
Thought for the Day - 6/26
06/30/2026
Thought for the Day
Our daily conversations for the past
couple of weeks have explored
the necessity of genuine empathy.
It is a remarkable gift to give to the
world. But it is an even more
remarkable gift to give to oneself.
And although we have included
you in your work with empathy,
the practice, for the most part,
has placed the focus of your
attention more on having great
empathy and compassion for others,
recognizing each is showing you
something priceless which you
have need to see about yourself.
Throughout all of this exploration,
you have not recognized, for the
most part, how much of your daily
experience of being you is a never
ending stream of reactions to your
reactions, how quick you are to nit
pick with yourself, make yourself
wrong, take a strident tone with
yourself as you judge your failure
and unworthiness, being rude and
cruel, impatient, tactless, or other-
wise mean spirited toward yourself.
Is it any wonder that you do not
trust yourself?
I had two different people tell me
yesterday that they do not trust
themselves.
I would not trust myself either,
given how absolutely ugly and
unpredictable they can be with
themselves!
So today, you are asked to turn
the lens of your perception directly
on yourself.
Be very slow today.
See if you can be so attuned with
your inner experience of life
that the world ceases to exist.
Feel yourself totally honed in
upon you and your experience of
life.
And for every single subtlety of
emotion or feeling you experience,
providing a safe and spacious
place for you to land.
Can you provide yourself a space
where you can feel entirely seen,
heard and loved, cherished and
supported through every experience
without a single instant of judgment,
condemnation, attack, disregard,
impatience or frustration?
You see, beloved, when you were
busy living your life at ninety to
nothing, you did not have time to
navigate your experiences with
kindness or to integrate the feelings
when they arose for you so the body
had no choice but to stuff them all
back down, saved for some time
later.
And then you acted surprised when
the volcano erupted, which it would
inevitably do when too much became
way too much, wondering to yourself
where in the hell did that come
from?
And all those aches and pains and
bone jarring fatigue you have been
feeling lately?
Beloved, there is a lifetime of unfelt
feelings within you which await
your embrace.
Experiencing lots of difficult and
challenging stuff does not mean
that you are doing something
wrong.
It means that you are doing some-
thing right.
For the first time in your life, you are
learning how to be there for you.
You are being the loved one, the friend,
the soothsayer that you wish you had
had when you were small.
You are giving yourself the time and the
place to be the most extraordinary
person that you have in your life.
You are learning what it feels like to be
your own treasure and to crave alone
time with yourself more than you do with
any other human being on this planet.
If you keep with this practice, you will
inevitably get to the place where it no
longer matters to you what happens
next in your life because you know you
will navigate every experience in exactly
the same way, as the one who loves
and supports you like no other person
in this world ever could.
You are destined to become your own
hero.
Have fun practicing today.
And as always, lets the results speak
for themselves.
Trust no one and nothing beyond
your own direct experience and you
will never again feel the rug being
pulled out from beneath your feet.
May your day be as beautiful as you
are, my dear, and may you discover
the treasure you have searched for
all of your life has been none other
than your own beating heart.
***
Prayer for the Day
I am the one and only upon whom
I await.
Look no further, beloved of my
heart of hearts...
I am here for you.
And I vow that from this moment
forward, I will always be.
Amen
***
06/29/2026
Thought for the Day
Let's stay with yesterday's practice
and take it a step deeper.
Even you would have to admit that
one day is hardly sufficient to work
with judgment.
Can we, myself included, notice
the difference between trying to
transcend the human experience
and that of allowing yourself to
embody the state of transcendence
within your humanity, no personal
doership required?
Do you feel the difference between
the two?
Most lack the subtlety of awareness
or the level of self honesty (both of
which are required) to be able to
distinguish the difference between
them.
One is about escaping your humanity
while the other is about you giving
yourself complete and irrevocable
permission to genuinely be you.
And only you, my dear, can be
honest enough with yourself to see
through the chicanery the created
self uses in a not-so-subtle ploy
to pull the wool over your eyes.
Practice feeling all of your humanity;
mind, emotions and body as if it were
an open door.
Can you consciously choose to open
that door wider and wider with each
new experience and keep it open?
Challenge yourself.
We are actually talking about two
different things.
(1)
Can you accept all of your humanity,
as it is, without reservation?
(2)
Can you give yourself complete and
irrevocable permission to be genuinely
and authentically you at all times?
Because the truth is that nothing short
of this can be said to be the actualized
state.
***
Prayer for the Day
This is me, world.
Hair, guts, feathers and all.
I am not here for your approval.
I am here for God.
Amen
***
06/28/2026
Thought for the Day
That LIGHT, which many refer to
as GOD, is so scintillating, so
effulgent, so immaculate, that it
does not cast any shadow.
Can you imagine looking at
freshly fallen snow on a cloudless
day at 12 Noon without sunglasses?
This is the light which illuminates
the entire universe and from which
the Unmanifest begot all form.
Utterly blinding and entirely
absorbing that light of lights is
to gaze upon for even a fraction
of a second.
No one is capable of imagining
such brilliance, for the only way
to truly know of it is to experience
it directly.
This is the light of lights, the
foundation of all things, including
yourself, beloved...
Here, in this light of lights, let us
speak of humility.
Humility is the ability to look upon
all of oneself with complete and
utter transparency and to accept
what is seen and felt without flinching
or diverting one's gaze.
This, beloved, is how precious you are,
how completely and deeply you
are loved, accepted and adored.
In that light which casts no shadow,
can you look upon yourself without
turning away, without contracting,
without distracting yourself, can you
look upon ALL there is to see of you,
returning only radical, unconditional
acceptance, gentleness and love?
No one knows anything of FREEDOM
until they can.
Nor can one say they truly know them-
selves until they can.
For only this can be said to heal.
Not in the sense that it changes
anything, for how could love be love
if it were not entirely unconditional,
if it held a single expectation or
judgment of any kind for anything?
LOVE returns nothing short of
everything to that Light from
whence it came.
This is love. This is healing.
What of this earth could ever matter
to you again after that?
What of this earth could ever disturb
the peace in which you reside?
For you has unraveled the greatest
mystery in the entire Universe.
There is no more searching for God
ever again after that.
For you have disappeared entirely
within that Being beyond which
there is nothing else.
Nothing to say and no one to say it.
For here, even to speak of one is
too much...
Assignment:
Practice seeing, accepting and loving
yourself in this light.
Are you brave enough to rest here
for a while?
***
Prayer for the Day
This heart is finally beginning to
grasp what loving oneself actually
means.
May I hold myself and all things
manifest in this light.
Amen
***
06/27/2026
Thought for the Day
Throughout the years we have
had several thoughts that circled
around two rather specific
Sanskrit words: dukha and
sukha.
Dukha means suffering and
sukha refers to the end of
suffering.
But the interesting thing about
these two words is that the
word dukha refers to a wagon wheel
that has become stuck in a rut.
While sukha means to un-stick
the wheel.
There is no such thing as a fixed
sense of self.
Yet isn't that what the personal
self is, a fixed sense of self which
owes its seeming life to our belief
in it?
Kept alive, in our minds, through
the repetition of habits, patterns
and behaviors born of our
conditioning?
Like the wagon wheel stuck in the
rut, this fixed sense of identity
is the sufferer who seeks validation
through victim consciousness or
by seeking false forms of external
power, success and dominion.
This false sense of self that is the
experiencer of our lives, it believes
that it is the doer that is living us.
Yet at all times this fixed sense of
self, this personal identity, is also
a doorway or portal into a different
kind of experience of self.
And that experience is that of the
self as soul.
Here we find a living presence of
the most beatific and effulgent
golden light.
Once encountered, we discover
the real Doer of our lives and
nothing is ever the same for us
again.
Oh, the actors which populate our
lives and our circumstances
remain much the same.
But our lives are now founded on
the bedrock of everlasting peace
and trust is our ever present friend.
For one moves from finite and limited
to Infinite and Unlimited.
What is it that allows one to walk
through that door?
One thing...
When you can, with great tender-
ness and empathy, accept the
perfection of everyone's journey,
including your own, laying down
the weapon of judgment once and
for all, you are ushered right on
through that door and here is
where your real life begins.
So that is what you are asked to
work with today, the suspension
of judgment.
The greatest thing about this
human experience, is that you
are not asked to do this consistently
for 8.4 billion people.
You are asked to do this for one
person: yourself.
And since you actually are the doer
of nothing, you realize that the
most you can bring to the table
is sincerity and permission.
Once experienced, the realization
extends beyond you to all living
things and to this world itself.
For once you have become truly
willing to embrace all of your
humanity, exactly as it is, forgoing
the need for any part of it to be
different, you are free.
Happy practicing.
And may every sincere effort
to embody FREEDOM be blessed.
***
Prayer for the Day
I am tired of fighting.
I am so weary of leading with my
dukes up, ever ready to lay
someone's race out for them,
judging the shit out of everyone
and everything, especially
myself.
transparency
open acceptance
tenderness
genuine empathy
gentleness
kindness
eyes which truly see
and a spacious heart.
May these qualities live me
today.
Amen
***
06/26/2026
Thought for the Day
I have a truly dear and precious
friend who has a sister who
has been battling cancer for at
least the past 20 years, and
it has probably been longer than
that.
This sister recently learned from
those conducting the most recent
study that that she has been
participating in that the treatment
she was receiving was not working,
and so her doctors were going to
search for studies closer to home.
I have watched the desperation and
the agony that this family has
faced together during this journey,
and the sheer determination to
overcome every obstacle along
the way. This they have done
together in unity and solidarity.
Many times I have felt them as they
hovered in a state of limbo while
they waited for yet another study
that might buy them a little more
time.
This incredible ordeal has left me
scratching my head more often
than not.
I truly want to understand people,
what motivates them, why they do
what they do.
I love how Ram Dass used to say
that we were all "God in drag."
And my questions are not because
I lack compassion or empathy, I
would just like to understand why.
Who has the power to change the
destiny of these body's?
Why cling so desperately to these
fragile vehicles?
Do we actually believe that this is
what we are supposed to do, that
this is what God expects from us?
Why continually battle for more
and more time?
I am not trying to be insensitive
or obtuse.
I assure you that I am quite sincere,
but I am having so much difficulty
understanding why people are driven
to do what they do.
We all know and have accepted the
truth that we are always on the
soul's journey and that we cannot
mess it up, but as I see it, I would
rather live well than live long.
I want to make the most of every
single instant of this human journey
which has been mine to live, but
when quantity outweighs quality,
what is the point?
Isn't it more important to know that
you have lived your life in a constant
state of surrender?
That "Thy will be done" has become
a way of life. It is the North Star which
you joyfully follow and you wouldn't
have it any other way?
Where does acceptance and trust
fit into the equation?
Sometimes we fixate so desperately
on how we think our lives should be,
that we forget the miracle that we
are living right now.
As for me, I could pretty much care
less about what happens in the
future or even if there is a future.
Because the truth is, I know that
I am a living miracle, and every
single moment of my life has been
and is a gift.
And I realized a long time ago that
what I had been so fervently and
desperately searching for all along
was myself, not more time.
And here I was.
I had been here all along, waiting
in the wings for me to slow down
long enough to open my eyes and
my heart so that I could receive.
And isn't that the measuring stick
we should all be living by every
single day and every moment of
each day as long as we are here?
And when it is time for me to exit
stage left, God grant me the courage
to say "I am ready, Lord. Thank
you. Thy will be done."
"I place this moment and all moments
in the hands of God and I give my
whole heart to whatever comes next."
***
Prayer for the Day
Thank you for my life.
It truly has been a remarkable
gift and I recognize that my
gratitude will never be enough
to communicate the immensity
of what this heart feels for having
been given such a extraordinary
opportunity.
Amen
***
06/25/2026
Thought for the Day
I am on vacation this week.
I do not take a vacation from
life when I take a week off.
Nor do I stop sharing the
thoughts for each day.
And generally speaking, I do
not travel anywhere either.
But I do stop the usual day-to-
day activities, and I take the
time to seriously focus on
self care, rest and relaxation.
Tuesday afternoon I took myself
to see the new Steven Spielberg
movie, "Disclosure Day."
I was curious to see what all the
hype and controversy was all
about.
And you know what?
I absolutely loved the movie.
I highly reccoment that you see
it. Not because of the presence
of aliens on earth, for which our
government has lied to us for
over 75 years, but because of the
most profound demonstration
of empathy that I have ever
experienced.
That, my dears, quite literally took
my breath away and stopped
time itself.
I thought they were going to
have to defibrillate my heart
in order to get it to start
beating again!
Because of this truly remarkable
experience, I am giving you two
assignments for today.
(1) Go see this movie if you have
not done so already. I promise
you that it will be the best money
that you will ever spend on a
movie.
(2) Treat yourself and everyone
you encounter today as if they
truly matter.
Because they do matter, more
than you (more than likely) will
ever comprehend in this lifetime.
See if you can pause and listen
and care so deeply that you too
can see into the depths of your
own heart or that of another's
and connect with them so
intentionally, so deliberately
and so completely that you
quite literally inhabit them.
For this is the definition and
experience of the holy instant,
in the truest sense of the word.
A Course in Miracles teaches that
every moment is a holy moment
and every encounter is a holy
encounter.
I thought I had understood the
meaning of that, but Tuesday,
I really and truly got it, for the
first time ever.
Treat everyone, regardless of who
they are or what they are doing,
as if no one one on this planet
matters more to you in this moment
than do they.
And can you treat yourself this
way too?
I promise you, you have not even
begun to tap into what true empathy
looks like and feels like, but if you
go to this movie, you will have a
undeniably palpable felt experience
of genuine empathy that will leave
you a profoundly changed person.
Not changed in terms of your
personal identity.
But changed in the sense of minus
a personal identity!
Please take me up on this challenge.
I promise, you won't regret it.
And if you care to share your experience
with me, I would be deLIGHTed to
go deeper into my experience with
you as well.
Call, text or email.
It is certainly guaranteed to be an
evolving experience for you, as mine
has most certainly been.
And this is one movie I will actually
purchase when it becomes available.
I have slowed down even more
because of this movie and plan
to keep with the practice.
Why?
Because I have an entirely different
experience of the state of presence.
You came here to be the light of the
world.
Don't you think it is high time you
began to explore just what that
means?
***
Prayer for the Day
Love is the answer to every
question, the secret longing
of every beating heart.
Love, how may I best serve
you today?
Please show me the way.
Amen
***
06/24/2026
Thought for the Day
Here is where you became confused
and everything was a slippery slope
after that...
Don't ever question the validity of
your expression.
Don't ever buy into someone else's
judgment of you when they question
your expression.
Don't ever question the validity of
someone else's expression.
What makes truth true is the fact that
it cannot change. It is the same yesterday,
today and forever.
And the validity of all expression is
a fundamental truth that is not
up for debate nor is it subject to either
change or question.
We are each reacting and responding
to ourselves as well as to life itself
according to our design.
Your emotions are perfect. They are
the very ones you are meant to be
experiencing.
Your feelings are perfect. They also
are according to design.
Your thoughts are perfect. They are
the very ones you are meant to be
experiencing.
Your body is perfect. It is the precise
vehicle that you are meant to have
in order to experience your life.
The life situations and experiences
which you have had and will continue
to experience during the course of this
life were not mistakes either.
They were the ones that you were
supposed to have, and the way in
which you experienced them was
also according to your design.
If anything were meant to be different,
it would be.
The confusion happened when you
begin to question all of that, when
other people made you question
that.
You were trained to question the
validity of every expression, to be
critical of yours as well as everyone
else's.
From this arose judgment, guilt,
shame and every other manner
of suffering.
So this is your practice for today.
Can you inwardly bow before
every experience and every
expression, whether yours
or someone else's, knowing that
it is perfect as it is?
If you feel irritated, you were
supposed to feel irritated.
If someone judges you, they were
meant too. Can you smile at
their criticism and accept the
validity of your expression as
well as theirs?
The peace which passes all under-
standing is the fruit of such
radical acceptance.
When you can stop questioning the
validity of any expression, trusting
that an Intelligence far greater
than yours designed you and everyone
else for that matter, that It created
all that is, and that this Intelligence
never questions the validity of
the expression of any of it's creation,
then you will have made PEACE
your own and changeless FREEDOM
will be yours.
***
Prayer for the Day
I bow before the Isness of what is
as it is.
I yam what I yam.
You are what you are supposed to be
and how you are supposed to be.
And life is good when I don't make
myself or anyone else wrong.
Amen
***
06/23/2026
Thought for the Day
There is no shortage of angry, bitter
and frustrated people on this
planet, living their lives at mach 12
with their hair on fire.
Self absorbed, for sure...
But truly caring for anyone?
The answer is no one, not even
themselves...
Nor is there a shortage of one's
living in victim consciousness,
absorbed in their stories of trauma,
blame and self pity.
Oh, and how about the megalomaniacs,
one's absorbed with power, wealth and
cruelty, who never bother to think
beyond their own petty little lives?
And there most certainly is no shortage
on selfish and self-centered assholes.
We each encounter our fair share of
them each day and this may well be
a fair description for you, my dear,
if you are being truly honest with
yourself.
What do you want your legacy to be?
Do you ever pause to reflect on
your answer to that question?
Because the truth is, you are living
it right now.
If you were to die today, what would
people have to say about you and
the life which you have lived?
Is the world a better place, a kinder
place, a more loving place because
you were here?
***
Prayer for the Day
Today is a good day for more solitude
and quiet introspection.
What do I want my legacy to be,
and is that what I am living now?
Let me remain heart and breath
focused today as I create space
in my life to reflect on these things.
Amen
***
06/22/2026
Thought for the Day
Today we practice.
How would we know any suggestion's
worth to us if it has never been
field tested?
If it has not been thoroughly practiced
in the day to day of life and by thus,
demonstrated its usefulness, value
and dependability?
We trust ourselves now.
And we let all results speak for them-
selves.
If something does not work,
and by work I mean provide
measurable effects, why hang
onto it?
If something causes palpable distress
and is a clear disturbance in the force
for us while engaging with it, that is
the only sign we need to know that
it belongs in the circular file, along
with all the other things which we have
tried and which failed, for it has proven
itself to be a delay mechanism which
generates anxiety and is therefore
ruinous to peace.
Life is not a test which we may pass
or fail based on how long we can
endure states of pain and suffering.
If it does not bring you joy, why
waste any further time with it?
It is simply demonstrating to us
what is worthy of our time and
energy and what is not.
Here is the suggested practice:
Treat your emotions, mind and
especially your body with reverence,
kindness, love and respect.
Your vehicle is very, very important.
For without it, a human life is
impossible.
You are not used to treating every
aspect of your humanity with
such mindful kindness and
tenderness, but it is necessary to
remember how valuable the body
truly is to you.
Love the emotions and feelings you
experience.
Love the thoughts and beliefs, the
judgments and opinions that the
mind offers.
And treat the body you have with
the reverence, gratitude and tenderness
it is due.
Your body is not something to merely
tolerate, to treat with either contempt,
disdain or disrespect.
It is a treasure which affords you every
moment of every day a plethora of
experiences.
The world cannot and does not offer
you freedom. agency and autonomy,
but this the body can.
The world does not offer you freely
the experience of joy, a sense of
wonder, awe or peace but the body
offers you the perfect means whereby
you can experience all of these things
while in this world, yet not of it.
The highest and grandest of all human
experiences is to be able to fully
embody truth.
Love the body you have, not the one
you wish you had, and let the results
speak for themselves.
What happens when I treat the body
with love and respect?
This is the opportunity which only
the body that you have offers you.
And it is only your embodied demonstration
which the world hears. For your life
is your message, never the words which
you speak.
***
Prayer for the Day
Feeling such reverence, awe and
gratitude for this body and
every experience which has
happened while in this body,
even all the struggle, the trauma
and the pain.
For without it, I would not be
who I am and where I am today.
Hear then my solemn vow...
With whatever time I have left
in this life, I will treat ALL of
this vehicle with the kindness
and respect which are its due.
With great joy I give it thanks
and may every act directed toward
it bear the markings of loving-
kindness, reverence and gratitude
it so richly deserves.
Dearest body, I take refuge in the
beautiful golden heart in which
I can so readily abide in this life
because of you and for this I give
you thanks.
For without you, there would be no
way to embody anything in this
world.
Amen
***
06/21/2026
Thought for the Day
Whether you happen to believe that
any day is anymore significant
than any other matters not.
Nonetheless, today is auspicious.
It is both Father's Day and the
Summer Solstice.
So let us take advantage of the
wonderful insights you have
gathered during the last few
days, riding the wave of energy
that this day is revealing, just
seeing where it takes us, while
at the same time, making today
a day of rest, relaxation and
watchfulness.
See if you can be like a fly on
the wall. Quietly observe the
world and it's contents as they
move around you in their own
particular rhythm and cadence.
Make a quick mental note of all
the many ways you observe people
caught up in the activity of
hustle and game.
Look about you at the level of
energy and life force one has to
expend to keep all the plates
they have got spinning in the air,
which they must keep spinning
no matter what, in order to secure
the interest, approval and financial
gain they and their loved ones
need in order to feel safe and
secure in a world which cares not
and can turn on you for no reason
at all in any given moment.
The level of high alert, paranoia and
defensiveness one has to maintain
in order to feel safe and in control
makes my heart bleed.
No one is real with anyone.
Everyone is playing the game.
You must work this many hours and
produce this many fixes in order
to prove your worth to us and earn
your paycheck.
You have to have this many things
going on the side in order to make
this additional amount of cash.
You have to look like this, have this
shape of body, wear this particular
item of clothing, dye your hair this
particular color, drive this particular
car, and you must be someone that
everyone looks up to and wants
to be...
Remember our Tibetan word,
shenpa, which means to bite
the hook?
Can you see how they, all those
crazy people who have bitten the
hook, actually believe that it all
depends on them?
You see it e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e...
Don't you feel a measure of gratitude
that this isn't you anymore?
You used to be just another cog
in that wheel and thank god, you
got the hell off of that hamster
wheel.
And it was hell, wasn't it?
Remember when you used to believe
that having game and hustle were
the most admirable qualities one could
possess in this world?
You actually believed all that hype
and malarky.
It is exhausting to watch it all as it
is unfolding all around you, whether
it is from the preacher in the pulpit
or observing what one has to do in
order to secure their particular
position within their own family unit.
Can you not see the hustle and game
that lies beneath every single "you
need to use this particular product,"
"take this magic potion," "go to
this restaurant," "see this particular
movie," "take this particular form
of fungus," and "be sure to have
at least this many followers on your
particular social media feed?"
Aren't you sick and tired of it all?
The only person on this planet with
whom you can have an utterly
transparent and vulnerable relation-
ship is with yourself, beloved.
Where else can you feel both love
and genuine acceptance?
With whom else can you let your hair
down and just be you, knowing
you will not be judged, but rather,
met with unconditional positive
regard, gentleness and kindness?
So today, cherish the fact that, as we
said yesterday, you got you babe.
And that makes you one fortunate
human being on a planet of 8 billion,
each of whom are doing their own
thing on this tiny blue dot in the midst
of a Cosmos which is quite literally
beyond measure.
May your day be beautiful and may
the FORCE be with you...
For you are the unsung hero of your
own unfolding.
So get out there and sing it, and bump
it with a trumpet while you are at it,
will you?
And if no one else on this planet sees
it or gets it, I see it.
I see it and I get it.
I see you.
And you are so beautiful that this heart
weeps crocodile tears of thankfulness
and joy because you are you.
You, beloved, shine like a star
in the universe, and I happen to love
how that looks on you.
What's not to love and adore?
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I see.
I see it and I get it.
Today I pause and breathe
and LOOK with clear eyes.
I'm gonna be authentically me
and I'm done with games.
I am so fortunate to be me
and I give thanks.
And I wouldn't trade my life for
anyone else's for all the tea
in China.
Amen
***
06/20/2026
Thought for the Day
Peace Part II
(conclusion)
Yesterday we began by asserting
the premise that everyone on
this planet is looking for peace,
happiness and a sense of fulfill-
ment.
We all have different ideas about
what will bring this to us, so
in that sense there are elements
which are quite specific to each
of our particular searches.
Why, even over the course of
our particular lifetime, that
search has been ever evolving!
We each could see and were
able to admit that we have tried
so many things over the course
of our lives in search of peace.
Regardless of how we went about
it, each of our searches have had
one commonality; and that is
codependency.
And from our previous thoughts,
you know that codependency
is all about chasing a feeling and
the misbelief that someone or
something has something which
you do not.
I do not care what it is that you
believe will fulfill that essential
lack that you feel inside.
The point is that you have set
your eyes and your heart on
the acquisition of something.....
Some one or some thing which
we believe will fill that hole,
be it the perfect relationship,
a drug or alcohol, or a brand
new whatever...
What is the promise you will
chase today?
What will narcotize you sufficently
and provide that feeling whereby
you can roll over, hit the snooze
button and go back to sleep?
Because now we are talking about
the cycle of addiction which is
fueling the codependency.
We are like demigods; wanting,
craving, needing, chasing,
desiring...
We are talking about the will to
conquer and possess.
That is why more, better and
different never work. We have all
been chasing a feeling state out-
side of us our entire lives.
Look at the biggest lie this world
sells you and you chase that carrot
to your very last breath...
Buy this, attain that, accomplish
this, and we promise that you will
feel ________ .
And you do feel it for a short while
and then the newness wears off and
you begin your next search for what
you believe will do it for you based on
that promised feeling state.
Now the loop you are caught in just
keeps repeating itself ad nauseum.
You are trapped in the devil's snare,
trading the pig you have for the
elephant you don't.
Again and again and yet again you
jump out of the frying pan into the
fire.
One person is convinced that a job
will provide them the feeling that
they believe they are missing.
The next person believes it is a
financial windfall they have long
been hoping for.
Another, the soul mate of their heart
of hearts....
Whether it is this new face cream,
this vitamin, this drink, this designer,
that new car, this plastic surgery,
that new diet, this drug, that exercise
program, this whatever.
You get the picture...
We are trying to fill that hole and
the world is promising us the
road to fulfillment.
"And all it will cost you is _____ ."
This religion...
That church...
This new teacher...
That book...
The list of promised options
is legion.
But honey, you are forgetting one
important thing which you must
never ever forget...
The only person on this planet
that can be the source of your love,
peace and happiness is you.
You are the custodian and caretaker
of your own inner state of being.
And anything you acquire which
is based on someone or something
outside of you is doomed from
the start.
It cannot give you that feeling
state you are searching for because
that feeling state exists nowhere
on this planet but inside of
your very own heart.
And all the crazy, whack-a-doodle
all-over-the-map skittishness
disappears in a heart beat the
very instant that you choose you.
And the day that you get that
you are the Source of Everything
and therefore begin to prioritize
yourself, the world will no longer
be able to manipulate and entice
you into biting the hook ever again.
If you are reading this, you should
be having your own light bulb
moment right about now.
So I will end this thought today
with a blessing...
May today be the day that you
earnestly choose yourself
for the first time in your entire
life.
May YOU be the place where you
draw your line in the sand and
proudly tell the world to take a
hike.
You are gonna go out there and
live your best life and you do not
need anyone or anything in order
to do it.
And why?
Because you got you babe....
I love you.
And I know I love you because
I love myself and you are a part of
me, just as I am part of you.
Have a beautiful weekend.
Pelkyong
***
Prayer for the Day
I complete myself.
Knowing this cuts out a lot of
needless spending, seeking,
searching, acquiring and looking.
All of that having less and wanting
more, better or different bullshit.
There is so much peace right now,
and for this my heart is filled
with gratitude.
Thank you for the gift of Clear
Seeing.
Amen
***
06/19/2026
Thought for the Day
If I had to try and narrow it all
down to the singular most significant
message of ACIM it would be this...
Everyone wants to know peace
and everyone is searching for it
in every single instant of their
lives.
One person may call it a partner,
someone special to spend their lives
with.
Another may call it a new luxury car,
the perfect home equipped with
all the latest and greatest.
Someone else is certain that it
may be found through unparalleled
personal wealth and financial
security.
While the next guy is sure it is
found through fame; having
the world adore them, verified
by the number of likes one gets
to their social media feed.
What does peace look like to you?
Where and how have you searched
for it over the course of this life?
Take a trip down memory lane
and reflect on all the many ways
that you have tried to find it, only
to be profoundly disappointed
in the end.
But you are so fortunate...
We live in the most astounding
time in human history.
The world is sick and tired of the
chaos, calamity and uncertainty.
No one trusts anyone anymore
because truth has become a
constantly moving target, fed by
AI and anything anyone happens
to say is true.
People are sticking to their own
lane, not because it happens to be
the only honest way to live one's
life, but because no one and
nothing feels safe or trustworthy
anymore.
The world is so ready for peace.
People everywhere are starting
to ask the big questions.
Why am I here?
What is the meaning of life?
And everyone; rich man, poor
man, beggar man and thief are
searching for some sense of
fulfillment in life in the midst
of all the insanity.
You, dear one, have a unique
opportunity.
People are deeply attracted to one
who is connected to their own
heart, who lives as soul, and who
abides in a state of unmistakable
peace.
You have learned that in any given
instant, you can come back to your
breath, and quickly find complete
harmony with the soul; the very
power which animates us all and is
the Source of everything.
The world has great need of you
as surely as your great need for
peace.
Will you say "Yes. I will answer
that call. I will be one of the many
who will dedicate their lives to
living soul-fully, I will dedicate
my life to peace."
Because in case you did not
recognize it, I am speaking to
you, beloved.
I am speaking to you.
What is your heart telling you?
***
Prayer for the Day
Here is my heart.
Take all of me.
No more agendas, no more lists
and no more plans.
From here on out it is,
Thy will be done through
me.
For this I was born.
I came to bring heaven to
earth.
Amen
***
06/18/2026
Thought for the Day
This week we began exploring
some of the ways in which
we deflect in order to avoid
the possibility of developing
a profound and intimate
relationship with ourselves.
This we all do or have done
whenever the ego has felt a loss
of control and threatened.
Human beings are not nearly
as unique as they would like to
believe.
For we are far more alike in our
egos than we would care to admit.
A defense is a fence which you
build around yourself so you do
not have to see.
Deflection being the most common.
After identifying some of our
personal favorites, the most
common ways in which we deflect,
we then worked with the intention
of seeing what we are doing to
ourselves while actively doing it.
Not that we might stop it, but so
we might try something new.
Can we soften, open and lean into
these parts of ourselves which have
never been consciously loved and
accepted by us?
And then can we bring so much
tenderness to this part of our being
which has become so contracted
and shut down, that it might
consciously open itself to the light?
Today we will look specifically at
at three of the most common ways
in which human beings deflect.
The most common of which is that
of talking over.
Here one raises their voice a bit
louder than the one he or she happens
to be engaging with and forcibly
takes full control of the conversation
in self defense in order to redirect
and make their point.
Next we have mindless chatter.
By bringing a level of superficiality
into the conversation, one can quite
easily prevent conversations from
taking on a more serious tone or
vulnerability, and by thus prevent
them from going deeper.
The third most common means of
deflection is crying.
This is a big one for many, for they
have convinced themselves that
their tears are a sign of their
sensitivity, earnestness and sincerity.
They are not.
They are, however, a means of ending
the conversation and getting everyone
to rally around you in support.
Tears rather effectively introduce
a log jam into any conversation
which is getting a little to close to
truth for comfort and immediately
stopping all flow.
Here one diverts all attention
toward themselves and by thus,
bring the conversation to an
immediate standstill.
Have you ever taken the time to
seriously look at what you are
doing and reflect upon the real
reason that you are doing it?
Today we will.
The bottom line about all defenses
is that you are afraid.
So today we make a fresh commitment
to ourselves.
And again, we are doing so in
order to bring clarity to what we are
doing, so we might bring love and
light to that particular part of our-
selves.
To know oneself one must first
learn to be objectively honest with
themselves.
And humility is the ability to be honest
with yourself about yourself.
Humility is tender, kind and
gentle at all times.
It never uses clear seeing as evidence
to disqualify yourself.
For if you have the capacity to be
honest with yourself, you will
inevitably see yourself in one or
more of these modes of deflection.
This does not and cannot affect one's
worth, but it does make it safe
to be you without walls.
What do you do to deflect rather
than pause and receive?
Then consider the following
question...
Can I just shut up, open up and
receive this moment?
Because your truth, the truth in you,
is present and available to you in
every moment.
But you, my dear, have simply never
allowed yourself to receive that GIFT.
***
Prayer for the Day
Today I inwardly bow before
the isness of each moment of
my life and deeply accept.
Above all else I want to see.
Amen
***
06/17/2026
Thought for the Day
Somewhere around two decades
ago, Pam and I went to a well
known Sikh healer.
At the time, neither of us had
anything in particular going on
with us physically, so this predates
her Lyme disease and Parkinson's.
We were both very curious about
being able to experience her
method of healing firsthand.
And we did have an agenda,
for we hoped that she would
be willing to teach us about
what it was that she did.
She didn't use tables or any-
thing.
We simply laid on the floor
while she sat on the floor
next to us.
Never actually touching our
physical body, she worked from
approximately 12-18 inches
above us.
Here hands worked busily in
the energetic field which
emanates from the physical
body itself.
As she began working with Pam,
she looked up and, gazing into my
eyes, said the following to me.
"She is very very deep."
I remember feeling both
happy and sad at the time.
For while I was happy for my
best friend, I felt both sad
and jealous, because I knew
that no one would ever say
that about me.
I wasn't deep, though I had
met a few who I knew had
discovered a boundless
depth within themselves.
Everytime I used to gaze into
Baba's eyes while he was yet
alive, I could not remain there
for long because I would
inevitably feel myself falling
into the endless abyss of his
being.
I would begin to experience
a boundless nose dive into
Eternity.
And I needed to put the skid
on things real fast, lest I too
fall into that place where he
lived out all the exceedingly
precious moments of his life.
That was just how it was with
Baba.
When you made eye contact
with him, you would get sucked
right on in there along with him.
And if you did not start back
peddling fast, you ran the risk of
being pulled into an Infinity from
which there could be no return.
No one ever told me this. I just
knew it.
I knew that I knew that I knew
that nothing truer could ever be
spoken.
He knew such a profound
intimacy with himself which
seemed so vast and endless.
He always seemed so utterly
lost in his own beautiful
depths.
And the look upon his face?
The light which emanated from
him and the beatific gaze
of his countenance silently
shared an unspeakable peace.
It had a palpable magnetism
about it which drew you in
right along with him.
So why am I telling you all
this?
Because my one so-called
accomplishment in 73 years
of life in this particular body
is that I can say with all
sincerity that I too have
found this relationship with
myself.
But in order to begin this
incredible journey without
end, you have to be profoundly
honest with yourself and look
at all the many ways in which
you deflect throughout your
day in order to avoid such
intimacy.
And after you have gotten
honest with yourself about all
your particular habits, patterns
and behaviors, your m.o. so
to speak, then you have to
embark on the journey of
catching yourself red handed
in the act of actively avoiding
your own beautiful heart
and the boundless depths
within you.
For here is the only meaning
that a human life has and is,
to discover your own magnificent
self.
I loved Chogyam Trungpa
Rinpoche. He was such a wild
man and had such an outrageously
untamed spirit.
He used to say, "I've got good
news and I've got bad news. Which
do you want first?"
And depending upon what the
individual said, he would then
give it to them straight.
"You are falling and you have got
no parachute. But the good news
is that there is no bottom."
What do you do thousands of times
a day to prevent yourself from
beginning your exploration of
your own infinite depths?
I can promise you that what you will
find cannot be found with any other
person in this planet.
And when you find it, you will want
for nothing else in this lifetime.
It will become the most important
thing in the entire Cosmos to you.
You could lock me in a dungeon
for the rest of my life or give me a
billion dollars which were tax free
and it would not light a candle to
the love affair upon which I have
embarked with my own boundless
and beautiful heart.
This is my one and only accomp-
lishment in this life and the one
gift I have to offer this world: To
never ever stop this love affair
that I am having with myself and
to share the light of this love with
all the world.
So that is your assignment for
today.
Work with seeing the myriad of
ways in which you deflect
because you feel that the skillet
is getting a little too hot for your
tastes.
And then see if, rather than
deflect, you can hit your pause
button and relax deeply, while
watching your breath.
Then let yourself begin to free fall
into your own boundless depths.
Beloved, you can do it.
You were born for this.
***
Prayer for the Day
Let it be today, this day,
that I commence upon
my own beautiful and
boundless journey into
the tabernacle of my own
inner most being.
For I wish above all things,
to know myself.
Amen
***
06/16/2026
Thought for the Day
You are not a product of your past.
You are not a product of your history.
You are not a product of your story.
You are not a product of your ancestors
or your gene pool.
You are not a product of your trauma.
None of it was ever personal.
Unless, of course, you choose to believe
that it was.
Forget everything you have been brain-
washed into believing is true.
From here on out, it's your life, on your
terms, lived your way, each and every
day.
Fly high where those wings of yours
take you.
You are the only one who gets to
decide how that will look and feel.
And trust turns it all into an magic
carpet ride.
Who can choose happiness over
misery but you?
Who can choose peace over turmoil
and suffering?
Who can choose FREEDOM over the
endless monotony of the known?
Aren't you weary of the same o'
same o' recycled, repetitive and
regurgitated way of living which
is a byproduct of the belief in
personal personhood?
Who but you, my dear, has the
courage and the kahunas to do
and to be all that is possible
and more?
***
Prayer for the Day
Grant me courage to walk right up
to the edge of that cliff and fly....
Amen
***
06/15/2026
Thought for the Day
Short and sweet goes the thought
which is offered you today, but
filled to overflowing with unparalleled
promise as well as infinite potential.
In every moment, the Infinite is
sweeping over you, washing through
you, overcoming the illusion of
the exiled and separated self.
It is above you. It is below you.
It is in front of you and in back.
It is to the side of you and inside
of you, ever tugging at your heart
strings.
Will this be the moment when you
will allow yourself to connect
with your own unassailable truth?
A light so bright and scintillating
that it is entirely beyond all human
comprehension.
And the sixty-four thousand dollar
question?
Will today be the day that you
hit your pause button and be
still long enough to take a
breather and consciously open
your entire being to it, allowing
it to utterly ravish you?
Would you offer it yourself,
your story and the little kingdom
which you have built?
Only to have it all returned to
you, minus the pathos, drama
and fictional elements which
could not withstand the light of
truth?
Or will you continue to insist
on playing the silly little game
of you, the personal self?
Because the truth is, once you
connect with the soul, it will be
impossible for you to ever again
feel bereft of hope.
Perhaps that is the real reason
you have been avoiding the
request all along?
What are you so afraid of?
That, my dear, is a question
worthy of heartfelt exploration
on your own behalf today.
That is, if you are the least bit
curious about what your own
best interests happen to be.
***
Prayer for the Day
As the Klingons profess,
today is a very good day to die.
And so it is.
Amen
***
06/14/2026
Thought for the Day
Do you realize that 99.99%
of this planet deeply believes
with all their heart's that they
have to become something
different from what they are?
They should be something more.
They should be somehow better.
They need to change somehow.
Who they are and how they are
is not good enough, in need of
fixing, and they must work hard
in order to become something
more because to give oneself
permission to simply be is entirely
out of the question.
But you are part of that elite group
of people on this planet, the 0.01%
who are beginning to grasp that you
do not need to be different than you
already are.
In fact, dare I say it?
Some of you are peaceful more often
than not and are beginning to truly
love and accept yourselves.
Oh sure, sometimes you forget
and get mad at yourself for some-
thing...
I shouldn't have said that...
I should have done that differently...
And sometimes you judge the shit
out of someone else...it's almost
knee jerk and so intense...
But most of the time....
And more often than not...
It's hands off the merchandise.
Live and let live is a philosophy
which you can get behind and
peacefully live your life.
So that's the assignment for day.
A wide berth for everyone, especially
yourself.
Because you know and I know that
it is has always been you who were
your harshest critic.
But today...everyone get's a smile
and permission to be exactly the
way they are.
No second guessing allowed,
especially of yourself.
No judge, jury or prosecutor...
And have a wonderful Sunday as
you allow miracles to abound.
***
Prayer for the Day
May miracles abound today
as I give all of us permission
to be exactly as we are, to do
precisely what we do, knowing
that each of us is a perfect
version of both who and how
we came here to be.
Unconditional means without
conditions or expectations of
any kind.
An open hand is a hand which
is open.
The instruction to stay in my own
lane means precisely that.
And hands off means no judging,
tinkering or feeling better than or
less than allowed.
Today we each get a T-shirt
to wear proudly which says,
"Designed perfectly by God."
Let me wear mine proudly and
remember to smile... (a lot)
Amen
***
06/13/2026
Thought for the Day
Today we experiment.
Afterall, life is supposed to be fun,
isn't it?
We operate at all times under the
same basic premise:
There is so much more to this
life than what being a human
being has shown me, so much
more than I have been allowing.
The world has preached at you
your entire life, sometimes silently
and sometimes not so silently,
that the way you are is a limitation.
So you have come to believe that
your humanity is a problem.
You have grown up with shame
and guilt, and your entire life
you have felt like you were not
good enough.
No matter how hard you tried, no
matter what you tried, you knew
you did not measure up and more
than likely never would no matter
what.
Consequently, you have spent your
entire life loathing, despising and
disdaining who and what you are.
As a result, you became your own
pet project. You have spent your
entire life thus far trying to fix or
change yourself.
You heard it from your family.
It was preached at you from the
pulpit, and if you are not good
enough for God, then you are
seriously fucked.
So the whole notion of God be-
came something you feared or
just quit believing in at all, to
maintain some sense of sanity
in a world over which you felt
in over your head.
As if that were not enough, you
got it at school, and as you
continued to grow, you got it from
bosses, coworkers, your spouse
or partner, your neighbors, social
media, it was plastered on billboards
and shouting at you from the
television and even from the big
screen!
The subliminal messages were
everywhere, trying to sell you
promises which never delivered.
So much time, effort, energy and
resources devoted to things which
never panned out.
Mountains of money only to find
another dead end.
Hustling to stay relevant, schmoozing
and kissing ass to fit in and belong,
always spinning those wheels of yours
as fast as you can so you do not
have to feel how much pain you're in.
Is it any wonder you turned to
addiction?
Drugs, alcohol, online shopping,
excessive exercising, dieting, sex,
gambling, food...
You name it and you've tried it.
Everything works until it doesn't any
longer. It's not sustainable and it
doesn't really fill the hole you feel
in your heart. That ache that never
goes anywhere, no matter what
you do.
But today, we are going to try some-
thing different.
Today our motto is, "I don't have to
waste my time resisting anything."
"If everything in this world has the
same foundation, a foundation
composed of the Infinite Itself,
then the something more that we
have been talking about all week
is always here."
"I have become far too preoccupied
with form and the cost has been
that I have lived a limited life. The
Infinite potential of which everything
is composed has been entirely un-
available to me."
"Non-resistance is a doorway.
Let me open my heart to that
possibility."
So your steps are as follows:
(1) Stop resisting. You know when you
are feeling yourself start to contract.
You would recognize that inner cringe
anywhere.
(2) Come back to your breath. This is
not optional.
(3) Soften and open like a sunflower
does before the sun.
(4) Offer a little prayer of sorts in
your own words. Something which
says essentially, "I am ready to be
shown what is possible here."
(5) Be curious. Are you consciously
open to the miraculous?
This is all.
You cannot bitch and moan about
something not working if you have
never seriously given it a try.
So today is all about field testing.
Today we experiment and let the
results speak for themselves.
Isn't it about time that you got on
with why you came here to experience
a human life in the first place?
***
Prayer for the Day
I am open to be shown all that
I have not allowed because
I was too afraid to live BIG.
I am sick and tired of marching
to the the world's drum.
I live on a planet of unhappy
people and I don't plan to
be one of them any longer.
Please show me the way.
Amen
***
06/12/2026
Thought for the Day
TGIF, right?
It's been some kind of week,
has it not?
A simple practice is offered for today
with which we begin our weekend.
Each time you feel tempted to feel
irked by someone, upset, judgmental,
or dismissive, I want you to hit
your pause button and ask yourself
the following question:
How could anything be missing in
any of us on a spiritual level?
Only the spiritual level is real, for
only the spiritual level remains
steadfast and changeless.
It is the same yesterday, today and
forever.
Nothing is ever born.
Nothing ever dies.
And truth is that there is so much
more to each of us than the repeated
base code from which the habitual
self or ego is formed, only to become
the framework of that particular
individual's human experience.
They have no more control over
the particulars of their habitual
self than you have over yours.
Besides, remember...
Mirror universe.
This person is just showing me what
I have not yet made peace with
within myself.
Let me bring peace, kindness and
acceptance to this part of me and
by thus, set us both free.
For the ultimate truth is that each time
you elect to return to your breath
and forgo the urge to once again
make a big deal out of something
which has absolutely no eternal
significance, the shackles which
have kept you bound fall away
and you are delivered to the door
of the miraculous where anything
and everything is possible.
Have a great weekend.
And remember, what makes any day
great in no way depends upon what
happens or does not happen.
What makes a day great is who you
consciously choose to bring to
the party.
***
Prayer for the Day
Help me bring FREEDOM and
miracles with me wherever I go
today and whatever I do.
Today is a good day to be free
and share that freedom with
all whom I encounter.
Amen
***
06/11/2026
Thought for the Day
Today we will attempt to take
yesterday's thought deeper.
This will be very difficult to wrap
words around, but let's take a stab
at it, shall we?
Hopefully we can shed some light
in the form of clarity around
the subject matter.
I had two different friends over
the weekend who were experiencing
stress and strain.
The particulars do not matter.
For wasn't it Einstein who said
that you cannot solve a problem
from the same level of conscious-
ness which created it?
And that is what we are talking
about here, a mind trying to fix
what does not need to be fixed
and which cannot be fixed by
the mind.
A new order of being which proffers
an open hearted perspective
is called for.
What does matter is that my friends
were experiencing their life situations
from the level of form rather
than content.
And that always leads to separation,
suffering and reactivity.
In other words, defenses....
You see, nothing about our lives
actually changes when we have
actualized the enlightened state
and embody it fully.
The things which pissed you off
yesterday are still going to be
there today.
And the anxiety, the frustration
and the desire to blame, to defend
and justify will still be there for you
to pick back up should you choose
to do so.
But this is you still very much
living your life from the outside
in.
Here, your experience of life can
get out of hand in a New York
minute and you feel like you are
trying to remain peaceful while
wrangling a fire hose.
In other words, the fact that
something more is coming
doesn't mean that suddenly,
you are going to get what
you have been dreaming for
and your life will be all hunky
dory from here on out.
What it does mean is that the
more you remain in your heart,
the more you remain peaceful,
the universe will show you
through the mundane aspects
of your life that something
greater is here.
Will you be open to it?
Because here's the deal...
When you think you need some-
thing, it is never going to happen.
But when you no longer need it
is when the universe gives it to
you, and through no effort of
your own.
In the heart, in peace, you find
that you resonate and are in
harmony with everything.
And when you are in harmony
with everything, everything
becomes available to you.
The miraculous becomes
available to you.
Take this energy into the moments
of your life and life will respond
in kind.
It always does.
This is how we find freedom.
The habitual self, or ego, experiences
life from the outside in.
It cannot do otherwise.
While the soul lives from the inside
out, and brings that presence,
that light and that love to every
life experience and that is the
when, where and how that miracles
happen.
For this happens to be the most
salient feature of life as soul,
the total absence of need.
In the absence of need, everything
in the entire cosmos begins to send
that same frequency, the frequency
of love back to you.
Beloved, at the level of your innermost
being, only generosity and abundance
are available to you and the universe
is so kind and benevolent.
Now it really is up to you how you
choose to live your life, but as for
me, I choose peace any day and
every day over the static of what life
delivers when you are coming from
the habitual self.
For the inner is the genesis of the
outer.
But only 100% of the time.
***
Prayer for the Day
I do not wish to live my life in
the hell of the remembered
and habitual self.
I have had my fill of that.
Why is it so difficult to remember
to live a heart centered life, a
life of peace and gentleness,
kindness and spaciousness?
Let me not forget today that
breath awareness is the key
that opens the floodgates of
the Infinite, for I would live
my life from the state of
heaven on earth.
Amen
***
06/10/2026
Thought for the Day
A short messge today...
A simple message today...
More is on its way...
How do we remain open and
receptive to this something more?
Through our conscious willingness
to align ourselves with our practice
from yesterday.
So keep on coming back to your
breath...
Keep coming back to your heart...
Keep on being you and loving
yourself the way that you are.
You need not change anything.
You need do nothing!
Be both a living invitation and an
example of one who has said yes!
I will be myself as I am and I will
stop tinkering with myself and my
experience.
And know this....
Each instant of peace that you
experience brings us all that much
closer to the ending of both time and
dreaming.
***
Prayer for the Day
Yes!
Yes!
I know why I am here.
For this I took birth.
Forever and forever only yes...
Amen
***
06/09/2026
Thought for the Day
So let's conclude our exploration
of what it means to live a truly
miraculous life.
Another way of describing it
would be to refer to it as the
embodied state of liberation.
And to think, it is easy as pie.
Simply close your eyes and
relax while bringing awareness
to your breath.
You will begin to feel the sweetest
calm begin to move through
you.
This is the natural state; a state
freed of the habitual self or ego.
This state is highly restorative.
Drink it in.
Here, you feel an entire shift in
your state of being.
It is okay for you to live your life
from your natural state. You can
still do you and your life from here.
To think, you are never further
away from this field than a
single breath which is taken
with rapt attention or awareness.
The first thing you notice when
here is peace, followed by an
awareness of how complete
you feel.
Why would anyone wish to leave
this place in favor of a life of
survival, suffering and uncertainty?
Freedom from the habitual self
is the gift of breath awareness.
And the natural state is your
golden ticket into infinite
possibility and potential, which
is just another way of describing
the miraculous.
Here you feel so much love for
yourself.
And here you realize that it is
only through loving yourself
so utterly and so completely
that you can share the wealth
with others.
This...this is the purpose of a
human life fulfilled...to be
so completely connected with
yourself and to live your life this
way.
Take rest here today.
And take this blessing with you.
"Eye hath not seen nor ear hath
heard what God has prepared
for you."
I Corinthians 2:9
Let's find out, shall we?
***
Prayer for the Day
To think that when I felt
so much angst as a child
and told my Father in
answer to his question of
"What do you want?" that
what I was asking for was
to be freed of me.
Freed of the habitual self.
The self which suffers,
feels hopelessly lost and
alone, the self which knows
not peace.
I give thanks today for the
sanctity of the breath.
For this is the true wealth of
a human life.
Amen
***
06/08/2026
Thought for the Day
Now that you have had the past
two days to work with what
it feels like to live a truly
remarkable and mysteriously
miraculous life which is filled
to overflowing with surprises,
possibilities and synchronicities,
we will add a final dimension or
facet to our practice.
Last week we spoke of this world
being a mirror universe.
This is not a new idea to anyone,
for psychologists have been telling
us for the past 50 years that
what we see in others or our world
is what we are most in denial of
about ourselves.
Although a good beginning, this
is not a clear enough understanding
of what a mirror dimension actually
is.
Simply stated, a mirror dimension
is a feeling based world.
Everything, down to the last nano-
particle, about what happens in
your world, both inner and outer,
is showing you how you really
and truly feel about yourself
beneath all the things in which
you try to hide behind.
Simply stated, if your life sucks
and nothing seems to be going
right for you, what do you think
your life is trying to tell you
about how you feel about yourself?
I hate myself = I hate my life.
The question is not whether or
not you are committed and
consistent, the question is, what
emotional and psychological
states am I committed to and
consistent with?
For it is impossible to be alive
and not be committed to and
consistent with something.
Be it self-pity, victim conscious-
ness, the need to be right all
the time, angry, insulant, being
a bully, cruelty, you name it.
You get the picture.
So the final facet to our practice
is to be consciously aware of
what you are actually committed
to and being willing to be honest
with yourself about whether or not
these particular feeling states
are going to bring you the kind
of life you really want to experience.
If they are not, then what kind
of life do you wish to experience?
As for me, I choose a peaceful and
harmonious life which is filled
with love, laughter and deLIGHTful
surprises.
And I know this is and always will
be the nature of my life because
I have learned to love myself so
tenderly and so completely, to
have profound compassion for
myself, acceptance, gentleness,
patience and kindness for me.
I cherish peace above all else.
Can it really be a surprise that
my life is a reflection of this?
There is a very beautiful idea which
is postulated in ACIM which tells
us that in the beginning, God put
Adam in a very deep sleep, but no-
where in the Bible does it say that
Adam ever woke up.
If this world really is the Matrix
and you are still dreaming, what
kind of world will you dream for
yourself today?
***
Prayer for the Day
I choose a miraculous life.
Amen
***
06/07/2026
Thought for the Day
A simple enough practice is offered
you today. Repeat it every time the
thought to do so crosses your mind,
reminding you to repeat the exercise.
It is a practical guide for practicing
what it means to live your life in
an abiding state of the miraculous.
Here are the steps:
(1) Close your eyes as you hit your
pause button.
(2) Bring your awareness to your
breath.
Noticing the entire inhalation.
Noticing the entire exhalation.
Feel yourself down shifting into
neutral as you do so.
Noticing that as you do, you become
aware of a more universal energetic state
which is no longer simply yours, it is ours.
Here you are aware of our light,
our love, our presence...
Here, you know that we are One.
One Life...
One Love...
One Heartbeat...
(3) See, sense or imagine a door which
is standing before you.
(4) Feel yourself reach for the door's
handle. Gently turn the knob and
open the door.
(5) Behind this door there is effulgent
golden light.
This is the door to the Everywhere.
This is the door to Everything.
Perhaps you will see the light.
That is not what is important.
What is vital, however, is to take
a moment to bask in its warmth,
to feel its peace.
(6) Feel yourself gliding through
that door.
You are one with this light. It is
a part of you, and you are a part
of it.
(7) After you relax here for as long
as feels natural for you to do so,
gently open your eyes.
Now go about your day as it unfolds.
(8) Can you take the feeling tonality
you experienced behind the door
with you as you go about your day
today?
Can you be in this world, yet not
of this world at all?
You deserve your commitment
to this practice.
You deserve your own consistency.
The only question is, how worthy do
you feel you are of both your
commitment and your consistency?
But know this...
How frequently you practice today
will be an irrefutable demonstration
of your answer to this question.
For your life is always a demonstration
of what is true for you.
Your life is your message.
It cannot be otherwise.
***
Prayer for the Day
Please bless my practicing
today.
Blessed soul, please stoke the fire
of my commitment to you,
my commitment to myself,
for you are that light
which illuminates the entire
universe.
Amen
***
06/06/2026
Thought for the Day
There are four qualities
one needs to possess in each
moment in order to be truly
miracle minded; to be a living
invitation for the miraculous.
They are as follows:
(1) One must be peaceful.
(2) One must be curious.
(3) One must be entirely open,
as was discussed yesterday.
One must know that literally
everything is possible in every
single moment of their life.
(4) One must surrender their
tendency to create their own
agendas, plans and lists.
It takes great courage to live
in a perpetual state of the
unknown.
And one cannot begin to do
this if they do not trust.
This life will never amount to much
for anyone on this planet
if they do not learn to trust in
the unknown.
For trust is implicit to any life
which is well lived.
Trust is the fruit of relationship
in which you know you are loved,
cherished and never alone.
A relationship such as this can
only be found with the soul
or God.
And there you have it.
These are the preliminaries for
one who wishes to live a life
which is entirely miracle minded.
Shall we give it a whirl today?
Please jot me an email and share
your favorite miracle which
transpires today.
I wish you a sweet and effervescent
Saturday,
May your day be filled to over-
flowing with the miraculous.
***
Prayer for the Day
May my entire being be
like a cascading waterfall;
ever flowing with love
and receptivity, entirely
open to the miraculous in
every moment.
Amen
***
06/05/2026
Thought for the Day
What do you think might happen
today if, just for one tiny instant,
you were to open your entire being
so completely that you were utterly
transparent?
As transparent, in fact, as water?
And you did this because you knew
that literally everything was infinitely
possible and open to you in each
moment?
And what if you knew that the
only limitation to your receiving
depended solely upon how much
or how little you were open
to receiving?
It is not the universe which has
been holding back on you,
my dear.
It's you who are open to so little.
Because the truth is that you are
radically loved and supported
by a universe which wants every-
thing for you.
What will be the possibilities
that you are open to receiving
today?
How much or how little are you
willing to open your heart to?
Let's find out.
***
Prayer for the Day
I'll take one of everything
today with a cherry on top
pretty please.
Amen
***
06/04/2026
Thought for the Day
Today's thought builds upon
yesterday's.
At first you will not see the
connection but bear with me,
it will become abundantly
clear and in most cases,
provide you with a necessary
epiphany that will leave
you at an important cross-
road.
Either I continue doing what
I have always done and getting
the same results, or I decide
to take a giant leap of faith
in the trusting yourself depart-
ment.
Afterall, it is high time I put
liberation back into my own
hands where it belonged in
the first place.
It's all fine and good for me
to tell you every day that there
is nothing wrong with you,
that you are not broken and
you do not need fixing.
You are perfect as you are
and that it is the strangest
paradox yet oh-so-true that
loving your humanity, as it
is, is the key that unlocks
the door to freedom.
And many of you have gotten
quite good at parroting these
exact words back to me.
And yes, you have brought more
acceptance and more love
into your life and have genuine
glimpses of ecstatic freedom
and you know more peace than
you ever have.
Yet you are addicted to your
practices.
You will not part with these
daily rituals under any
circumstances, nor will you
question why you are still
doing them.
And I get it.
Take for example, meditation.
In some cases, you even
learned to meditate from me
decades ago.
But as I am most fond of repeating
to you from the 13th chapter
of I Corinthians, "When I was
a child I spoke as a child, I
thought as a child, I reasoned
as a child. But when I became
an adult, I put away childish
things," you must start to
question why you were asked
to do something long ago
and then look clearly at why
you are choosing to continue
them now when they no longer
serve who you are today.
Was I purposefully teaching
you a lie to keep you barking
up the wrong tree?
Certain practices are great
when one begins because they
help you learn to stop running
away from yourself.
They help still the mind and
relax the body, something which
you did not know how to do
when we first met.
But you are no longer in
kindergarten.
The price of moving forward
is the same for everyone
on this planet.
You have to let go of the old
to create a space for the new.
For it is at this point that
you are now ready to leave the
practice behind.
This you must be willing to do
if you wish to go further.
Now I am going to make a very
bold statement here so listen
with the utmost care and an
open heart.
Practices are a place where
you can safely hide from
yourself while convincing
yourself that you are working
on yourself and hopefully,
making progress.
It is time to stop bullshitting
yourself about why you
do what you do. For that is
far more important for you
to see than the actual ritual
in which you are engaging.
No more hiding.
Get it?
Hiding is something that you
have gotten quite skillful at.
Here you never ever have to
look at what you are doing
and acknowledge why
you are doing it.
I would rather see you look
into a mirror and love the
human being that you see
gazing back at you for 5 solid
minutes than spend another
useless moment on practices
that helped you get to where
you are today, but can take
you no further.
You may have convinced
most of the world about the
nobility and necessity of what
you are doing, but if you
are willing to be totally honest
with yourself, they are a means
to hold onto fear.
Fear has kept many beautiful
people stuck on the hamster
wheel of old and outdated
religious and spiritual practices,
where you can secretly keep
working on yourself so others
will admire your dedication and
devotion, but you know and
I know that you are using the
practice as a means to seek but
do not find.
Name me one practice that
has ever yielded a result which
was sustainable and could be
lived in daily life 24/7/365?
Yet I can tell you that I truly
meditate 24 hours a day.
I am always meditating.
But I never have to sit on
a cushion in order to do so.
My life is my meditation
and my guru.
Each day life faithfully delivers
me the experiences I need
to go through in order to fully,
completely and radically be me,
loving the self I am while
doing so.
I am always looking at why I am
doing whatever I am doing and
consciously doing it with great
tenderness, mindfulness,
love and care.
I am my own advocate.
And this way of living is
sustainable. Not just some
of the time, but all of the
time.
Please do not waste another
instant trying to change the
mirror.
And please do not waste another
instant trying to change your-
self.
Look for what is hiding behind
your unwillingness to part
with your practices.
Either you are good enough
the way you are and loving your-
self is the path of freedom,
or what I share here every day
is a pile of horse shit and you
can go back to doing what you
are doing, tell me to take a hike
off of a very short pier, and
live out what remains of your
precious human life circling
the drain in your own private
hellscape.
Please hear me...
It is okay for you to be exactly
the way that you are.
In fact, I kinda love it.
And as for me?
I'll keep saying it until the
cows come home...
I would rather really and truly live
and die for what my heart knows
is true, even though it flies in the
face of what the world and religion
has brainwashed you into believing
is true, than to continue to live a lie.
Because I happen to believe
that underneath all these things
that you keep doing which are
relics and rituals of a time
gone by is that I think you
are allergic to being happy.
And above all, you are terrified
of being free and living your life
in that freedom.
***
Prayer for the Day
Support me in my decision
to stop running away from
myself.
Amen
***
06/03/2026
Thought for the Day
Today I awakened with one
thought streaming through the
mind repeatedly, like a ticker
tape, and it was this...
No one, under any circumstances,
is ever special.
Nothing increases your value or
worth and nothing can ever
decrease it.
Remind yourself of this often
today, for the idea of specialness
creeps into your life in countless
ways each day.
All the while, you let it go by
unnoticed and unquestioned.
This is how you create the illusion
of separation, by labeling people
according to a hierarchy of worth,
the scale of which was created by
none other that you, I might add.
Who died and made you potentate
of the world?
I can hear some of you already.
"I used to do that, but I don't
anymore. I don't believe that it
is true."
You are deceiving yourself.
But today, you will not.
Today you will notice how you
reinforce separation through
the belief in specialness.
And you do it both ways.
Especially good as well as especially
bad.
Truth is, we are all equal, worthy
of love and respect, dignity
and autonomy.
Give everyone this.
Give yourself this.
See if you cannot feel the statement's
truthfulness as you look each person
squarely in the eye today with each
and every encounter.
Never allow yourself to forget this
as you brush up against life today.
Either no one is special or we
all are.
And it is this essential equality,
or sameness, which makes us ONE.
We are all in the selfsame boat
and we are all trying to do our best,
even though it is unnecessary to do
so, as we walk each other home.
This is the world you will witness
and experience today if this
is the world that you wish to see.
***
Prayer for the Day
There Is Only God.
This is God. That is God.
Everyone and everything
is God, and therefore part
of me.
Amen
***
06/02/2026
Thought for the Day
It is your ability to step out of
the loop of time, and everything
that has occurred in time, for
a single instant, which makes
all things possible.
Here is the door to freedom
plain and clear.
A couple of decades ago, I had
the opportunity to meet a very
famous woman.
She was the author of several
books which had been described
as "seminal."
Owner of a famous healing center
that attracted very sick individuals
from all over the world who were
willing to part with their entire
life savings, based on the furtive
hope that they would be healed.
And enough people actually were
healed each year to establish the
center as a place which we all need
to visit one day.
She also had an ashram where people
came to learn the path in detail which
she taught. Here they could follow it,
silently, doing everything she prescribed,
as well as receive the added boon
of learning to read and write Sanskrit.
Yet she had made a rather secretive
appointment to come and spend
an entire day with me.
And she had flown thousands of
miles (in her private plane) in order
to do so.
And why?
People came to her in search of
peace, looking for truth.
Yet she shared she knew no peace
herself.
Oh, she could prop it up and make
it look enticing on the outside to
those who were suffering and looking
for answers.
Why, several of her books had been
on the New York Times top 10
reading list for over a year!
She was also the founder of one
of the largest and most well known
'green organizations' on the planet,
believing deeply in the path of
good works.
Yet on the inside, she spoke of
feeling like a train wreck.
And she had no one in her life with
which she could share all of this,
having invested decades of her life
creating an empire that attracted
thousands and made millions each
year.
I explained that she was welcome
to come and spend the day with me.
We could chat as I went about my
day and I would be happy to share
with her, but I had no path to teach
her, no specific set of practices that
she could follow. And, heaven forbid,
absolutely no rules!
As she followed me around like
a little puppy dog asking me
questions, I turned to her and
looked her squarely in the eye
as I shared the oh-so-inconvenient
truth that all that she had created
was a total farce.
In no uncertain terms I shared that
shilling people out of their life savings
by charging exorbitant fees which only
served to make them doubt themselves
and judge themselves as failures was
something I just could not do when
I knew that none of that would ever
bring anyone any closer to the truth
nor give them peace.
For the truth is that you need do
nothing and loving yourself the way
that you are is the key to the kingdom.
There was no way to create an empire
by stringing people along, offering
them false promises if they followed
her way and her teachings to the letter
of the law, that would actually let her
sleep peacefully at night and feel joy
while doing so.
You cannot live the truth yourself,
yet share a lie that sends people down
another dead end, thinking they can
change themselves, by learning and
earning their way to liberation.
In the afternoon, she had a break-
through.
She got it. And the beatific smile
upon her face shared silently
what could never be spoken in
words.
In that instant she had gained
the universe.
And it had cost her nothing.
But sadly, she knew that to actually
live it would cost her everything
she had built her life upon.
There was no way she could
continue promoting all she
taught and shared.
Her world would need to change.
And you know what happened
next?
It left me dumbstruck and still
does to this day whenever I recall
what happened next.
She looked me dead in the eye
and told me she had to go
back home right now, this very
instant, back to her old life,
because there was no way
she would ever give up what
she had invested a lifetime in
building, there was no way she
would shut it all down and
turn people away.
She had to get back to her life
of stress, fixing, changing and
improving the ego, and teaching
others to do likewise, back to her
life of unhappiness and overwhelm.
About a month later, she actually had
a five foot Buddha statue shipped
to me from India with a thank you
note.
I have an Indian friend who has
said to me several times throughout
the course of our relationship with
one another, "Amma, don't you feel
terrible that you wasted so much
time doing all those things that took
decades of your life away from you,
only to find in the end that none of it
was required, none of it contained
the answers that you heart had yearned
for and therefore would not work?"
And I always tell her the very same
thing.
"All those things are what made me
who I am today and they are what
has made me relatable to others
who are searching for answers to
their misery. I have no regrets. I am
grateful for every step I ever took.
They led me here. They led me to
you did they not?"
But it is true.
I did walk away from it all. Every
damn bit of it.
And happily I would do it again
and again to know what I know
today.
I look at the face which stares
back at me in the mirror each day
and I happen to like her. I respect
her. She has so much integrity and
she has complete autonomy and
agency over her life.
She doesn't give a shit what
other people think.
She follows the call of peace
in her own heart with every breath.
Her life, not her words, are her
message. Her life shouts peace
in silence unto a world which
knows it not.
This always makes me think
of a line in A Course In Miracles
which says, "never was so much
given for so little."
And I will leave you all with this...
if you want freedom and
the peace which passes all
understanding, happily I will
show you how to find it from
within.
I cannot give it to you.
I cannot give you anything.
But I can show you that you are
your own answer, and the path
to freedom is found nowhere
other than within the tabernacle
of your own heart.
It is your own love for which you
have been searching all along.
You are the mosque, the temple,
the sanctuary, the church.
Let us stand together, shoulder
to shoulder, for together, we have
the glorious opportunity to usher
in A New Earth.
***
Prayer for the Day
Yes. I will be that one.
Amen
***
06/01/2026
Thought for the Day
How about a very simple thought
for today and an easy means
by which it may be seen and
practiced throughout your day?
Everything related to time is
impermanent.
Both time and eternity cannot
coexist.
The most salient feature of the Eternal
is that there is no where that it is not.
There is no room in Eternity for time.
Therefore, one is real and one has
been made as an attempt to fool you,
make you compliant and by thus,
imprison you.
Because of this, the only illusion one
needs to dispel is the belief in
time itself.
It takes the belief in time to believe
in the reality of the personal self.
For the personal self owes it entire
seeming existence to time.
No time, no personal self.
If there is no personal self, who is
there who can personalize anything?
Time is a massive delusion which has
been perpetrated against all humanity
and it has imprisoned your entire
planet in its web.
What happens to all things born of
time if you dispel the illusion of
time itself?
Does not everything which has occurred
in time disappear along with it?
So here is the exercise for today.
With every feeling, every thought,
every deed, every encounter, every
circumstance or life situation, hit
your pause button and ask yourself
the following question:
Is this of time or is it of Eternity?
If it occurs in time, you need not
concern yourself or dance with it.
You know it is impermanent and
therefore it depends upon the
Matrix for its seeming existence
or reality.
That is how the following acronym
for fear came about: false events
appearing real.
If the answer to your question is
that this is temporal, simply bring
your awareness back to your breath
and your heart, and do not hesitate
a single instant to drop it like a hot
potato.
Some thoughts of which you might
remind yourself are as follows:
I will not swallow the blue pill today.
This is born of time. I need not make
mountains out of mole hills over this.
I determine how I wish to feel. I will
not allow this to disturb my peace.
If it is ruinous to peace, I know it
is time related.
I will not bite the hook. I choose to
remain sovereign and free.
Never ever let yourself forget that in
the moment where you can no longer
be disturbed by yourself or anyone
else, you are permanently established
in Eternity.
For beloved, you are Eternity itself.
***
Prayer for the Day
I cannot be enslaved by anything
unless I have identified with the
personal self and thereby given
the power of Eternity Itself away.
There is no spoon.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=
XO0pcWxcROI
Amen
***