks a fair description
of the decade in which we now
find ourselves living?
(2) Is it not a beautiful thing to
know that you have been chosen
to be a keeper of the flame in this
particular decade for the sake of
all humanity?
What a GIFT!!!
What a GIFT....
Your assignment is quite easy
today.
Simply notice what increases
your awareness of this flame
and what decreases your
awareness of it.
In addition, what do you notice
when you make watching the flame
a high priority in the midst of living
your life?
This is all.
May the force be with you,
for indeed it always is.
***
Prayer for the Day
Burn me to ashes, Lord,
that my awareness might be
raised to Infinity and there
abide in Thee unceasingly.
For I would know that I am
GIFT.
Amen
***
04/03/2026
Thought for the Day
So the day-to-day practice of
how I consciously choose to
live my life is what I refer to
as threading the needle.
Back and forth, with the ease
and grace of a artistic or
synchronized swimmer in a
water ballet, I flow in this
state of inner alignment
with the soul and that of being
the loving and always available
presence who attends to the
human being and her experience
as it arises in the midst of whatever
is happening there.
This is my living amends to
myself for having ignored
my own experience for so long,
mistaking love for something
you find from others rather
than from yourself.
I am not, for a single instant,
saying I ever did anything
wrong.
I did what I thought I had to
do in order to survive, mistaking
who and what I was for the mis-
created self.
That, too, was the soul's journey.
But I love being given both
the time and the opportunity
to make it up to myself.
Decades of lonliness and aloneness,
suffering and chaos, gaslighting
and self-abnegation are at last
seeing the light of day and feeling
the warmth of the sunlight of
the spirit.
It is no simple thing to consciously
choose to stay with yourself
when things are difficult, providing
yourself safety and attention which
is steadfast yet gentle.
I trust myself.
For I have proven myself to be
committed, consistent, loyal and
100% unconditional in my
devotion to myself.
My life is thus profoundly slow
and reflective. awareness is aware
of itself.
You cannot do this work if you
are constantly on the move,
living your life at Mach 12 with
your hair on fire.
Every day I watch people talking on
the cell phone while driving,
in the check out line, in the parking
lot, ever racing from here to there.
Frantic, overwhelmed, looking like
tweakers in Wally World at 2:00 AM,
is it any wonder you do not know the
sweetness of soul?
The activity of the body is reflective
of the frenetic nature of the mind.
Rarely do they experience quiet
moments where the nervous system
is given the opportunity to unwind.
Simplicity, sweetness, gentleness,
and profound care are the new
name of the game.
You cannot catch that thread on
the run.
Nothing more is required.
But nothing less will do.
***
Prayer for the Day
Reveal to me in the day-to-day
of life what it means to be
my own true blue bestie.
Amen
***
04/02/2026
Thought for the Day
Yesterday I left you to look at
the following questions:
Do I have an ‘I know’ state
of mind?
Do I try to bring truth to a mind
which thinks it already knows?
Am I trying to bring the truth to
the illusion of myself, or am I
bringing the illusion of myself
to the truth?
This line of questioning is not about
whether or not you deceive and
limit yourself in this way, because
the truth is that we all do it or
have done it.
The question that we all need to be
willing to ask ourselves is, “How
do I do this?”
Keep in mind we are not asked
to fix or change anything at
all.
I received the most diverse responses
and reactions to yesterday's thought
which ranged from gratitude to
anger, and some folks actually went
down the rabbit hole to be swallowed
up by guilt and despair.
So let me repeat something which
I have often said.
I am not capable of making you
feel anything.
Your feelings are your feelings.
They are your responsibility, not
mine.
Each message is thus a gift.
We are simply asked to see
ourselves with a bit more clarity
and honesty with each new day.
For we cannot experience a
peace which is stable if we are
constantly pulling the wool over
our own eyes.
Remember the old saying?
Denial ain't a river in Egypt.
If our eyes and our heart's are
not open, rather than experiencing
peace in the midst of all situations
and times, we inevitably find our-
selves still riding the proverbial
emotional roller coaster.
Peace is not something you try to
be when things are tough, peace
is your natural state.
Thus suffering in the presence of
other feelings reflect identification
with what you are not.
So what is the razor's edge we
are looking for in our day-to-day
lives?
The conscious willingness to see
ourselves with increasingly more
clarity and charity.
Instead of making ourselves
wrong, or trying to make
someone else wrong, we are
deeply present to all of our
experiences, realizing that
nothing can replace awareness +
gentleness + compassion +
respect + kindness.
You are here to be the human
being that you are and to
experience your life as only
you can and do.
But whether that life is a peaceful
one, a loving one and a kind one,
or one which is fraught with
restlessness, uncertainty and chaos
depends on the constant willingness
to remain aligned, empty, humble
and open.
When we can be with ourselves
and our experience lovingly with
increasing commitment and
consistency, the rewards will
speak volumes all by themselves.
***
Prayer for the Day
No matter what life holds,
I know my experience will
always be great because
I am the one who can choose
to be constantly and
consistently consciously aware
in the midst of every what is.
No one gets to determine
that but me.
Amen
***
04/01/2026
Thought for the Day
Recently I have written on the
subject of what the Bhagavad
Gita says are the two greatest
impediments to the path of a
true seeker:
(1) Attachment to the effort.
(2) Attachment to the fruits
of the effort.
But I feel that there is an
impediment which is far more
pivotal.
The 'I know' state of mind.
I'm with the Tibetan lamas
on this one. Sorry Krishna.
You cannot share anything with
anyone who thinks they already
know or understand.
And because they think they know,
they already feel they stand head's
above the crowd of other seekers.
I have several people in my life
right now who are just like that.
Sometimes it is tiresome to be
around them.
I find the saddest thing of all
is that they do not see it.
Thankfully, I know it is not my
job to help them see it.
Look, listen and smile....
That's about as far as I take it
these days.
They, too, are on the soul's
perfect journey, it's just not
the one they think they are
on, unfortunately.
Because they think they already
know, that they have had enough
direct contact under their belt
that proves that they now see
clearly, they cannot see how
what they think they know is
actually getting in their way.
And they most certainly do not
see the arrogance of that.
They cannot see that day after day,
they try to bring whatever nugget
of truth that comes their way to
the spiritual ego, thus they are
adding to the ego's spiritual identity.
This is why I love meeting people
who were not raised with any
particular spiritual religion or
tradition, people who never had
a guru, no experience as a disciple
and are happily without dogma,
rituals and spiritual bias.
Those belief systems are not there
to get in the way of their freedom.
Sure, they have the same old
angst and suffering from their
conditioning and programming
just like everyone else, but they
lack the belief systems that make
them continuously try to bring
truth to their illusions because
they cannot part with tired and
worn out beliefs and practices
which are no longer helpful, they
have outlived their usefulness,
their heyday, their time in the sun.
They cannot see that every single
so-called realization is filtered
through the spiritual ego and is
therefore, biased, and not that.
They are entirely oblivious to
the fact that they are trying to
bring the truth to the illusion
of themselves and what the
persona thinks it knows and
has accepted as truth.
The spiritual identity, which replaced
the former identity, now thinks and
deeply believes that it already knows.
However, they have simply written
another chapter in the book entitled,
"More About Myself."
My dear, it is what you think you
know that limits you!
We have to approach this journey
without distance to a goal which
we never left each day with a Zen
mind, a beginners mind, and an
open and empty heart which knows
that it knows nothing, knows that
it understands nothing.
Here is one who is both teachable
and reachable.
Anything short of this is pissing in
the wind.
How ready are you to see that
all your spiritual seeking thus far
has ever really gotten you is to
deliver you to this very moment.
That was its intended purpose.
Now it is time to drop every bit
of it, to drop everything and
be entirely empty and humble.
A blank slate.
Here is a canvas upon which
something truly liberating may
be written.
And with a entirely teachable,
vacant and hollowed out heart
say, "I am ready Lord. Show me
the way."
Your Forever Friend,
pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
Asato ma sadgamaya
tamaso ma jyotirgamaya
mrityuma amritam gamaya
om shanti, shanti, shantihi.
Lead me from the unreal
to the real.
Lead me from darkness to
light.
Lead me from death to
Immortality.
Om... May peace be, may
peace be, may peace be.
Amen
***